When do you feel happy?

Happiness is actually a kind of self-feeling, which varies from person to person, some people think that living in a villa, driving a luxury car, wearing a famous brand is a kind of happiness, and some people are with their families, even if they have a coarse tea and light meal, it is also a kind of happiness. It is a kind of happiness for children to get their beloved toys, it is a kind of happiness for children in poor mountainous areas to put on new clothes and carry schoolbags to school, and I have simple requirements for happiness, and it is a kind of happiness to eat my mother's favorite meals for me after getting home from work, and I also feel full of happiness when I send me a beautiful bouquet of lilies on Women's Day. When I was sick, my colleagues and sisters cared about me, and it was also a kind of happiness to ask for warmth.

The moment I felt happy was when my son got married, and a daughter-in-law called me daddy, and my heart was warm, especially proud and happy. After my son got married, he gave birth to my little grandson in more than a year, and when my grandson would call him grandpa, I took him to play, and I felt extremely happy, and I felt very happy and happy at this time. The word happiness has far-reaching significance, and it is a blessing for a country to live and work in peace and contentment.

Happiness for a family. But how rich he is, and it is also a kind of happiness for his family to get along with Hemeimei. For work and life, when you have completed a certain project, when you return home, your wife and children are around you, and you live a harmonious life, isn't it a great happiness?

I think happiness is brought about by the gap, and it doesn't have much to do with what you have. For example, if I make a mistake, the expected punishment is a fine of 10,000 yuan, and in the end I am only warned, then I will have a sense of happiness, in fact, the mistake itself is not happy, but the gap between the expectation and the reality brings happiness. On the other hand, it is very simple to live in a feeling of unhappiness, which is to constantly improve your goal and make it farther and farther away from reality.

In 2014, when I had our first baby, I felt very happy: after we got married, we have been living separately, and the money is not rich, in order to save a little money, we get together less and leave more, when we first saw my son when we first saw my son, I felt very happy, all the previous pain felt worth it.

When I take my wife and children to the supermarket, when I reunite at home during the New Year's holidays, when I quiet down and chat with the people around me, I think life is very good!

Debt-free and light. Finally, I don't owe anyone anymore. I was happiest when I paid off my foreign debts.

With hardships and hard work, with falling down again and again and getting up with difficulty, with the concern for relatives, I did not fall down at the lowest point in my life, I survived again, and the happiness at that moment was very layered and full. If you are alive, you will be hopeful, and if you are alive, you will be happy!

In fact, the word happiness needs to be felt by yourself, there is no standard answer, some people think, drive a luxury car to live in a mansion, live in a villa, have more money, be happy, some people feel that the money is not much, and they feel happy when their family is together, and they rely on themselves to understand and feel.

When I was tired for a day, my wife brought up the footwashing water and said husband, you have worked hard! When everyone forgets my birthday, my wife makes a bowl of hot longevity noodles! After dinner, come and smoke 240 soft pieces, and 340 pieces in the world!

In fact, happiness is that the mouse has rice to eat! Cats have fish to eat, and happiness is simple! Happiness is everywhere!

In real life, many people often attribute their happiness to the material level, thinking that if they reach a certain age, do not have their own house, and do not have a relatively decent car, they will make themselves inward-spirited and have a kind of inferiority, thinking that they have a sense of frustration. In fact, I don't agree with this kind of thinking, although the material aspect is very important to us, but whether a person's heart is truly happy, in fact, is **in their own heart, **in their own mentality to maintain and adjust.

When other people around us are more successful in their careers, have their own luxury cars, and have their own spacious and bright houses, these will naturally make us envious, which is human nature, but we should also be aware of the people around us, these people can succeed, but also because of their own efforts, from their own innate advantages or a certain amount of luck, and for these, we should not be too entangled and care, many times, As long as we work hard enough, we will not be able to achieve the same living conditions as the other person, and we should not blame ourselves and be too annoyed.

