At what point did you suddenly feel weak and helpless?

Most people's satisfaction with life begins to decline after the age of 15, and from that time on, a person slowly realizes that he is insignificant in this world.

From the age of 15, you need to struggle with ideals, reality, and love in the following years, accept setbacks, and continue to work hard in this period of life, until the age of 45, the satisfaction of life begins to slowly rise, that is, in the 30 years between the ages of 15-45, a person usually feels very small and weak.

The first time I went out for a summer job, when the dormitory manager who assigned the dormitory didn't put me and my friend in the same dormitory, I broke down and cried in front of a dozen people in the dormitory manager's office. When I was demerited and asked someone else. When there is no money.

When my ex-girlfriend broke up because of my family, I felt weak. When my parents didn't have money, I felt weak. Needless to say, I'm weak.

Probably watching the puppy he had raised since birth for three years being sent away, and knowing that the family was not good to him. But I can't do anything about it.

There are many times when you are helpless, and if you don't remember what it feels like to be the most helpless, it may be despair. In March, there was still heavy snow in Moscow, and when I walked to the door of the target customer's company, I couldn't get in anyway, I was unwilling to go, I couldn't get in, and that helplessness was a kind of loss. Endless complaints and dissatisfaction with the company, but the fear of losing a decent salary and endure it again and again, that kind of helplessness is powerless against reality.

Seeing that it is necessary to use a large sum of money, but the balance in the bank card is less than five figures, the helplessness is despair.

People will feel their own insignificance and confusion when things are very large, for example, a person in the sea that cannot be seen as far as the eye can see, and see that there is sea water all around, without any human traffic, will experience a different state of mind! I was injured for a few months, I didn't work hard after I recovered, and by the time everyone overtook me, that was when I was at my weakest!

Quarreled with classmates and fought, I started to scold the person first, he moved first, I don't have a good learning attitude, he is a better student in the class, the teacher called both parents, said to me, you can get out if you don't read, and tried to persuade me to quit this class (the school's so-called experimental class) The last 8000 words review, the whole class apologized when the school officially started, and then solved the matter, my classmates did not have any punishment, I felt that I was weak, and I felt like I had a bad learning attitude, and the results were different, I am really inferior to others.

When climbing the mountain and watching the sea, a landslide and tsunami, even if it is just a small **, traffic accidents, diseases, life is full of accidents, even if you are a prince and a prince, the hall is full of gold and jade, and it will eventually turn into ashes. Newborn calves are not afraid of tigers, and when you don't understand the world, you are always full of courage, until you are hit on the head and bleed, you understand that there are no miracles in life, and failure is the fate of most people, and we happen to be the majority.

After the college entrance examination, it is time to leave the days when only standardized tests intuitively measure a person's "strength". Only then did I truly realize the diversity of differences between people, and my perspective began to be pulled into the macro real world, and I found myself more and more weak, both in college and even outside the school.

When you feel worthless, powerlessness accompanies you all the way.

There are times in life when we feel powerless, and sometimes we even have no way to turn to despair. It can be a problem at work, an emotional crisis, or a matter of survival, or even a small thing as a fuse, detonating the pressure that has been accumulated for a long time. I'd like to share my experience here.

The first is emotional. During the National Day of the first year of high school, my girlfriend in junior high school for three years suddenly broke off with me, and there were many people in my family at that time, so I could only hide in the room alone, standing next to the window and trying to dial her ** again and again, after being blocked, I went to borrow other people's mobile phones to call**, each of which was just connected and hung up, and then blocked. At that time, her position in my heart was that I was the only person I could ask out to play when I returned home from studying abroad.

And on that day, I lost her, and I didn't even have a chance to explain, I had already bought her birthday present, but I didn't know to send it to **, I could only walk around the room alone, and then pretend to be smiling and go out with my family. This is helplessness from which nothing can be recovered.

