When does it make you feel that the other person is not listening to you very carefully?

Sometimes when I talk to others, he doesn't look at me, or his eyes wander everywhere, or when I ask him a word, he doesn't pay attention to me for a long time, which means that he is not listening to me very carefully.

It's when you keep talking and then suddenly stop, and find that the other person doesn't know what, it's just the kind of stunned expression, then you will find that the other party didn't listen to what you just said.

When she told the other party the solution to the problem very seriously, she kept picking her fingers, or looking elsewhere, she really didn't listen to me carefully, and she didn't feel very attentive.

Let's say that after you say a lot of things, and then the other person suddenly asks you: Huh? What you just said, when you look like this, you are very angry, obviously, he just didn't listen to what you said.

When I explained something to the other party very seriously, he looked left and right, his eyes were extremely unstable, and I felt that he was not listening to me very carefully.

Riding a chair, "riding a chair" is a more alternative way of sitting on a chair, and in life, such a posture is not very common. If your interlocutor takes such an extreme posture while listening to you, it shows that he has a deep resistance to you, even an offensive one.

When I said something very serious to the other party, she was still giggling there, and she was definitely not listening to me, after all, it was so serious.

After talking to him for a long time, he didn't reply a word, or was doing his own thing, ignoring me at all, and replying to me perfunctorily, I could clearly feel that he didn't want to deal with me.

A very important thing, you told him for a long time, but in the end he didn't react at all, when you asked him if you heard it, he said what you said, but he said it again, he still didn't respond.

Why do people sometimes listen carefully to someone's speech, but don't know what the other person is saying?

Hello! It's a pleasure to serve you! I listened very carefully, but I didn't understand it, which may be due to the following reasons:

1. What he said is relatively unfamiliar to you, and you haven't heard much about it. 2. He doesn't speak clearly enough, but he doesn't express it clearly enough 3. You usually don't talk to people very often, and your reaction is a little slower, and you can't keep up with the rhythm of the other party. 

The most important thing to do is to make your words clear so that the other person understands what you are saying. If you don't make a slurred speech, even if you say something colorful, the other party doesn't hear what you're saying, it's undoubtedly a failure. This requires you to be articulate and chew words in place. ‍‍

When speaking, you should be clear about right and wrong. Right is right, wrong is wrong, you support is support, opposition is opposition, you must have a clear position and a decisive attitude. This gives people a sense of justice and awe-inspiring, and makes people feel that you are full of righteous spirit and can distinguish between love and hate.

A clear stance will also boost your confidence, and the obedient person will be convinced by your confidence and will be willing to listen to you. ‍‍

If you want to really say what the other party likes to hear, you should first learn to listen sincerely, only listening carefully is a kind of respect for the other party, and you can better understand the meaning of the other party's words, so that you can give the most sincere advice after listening. ‍‍

If we talk about something, we have to explain it clearly in the most concise way, and we don't necessarily have to say the details. When expressing, the logic is clear and the expression is simple, so that others are willing to listen and can understand. ‍‍

Think more from the perspective of others, pay attention to the occasion, grasp the degree of relaxation and seriousness, learn more speaking skills, update your thesaurus, and smile more, which is the most useful trick. ‍‍

Natural sounds always sound pleasing to the ear. It's best to keep a natural tone in conversation and not pretend or pretentious, so that others will sound awkward. Use a general tone for general speech, not too high, and the harsh voice will cause disgust to the other party; And don't whisper like a thief.

When it comes to special content that needs to be emphasized, you can use a high tone to indicate the importance of the content. Natural intonation sounds natural to others. ‍‍

Be sure to pay attention to the tone of your speech during your speech, and try to maintain an easy-going and calm tone, giving people a sense of cordiality and ease. Even if the other person says something wrong and disrespects you, don't get angry. Communicate with the other person in an easy-going tone, and always make the other person feel that you are a measured and well-cultivated person.

An easy-going tone will also create affinity, bringing you closer to the listener; No one will listen to you if you are mean, arrogant and arrogant. ‍‍

Some people have a beautiful voice, and listening to them is simply a pleasure. The voice is very magnetic, very charismatic, and convincing to the obedient. Voices are born with, and each person has their own timbre.

Some people don't have a good voice, so they simply don't speak, which is not right, and the voice can also be adjusted through practice. Many singers are not born with a good voice, most of them have reached the level of beauty through hard work. Hanging your throat is the most effective way to do this. ‍‍

In human nature, the deepest desire is the desire to be valued by others. Without a team, he lacks something that makes others feel uncomfortable. In the process of our conversation, we should pay special attention to each other, so that the other party feels that he is unique in this world, and no one can make such valuable suggestions again, then he will definitely do his best to help us, and will care for you as the most loyal fan. ‍‍

If you want to make people interested in you, you have to be interested in them first. Sincerely care about each other and look for the topics he is best at and most interested in, then it will undoubtedly shorten the distance between the two of them. ‍‍

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1.The other party has a problem with his language skills, which is the kind that no one can understand;

2.What the other party says is too professional, and to understand it, you must have a certain understanding of what he is saying;

3.Personal reasons. Sometimes we are not interested in some of the remarks of some people, or we are not in the mood to listen to each other's chatter at a certain time, but we don't want to hurt the feelings of the other party, so in order to respect each other, we pretend to listen carefully to each other's speech, in fact, our hearts have flown out of the clouds to do a getaway!