If you want to be refined, how can you discover your shortcomings?

You can ask your relatives and friends to point out your shortcomings and learn from them when you do something wrong, so that you can find your own shortcomings.

If you find your own shortcomings, then you should ask your friends more about what kind of shortcomings you have, and then you will slowly correct them after mastering these shortcomings little by little.

Then you can find your own shortcomings from other people's opinions, and you can also find some shortcomings in yourself.

Then you have to face up to yourself, face up to your shortcomings, don't excuse yourself, and then correct it.

We should be aware of our own shortcomings, and if we can't find them, we can consult the people close to us, they will know their shortcomings.

We should compare ourselves with others, so that it is easier to find our own shortcomings and make up for them.

Girls are more beautiful, they all want to be good-looking, so there will be anxiety about appearance, and they will always study how to make themselves good-looking, every girl is not perfect, girls are the same, more or less there will always be some defects, so if you want to become exquisite, how to find your own shortcomings? Let's talk about this topic today, how can we find our own shortcomings?

First, take a look at some fashion magazines, and now there will be a lot of beauty bloggers on many short ** platforms, and if you usually have time, you can take a look at these **, you can know which shortcomings you have, and you can also know how to make up for these defects. These beauty bloggers are not born with a knowledge of how to be beautiful, and they have taken some detours before, and then they will have some experience, so you can refer to the opinions of these beauty bloggers. If the facial features are not so outstanding, I think I can make up for it with outfits and make myself outstanding.

If you have a pear-shaped body, you can wear some loose pants or some skirts with a better version to cover up your defects, with some appropriate small accessories, you will become outstanding, have your own style, but you don't know what style you wear at once, you have to explore more to know what is suitable for you.

Second, listen more to the opinions of the people around us We all know that advice is good for action, we still have to be good at listening to the opinions of others, you can ask more about the advice of good friends around you, what are some shortcomings in your body that need to be improved, generally your good friends around you will talk to you, or if not, you can ask your mother, there is a saying that if your friends around you say you are fat, you are not really fat, but if your mother says you are fat, you are really fat, Mom will still give you advice very realistically.

Many people will feel that they do have shortcomings, but they are willing to change and face them, so naturally, they will be able to have a more perfect life in the future, and they will have more valuable things to do, and they will become more excellent.

Therefore, it is a good thing to find that you have shortcomings and shortcomings, at least you have a clear self-knowledge, and then learn from others with an open mind and communicate with others, so that you can continue to improve yourself.

Then you need to constantly reflect on yourself, and also recognize your own shortcomings, and then correct these shortcomings.

We must recognize and correct our own shortcomings, and accept the opinions of others with an open mind, only in this way can we make ourselves better.

If you want to recognize your own shortcomings and shortcomings, you can ask others what they think of you and constantly strive to reflect. Persist in correcting these shortcomings.

(1) Learning.

From the age of five, you will start to enter the school to study. This is the stage that everyone should have. As you grow older, you will find that the more you grow up, the more problems you don't understand, in fact, this is a stage of finding problems, many people are embarrassed to ask when they find that they will not be able to solve problems, and they feel that they will appear to be very stupid, in fact, this is a shortcoming, no courage, no confidence, and there are many solutions.

Go to events or promotions, give speeches when others are paying attention, and so on. Sometimes it's not that you can't find your own shortcomings, it's that you don't dare to face them.

2) Image.

With the discovery of society, the starting age of children's makeup is gradually getting younger. But I have to say that "everyone has a love for beauty", a good image is the beginning of a person's self-confidence. But many people have a misunderstanding, that is, they feel that only their good looks are beautiful, in fact, you haven't found that what is the most intuitive impression of a person's beauty or handsomeness on another person?

It's clean, standing in the distance, few people will be able to see if your facial features are exquisite, but more people can see whether you are clean, a clean appearance and a kind heart, you are the most beautiful. But it is not difficult to see whether you dare to admit that you are too inferior to yourself when you feel that your facial features are not refined enough.

3) Aspects of life.

Stepping into society, few people will sympathize with you, if you have lived a miserable life. In your career, at work, you may encounter the exclusion or targeting of your colleagues, but what is it, if you give up because of these things, then it is not a reflection of your cowardice from the opposite side, you can only learn to be strong, let yourself continue to learn, to make yourself better. This is how disadvantages become advantages.

Looking at different aspects, but there is one thing in common, every shortcoming can be reflected from your failures, your distress, your low self-esteem, in fact, all negative emotions are the embodiment of shortcomings, have the courage to face them, so that you will become stronger and more refined.

When you do something wrong, you must reflect in time, figure out what shortcomings you have, and strive to change them, so that you can become refined.

You can find your own shortcomings from some opinions of people around you and let yourself change.

You can talk to your best friend, ask him to talk about his shortcomings, and then change himself, only in this way can he become more refined.

Be sure to tell yourself that everyone is striving for perfection, and if you want others to like you more, you must work hard to make up for your shortcomings and make yourself refined.

In fact, everyone knows their shortcomings, but they don't want to admit them, so we must face up to our shortcomings and correct them, only in this way can we make ourselves more refined.

If you want to discover your shortcomings and make yourself more refined, then you have to listen carefully to what others have to say and improve carefully.

If you find your own shortcomings and make yourself more refined, then you should first slowly turn your shortcomings into advantages, and then correct them little by little, so that you can become very refined.

Ask your friends to talk about your shortcomings, and when you hear about your shortcomings from your friends, you will know what your shortcomings are.