The second is learning. In the first semester of my sophomore year of high school, when I first entered the experimental class, my grades were not satisfactory several times, and I was always at the bottom of the class. At that time, I felt that no matter how hard I studied, I couldn't catch up with the excellent classmates around me, and every day I walked into the class I had an unreal feeling, and I didn't have a sense of belonging in the class.

When I first entered the class, I didn't know anyone, let alone someone I could talk to or ask for help. Looking back now, I was really helpless at that time, and I'm so glad I survived that time on my own.

Finally, it's about the little things. Everyone has probably felt this way at one time or anotherI wanted to do something, but every time my plan was disrupted; I want to go to bed early, but every time I suddenly have extra tasks to do; I'm in a hurry, but I can't do everything I need to prepare. When we encounter these things, we always suddenly feel helpless and irritable.

When you are far from your expected life, you want to change, but you can't change it, that kind of reality forces you to accept your fate when you are the most helpless, and you feel that God doesn't give people hope

My feeling is that when a loved one dies, I feel so sad and helpless, there is always a feeling of powerlessness, strength is not forceful, really what do you think?

When you encounter difficulties only to find that there is no one around you to rely on, this is the most helpless time.

There will always be times when people are helpless, such as the departure of relatives, the betrayal of husbands, and the powerlessness in the face of illness.

Opportunities are for those who are prepared, when they are still hesitating, they see others doing what you want to do but dare not do, only to realize how helpless you are young, blaming yourself for worrying too much, so that others will take the first step, this feeling is like a beloved thing being snatched away by others, very sad and sad, I have been really sad [disappointed] recently

Also because I am still young, this miss will only make me forge ahead, there are many opportunities, once you seize it, don't hesitate, I hope I become a person who dares to think and dare to do. Don't forget the original intention, you have to always! Call yourself!!

I felt that I had nowhere to go after graduating from college, I felt that I had no relatives in a strange city, no friends everywhere, no income, and I felt really helpless at that time.

Everyone has times when they are very helpless, such as locking the door only to find that they don't have the key. I bought a bouquet of flowers on Valentine's Day but no one gave it to me. Busy work, but not recognized by leaders.

I woke up in the middle of the night and had nightmares with no one around me. There are too many times in life that make us very helpless, and in the face of helplessness, we must adjust our mentality in time. Don't let yourself get caught up in bad moods.

Helplessness is an emotion, and it is also a person's own experience. Helplessness means that there is only one person or one side of the force, and there is no external assistance. In fact, helplessness is a kind of loneliness in a sense.

In my personal opinion, the most helpless time I feel is when I have a problem that I can't solve alone, but I don't have anyone to help you. For example, your car breaks down on the road in the middle of the night, you can't fix it yourself, and no one has helped you yet, etc.

Reflected from the poem, Jiangshang Weng opened the door, and opened the door to the declining grass. I only know that I am worried about my children and grandchildren, but I don't feel that my career is old. The grass on the river has withered stems, and the stems and leaves are reburned. The wind blows the sky and waves, and you just need to smile and don't worry.

Hello, when a person is lonely and helpless, it is generally in despair, at this time he will think of a lot of things, making people happy and sad, etc., together with the heart can not extricate himself, if someone appears at this time, he will definitely be used as a life-saving straw, will never let go of the life-saving vine, so, be sure to make yourself happy, because you don't know when you will encounter loneliness, because then you will be helpless!

When you are sick, when you have no money.

Nothing, no money, no disease, what a classic saying.

Only when I was a child did I feel helpless. When I was a kid, I went out with my mother, and I lost my mother's clothes without grabbing them, and then I was beaten up by a bunch of older children, and that was the only time I felt helpless. Later, when I grew up, I never felt helpless.

One is that life is going well, and the psychology is strong enough not to be helpless.

A person is very important to you, he asks you to do a very important favor, and you agree to save face. When I came to my senses, I couldn't help myself with this favor.