In fact, like our parents' life at our age, there is no car and house at all, and even household appliances are luxuries for them, but they live happily with a silver and a long life, and the real sense of happiness is actually ** in their own hearts, many times, when we can look at ourselves objectively, look at some of our own advantages and their achievements, then we will no longer be annoyed by too much anxiety about life, when we envy others, In fact, those who have a house and a car may also envy us in some way, so in many cases we need to change ourselves, this too utilitarian mentality, in order to let ourselves truly find the true meaning of happiness and joy in life.

I think everyone has different feelings about happiness and different experiences, so I'll tell you about a time when I felt happy.

The first time I feel happy is when I sink into the flow.

Before entering the society, except for eating, sleeping and watching TV, it seems that I never really liked things, and the interests and hobbies column of my resume can only be filled in with the general "reading and writing".

Later, during the unemployed period after graduation, he gradually fell in love with the journal, reading and writing, and He Zhen really turned these general interests into his hobbies.

When doing these things, we don't care about the realization of returns, and we don't crave a result, which makes people intoxicated, makes people forget the flow of time, and does not feel tired.

Because this is something I like from the bottom of my heart, I prefer to do it at any time I want to start, and I won't resist and reject it like work.

The second is when you are recognized and inspired.

People have a strong sense of self-expression and satisfaction, and I am no exception, and I will also crave feedback and encouragement from the outside, but this desire is not to force, not to depend, but through my own efforts and actions, to win the recognition and encouragement of the outside world.

I have been a very inferior person since I was a child, and this extreme lack of self-confidence makes me always have a strong self-denial psychology when I do anything, and I feel as if I am a failure and unsuccessful in everything I do.

Later, when you start to create and practice, you will slowly begin to have certain achievements, and when the outside world begins to make positive incentives and affirmations for your achievements, you will sit down in the right place and feel that you really have such characteristics and abilities.

When I was worried that I couldn't do well because of low self-esteem, a professional instructor would always give me the greatest affirmation, and he would say: You are great, believe that you can do it.

When I share my growth, my online friends I don't know will encourage and praise my attitude towards life. I was full of encouragement, and I was extremely satisfied and happy at that time, so happiness is sometimes satisfaction, knowing my boundaries.

If you ask me when I feel the happiest, I will think of the Chinese New Year when I was a child, there were snowflakes floating in the sky, a few friends chasing and playing at the kitchen door, seeing the steamed buns and buns that had just come out of the pot, and I wanted to eat it hotly, it seemed that I could see the blurred back of my parents, busy with a hearty meal, and the diligence of my parents and the warmth of my home made me feel relaxed and happy, and I think it was the happiest at that time. Although the conditions are better now, there is a car and a house, and the food is better than before, but the parents are not here, how can they be happy? It is the son who wants to be filial and does not wait for his relatives.

When it is intimate, when it is a key or when the child has an income. In the dead of night, I always want to find a tranquility, find a space to be alone, and then let my thoughts drift with the wind, and escape for a while in the tranquility of cranky thoughts. When the soul can't bear the load of life, it can only send a signal to the sky that it is tired, too tired, and this feeling of tiredness is not something that ordinary people can imagine.

Every day I want to find peace in my soul, however, it is really difficult.

From the day people are born, they are destined to accompany a lifetime of emotions and unsatisfactory life, fate is doomed, if you want to change your fate, you have to contend with all the misfortunes and ups and downs, choose the appropriate escape, that is just useless futility. Escape may sometimes be just a minute, or you can only get a minute of silence, or maybe you suddenly realize in the tranquility that people can't live too tired. I often comfort myself in this way.

There is nothing in the world, and mediocrity disturbs itself. Maybe I'm just a philistine. Why look for tranquility in anything?

In fact, I want to hope for peace, in this extraordinary and bad day this year. I reflected and reflected. Most of the time I don't understand what I'm doing.

Kind of life. Kind of always tugging at people's minds on certain days. When it comes to the tranquility of seeking, everyone expects to have this moment.

For me, it may feel a little heavier in moments of solitude, but it's not absolute. Sometimes, although people are in a noisy and noisy environment, but the heart has already flown to the realm of not knowing what kind of, I often smile on my face, and I have seen through all the complicated things in my inner constancy.

