We grew up secretly, the more sensible we are, the less people understand us?

Sometimes we grow up with the flick of a finger. When we grow up secretly, we become very sensible, but being sensible does not mean that no one understands us, and the following is my personal opinion.

1. When we grow up, we can open our hearts to others In fact, growing up does not mean that no one understands us, and we can also open our hearts to others when we grow up, but only if this person can win our trust and is a reliable person. If he is a trustworthy person, we can open up to the other person, tell the other person what is on our mind, and we can also ask the other person for some help. The other party will also get to know us better and better in their daily interactions.

Second, when we grow up, we must learn to love ourselves Growing up does not mean maturity, so when we grow up, we must learn to love ourselves, only by loving ourselves, can we let others get close to us and understand us more and more. A person who doesn't even love himself is something that no one wants to approach, and no one wants to understand. So when you want to open up to others, start by loving yourself.

3. When we grow up, we must learn to love others Growing up means being sensible, so when we grow up, we must also learn to love others, only when you really put others in your heart, others will feel that you are a friend worth dating. When you feel as if you don't have any friends and no one wants to take the initiative to understand you, you can try to find the reason in yourself and see if you don't care enough about others.

It's true that the older we get, the less people understand us. Even the people who trust us are quietly leaving us.

I think so, because the more you grow up, the more you like to hide yourself, you don't want to communicate, and your most authentic self is often hidden in the deepest depths, and you don't want others to find out, so it's difficult for others to understand you anymore.

It is true that the more sensible you are, the more others will think that you have no worries, and you can deal with any problems by yourself, and the more no one will understand you.

Yes; A wise man is always lonely, and what a wise man does is difficult for ordinary people to understand, let alone argue with people who don't know him.

When we grow up secretly, we have our own ideals and thinking, but because of the differences with others, many of our friends around us don't understand us, and no one understands us.

The more sensible you are, the less people understand you, because others will take it for granted.

Disagrees with this view. It's just that the more I grow up, the more lonely I become, the more sensible I am, the more I know that there are things that can not be done at will, and when I don't understand things, I think about it as a play, and I don't think about it so much.

Who can fully understand another person? Even if we are ourselves, sometimes we may not be able to fully understand ourselves, otherwise there will be no regrets and wrong decisions.

Actually, no, because you still have a shadow, and you still have yourself. As everyone knows, being sensible is also a sign of growing up, so you must understand yourself more, so that you can live a happier life.

I think so, because the more sensible we are, the more our ideas will gradually become personalized, so that fewer people will understand themselves.

When I was a child, I always expected myself to grow up quickly, thinking that I could make money by myself when I grew up, and I could also go to ** if I wanted to, and I always pretended to look forward to my graduation and work, but when I really entered the society, I found that I was actually very envious of my childhood. When I was a child, I didn't know how to cherish time, I didn't know how to study hard, and I didn't know how to have a good relationship with Tiao, but I didn't know it until I grew up. 1.

I don't know how to cherish time, and now I realize that time is very important, when I was young, I always felt that time was very slow, I played every day, and I didn't have anything I wanted to do, I just thought about what to play and what to eat every day. Although when I was in school, the teacher would also say that time is life, and wasting time is chronic suicide, at that time, I thought it was too literary and artistic, and I didn't care. Later, when I grew up, I found that time is really important, busy work, no time to take care of my family, no time to sleep at night, and no time to even go out to play.

2.I don't know how to study hard, and when I was an adult, I found the importance of knowledge, and when I was a child, adults and teachers were urging me to learn, and only when I studied hard would I have a way out, and I would have the ability, and I was rebellious at that time, and I didn't think about how important learning was, and even wanted to get rid of school, and when I became an adult, I found that what adults and teachers said was right, but I couldn't go back to the campus that I once hated very much. After work, I understand that my own knowledge is very important, and my ability is also a hard condition, without these, I need to be busy for life, and I realized that learning is very important when I am an adult.

3.I don't know how to cherish the relationship between my parents, and when I became an adult, I had an epiphany and felt sorry that I was very willful and rebellious when I was a child, and I kept quarreling with my parents, and I didn't know how to have a good relationship with my parents. When I became an adult, I found that the friendship and love I always thought were not as good as the sincere love of my parents, and the love of parents for their children was the most selfless and the most humble.

It was only when I became an adult that I understood that I should cherish my relationship with my parents and not let myself have regrets.

In fact, when I was a child, I had a lot of imitations, and I slowly had an epiphany when I grew up, and when I was a child, my parents always said that I would learn a professional ability, and it would be really useful to have an epiphany when I grew up.