I have a bad personality, and I can't open my mouth to talk a lot, just waiting for others to find out that I'm unhappy. When a child is injured or sick. There are times when you can't give advice on something.

When I was alone and sick late at night, dizzy and weak, I felt helpless and hopeless at that time, and I wished that someone would be with me!

When a loved one dies, I feel really helpless. Although you know that this kind of thing is coming, you don't have any specific time, so when it suddenly happens to him, it's like, ah, I feel like I can't do anything. I really feel helpless and helpless.

There are many things in life that we can't do and can't do, there are many such situations, so we can only accept it, and we can only try to make ourselves stronger!

When you're sick, you feel helpless. No one can replace the fear in your heart.

The most helpless time is when the years leave a deep, deep mark on you, making you grow old and lose the ability to make changes. Even if you are wandering alone, you can't find anyone to talk to, you have no money to eat, you have a lot of work pressure, many times you are alone, you feel helpless, but you still have the strength to stand up, continue to persevere, continue to run, to find the person who can accompany you, to defeat this helplessness, and when a person has inconvenient legs and feet, unkempt teeth, old age, and can't do anything, that kind of helplessness makes you cling to a person who is not very close. So, those who are outside, remember to take care of your body, the body is your own, and you have to be able to control it at will.

When I was defeated, my sisters and friends parted ways, and I was so grief-stricken and heartbroken that although there were no tears in my eyes, my heart was dripping with blood. At that time, I prayed to the heavens, but the heavens did not work. Ask for land, but land should not.

Ask for people, but people ignore them. Life at that time was dark and frightening for me, but in these days without sunshine and without direction, I persevered, and in the process of persevering, I also wanted to leave it a few times, let go of all the burdens on my shoulders, and secretly leave the world. However, for the sake of his elderly parents and his dreams in life, he finally gave up his plan to commit suicide.

As a woman, you must be able to shoulder the responsibility and responsibility, even if the sky falls, you can't fall, let alone escape, you should bravely face setbacks and adversity. If God wants to kill me, I admit it. If life wants to break me, there is no way to ......I persevered and persevered, and now I live a simple and ordinary life, although there is no scenery and chic in the past, but I have learned to be content and know happiness.

In this life, there are times of loneliness and frustration, I can persevere, and I believe you can too.

There are too many times when I suddenly feel so powerless, let's take a look at the specific times:

1. When you are in an unhappy mood, when you are worried, when your child is disobedient, when you face all this, you suddenly feel so tired and tired, and you will feel very powerless at this time. But at this time, when you lose confidence in life, the feeling of helplessness is incomprehensible to others, but then you think about it, no one's life is smooth sailing, who can not experience setbacks and failures. As the saying goes, if you don't experience wind and rain, you can see a rainbow.

2. When the child is disobedient, no matter how to reason with him, he will not listen, and he will think that you talk too much, even if you are anxious, beat him, it is still not changed, because this situation has happened several times, at this time I want to jump off the building, and then slowly read a lot of articles, indeed I have not done well, I hope I can correct some of his bad temper and small problems when the child is young.

3. For the healthy growth of children, give up their careers and ideals, pick up and drop off their children to and from school at home every day, wash clothes and cook, and accompany the baby to do homework. When the child reaches puberty, he has his own thoughts, no longer a good baby, and even becomes unreasonable, many changes are not what he wants to see, when the mother feels that the psychological gap is large, very disappointed, and feels that he is physically and mentally exhausted.

4. In the first few years of work, I was also very confused. At that time, I had too much hope for the future, too many expectations for myself, and fantasized that I could break through in a certain field. However, it is only at the level of thinking, there is no learning, no practice, and no self-breakthrough.

As a result, I feel more and more powerless, and I become more and more unconfident.

5. Watching the man I love hurry to the city of the woman he loves with a smile, I can only watch his back gradually fade away, and he never looks back at me. At that time, I simply lost my temper and suddenly felt so weak.