People sometimes pretend to be a master of the world, but in fact, it is not the case, and the appearance of all this is also due to countless times of crawling, and then the end of reflection. There is no real excitement of benefits, no real heartfelt reverence for life and nature, no gratitude and appreciation for life and the world, no kind and transparent understanding, no kind and susceptible silver heart, no final awakening, and no natural tranquility and detachment.

In many cases, the motivation to seek tranquility is far greater than the force caused by all external things, and it may also be a process of excellence in the pursuit of tranquility for each individual. Why is that? I asked myself with a smile.

For a person who is truly integrated into life, will sigh at the wonder of the creation of the world. The heartfelt reverence and concern for life and nature is a sincere feeling of accompaniment and admiration.

When I found out that my colleague was saying bad things behind my back.

I have experienced a lot of things, and I feel that colleagues are actually quite indifferent, far less warm than family members.

As a man, he was able to support his family and get home from work with a hot meal.

The wife is gentle and virtuous, the children are motivated and sensible, and in their spare time, they do something they like, play games and see**.

If you have money, of course, you can also travel, which is a man's happiness.

As a woman, it is a woman's happiness to have a stable job of her own, so that she has the confidence not to reach out for money, her husband is considerate to her family, her children are filial, her family is harmonious, she is young and beautiful; Every type of person has their own sense of happiness, and I think this sense of happiness is not the same, just like Mr. Lu Xun said: The joys and sorrows of human beings are not connected, I only think they are noisy.

Nowadays, people like to feast and judge others from the moral high ground.

However, it is impossible for human individuals to empathize with these four words emotionally, because this sentence itself will be interpreted in the following way when understood in the current society:

1. Most of the time we don't care about the feelings of strangers at all, because this society makes everyone feel tired, and even if we want to care, it may be misunderstood as caring with other colors; 2. When we care about others, we don't actually understand the development of things, but we just try to understand from our own perspective, so we are undoubtedly creating a fake intimate relationship and trying to pull in the relationship with each other in this way; 3. If you connect everything with yourself, the weight you feel in your heart cannot be described.

The feeling of happiness is everywhere, such as when a loved one brings an umbrella to himself on a rainy day, and he will only be happy if he learns to be satisfied.

When the heart is rich, there is a feeling of happiness at all times.

When a family is together, it feels very happy when it is not noisy.

When it comes to happiness, a different picture comes to everyone's mind.

For example, having someone to chat with you until the night when you're lost.

For example, after a year of struggle, I was finally admitted to the graduate school of my dreams.

For example, I learned what I always wanted to know, and solved the problems that had always bothered me.

For example, or creating something new and helping a lot of people.

For example, painting a work and being praised made me more confident to paint Hall Rock well, and it is also happy.

For example, by working hard to make the first pot of gold, I bought something I liked for a long time.

Singing alone, talking to oneself, and wandering into the beauty of nature, without anyone disturbing you, can also make people happy.

In the city where I was in college, on the day I got my results, I did very well, more than 400, ranking first in my major, I read it several times, and I always felt incredible. Then I wanted to tell the guy who studied with me to play Feng Yucompanion for the first time. To my best friends, they are happy for my happiness, which also makes me feel extremely happy.

At that time, I was so happy that I wanted to go in circles.

The day of the results coincided with my birthday, and my friends held a birthday party for me, which was very heartwarming.

When you work hard and achieve the desired results, you will be happy. When I was very sincere and could get a group of friends who also loved me, I was really happy to fly!

What is happiness? Happiness is a feeling, a mood, a state from the inside out.

Happiness is a leisurely cloud Under the clear sky, she runs, laughs, and roams freely.

Happiness is a state of mind, live life as you like, if the heart is sunny, life will always be sunny.

Optimistic and open-minded people, no matter what situation they find themselves in, can self-regulate and enjoy themselves.

Happiness is actually quite simple.

The ultimate secret is actually in your heart.