Yes, only the older we get, the more we understand that family affection is precious

Two days ago, I took a bus at night to a place where I worked. The journey takes two hours. In the car, I suddenly remembered a summer vacation when I drove out with my parents.

It was about eight o'clock that night, and it was dark before I returned. My dad drove, my mom sat in the co-pilot, and when it was almost eleven o'clock, my mom was so sleepy that she couldn't support it, and she offered to change places with me. So my mom lay down in the back seat of the car and slept, I sat in the passenger seat, and my dad continued to drive.

During this time, I had been chatting with my dad on and off, singing to him, telling jokes, and distracting himself from driving so he wouldn't get tired. At that time, I suddenly felt that my parents were getting old, if in the past, my mother would definitely not let me wake up and go to sleep by myself, I knew that she was really tired, and her body did not allow her to stay up late with fatigue. At the same time, I also feel as if I have grown up all of a sudden, and the burden on my body is heavier, and I am no longer a child who will not wake up when I fall asleep in my parents' arms and get out of the car at night.

I'm going to have to take on more responsibilities in the future. Sitting next to my dad and driving with him on the night train, I feel quite happy, although I am really sleepy, but when I think that he is more tired than me, I will try to cheer up and accompany him. The moon was particularly beautiful that day.

Learn to enjoy your job and focus on what you can learn from your daily work. If you're complaining about your work now, then you're looking for a job. Try to use less words like "interesting" and "curious" to describe the job you want, but "fulfilling", "fulfilling", "happy", etc.

As we grow older, we have a lot of things that we have new positives and opinions, but these views will gradually become as we grow up, and everything has not been hot lately, should children grow up, but what can they do when they grow up? But in my opinion, what I don't understand now is that I can't just grow up to understand. Sometimes you can understand it as you get older.

My main observations are as follows.

First of all, when we grew up, our parents said that you are still young and ignorant, and when you grow up, you will understand. But they don't know that not everything can only be understood when they grow up. As we grow older, we gradually have a new understanding of things, we gradually have a new perspective, and we will have a new understanding.

Therefore, it is not only the arrangement that we don't understand about some things, but we can only understand it when we grow up, and we will gradually understand and understand it when we grow up.

The second is that when we were growing up, our parents taught us, we couldn't listen to it very well, because in our opinion, these things are really nothing, and we can't understand the things we have at all now, because we have a different position from our parents and repent, so the final choice and activity. So in the eyes of parents, there are some things that we don't understand now, but not all things will only be understood when we grow up. Sometimes, as we get older, we learn from our failures and gradually learn a lot of truths.

The most important thing is that we have grown up, we have a new understanding and understanding of things, we are no longer dependent on our parents, in the eyes of our parents, we are ignorant of whatever we do now. In their opinion, only growing up is certainly not when we are getting along with others, we can be carried on our heads, we are vulnerable, but our parents taught us that we can get along with others in harmony, but for some people, different people have different attitudes, we choose me. Why do you think this is happening?

Isn't everyone equal? But after many injuries, I have learned that not all people are worthy of my sincere treatment, and some people are really not worth it, so what I don't understand now is not only to grow up to understand, but as we get older, we will all understand.

When I was young, I always looked forward to growing up.

Can be grown. I will understand it later.

Something. Life is actually good to close a lot of things, only if you experience more can you understand more truths, in order to understand the importance of the things, those things are more meaningful to you.

Only when you grow up will you understand, and with the growth of your experience, slowly these things that you don't understand will suddenly become clear.

It's true that things you couldn't understand when you were a child, but when you grow up, you will gradually understand them, and all aspects will be different as you grow older.

In the process of growing up, people will understand some truths and better interpret some truths.

When I was a child, I couldn't understand why my parents often quarreled, and when I grew up, I realized that my parents quarreled because of family reasons, but also because of marital incompatibility, and the two people had emotional problems.

Personally, I think that the most likely thing is to belong to interpersonal communication, and his understanding of this society, which is deeper and more cruel, realistic, such as thinking that if you are good to others when you are a child, others will also be good to you, only to find out that this is not the case when you grow up.

When I was a child, a relative in my family died, and my parents said it. He went far, far away. Or rather, it became a star in the sky. You'll know it when you grow up.

When I was a child, I didn't understand that my parents didn't like to eat some food, so they gave us food, but when I grew up, I realized that it wasn't that they didn't like to eat, it was that they were reluctant to eat, and they wanted to leave all the delicious food for us to eat.