Why are honest people easy to be issued good guy cards?

Because honest people are easier to trust others, once they trust a person, they may not show it, but they will always do it wholeheartedly, the intestines in the stomach turn less, and the brain thinks more simply, and they will be issued a good person card. ‍‍

Honest people have a relatively low position in themselves, often lack of self-confidence, and are not good at dressing themselves, so they will be issued a good person card. ‍‍

Honest people are sometimes too rigid, don't have so many minds, and do things more step-by-step, and it is easy to be issued a good person card.

For example, if the family plot sends a rose to be romantic, the honest person will send a lamp and say that they are afraid of bad eyes when reading at night, and they don't know how to be romantic, so it is generally difficult for them to please the girl, and the girl will send them a good person card in order not to hurt them.

Many times honest people will give people the illusion that they don't understand the world and will only follow the steps, but in order not to hurt them, they will send him a good person card to comfort them.

In my opinion, the main reason is that honest people can't express, and they are not very good at deception and exaggeration, so they are always regarded as a symbol of good people. ‍‍

Being issued a good person card may be because you are very talkative, considerate of others, more dedicated, and willing to sacrifice yourself in some small or even big things.

I think it's because honest people only know how to hide behind their backs and pay silently, and don't show it, so everyone always habitually sends them good person cards. ‍‍

That's because honest people generally don't understand romance, and always want to give the best to others, but don't think about what they really need. ‍‍

The good guy card and the honest guy are more fateful, so that when people see one of them, they think of its related party.

It's really stupid to be given a good person card often, and sometimes being too kind can be interpreted as a sign of incompetence and love to please. Others don't take you seriously, and sometimes when you don't want to, you should be brave enough to refuse. You may not have too many advantages in your body, and you have low self-esteem in your heart, so you can only get closer to the other party in this way.

Unexpectedly, the other party feels that this kind of good stupidity is extremely burdensome, and after paying a lot, I hope to get a response from the other party, and the other party just sent you a good person card, which inevitably makes people feel a little lost, so let's find out in detail!

First, it is often issued a good person card

This kind of blind people who are often issued good person cards are usually very ordinary. In terms of appearance and economic ability, he is relatively poor.,Always care about other people in every detail.,Everyone thinks he's warm.,You can feel the happiness of friendship in him.,But you can't experience love at all.。 This is because you don't spend your mind on yourself, but always think about others, if you can improve yourself well and make yourself better, the chance of being issued a good person card will be reduced.

On the one hand, the person who issued the good person card wants to continue to enjoy this happiness, but he also does not want to develop into a couple with the other party, so he will be issued a good person card.

Two, is this the reason for being too stupid?

This is indeed the reason why it is too stupid, knowing that they are inferior to each other in all aspects, why bother to climb high. Instead of taking care of each other in life, it is better to study or work hard, get good grades, or find a better company than your current job. When you make some changes from yourself, you will also be impressed by the other party, no longer a person who can only do good deeds in his eyes, but a person who is very independent in all aspects of economic ability, and no one forces you to be a good person.

As long as you don't violate the bottom line, don't easily agree to what you don't want.

In short, some people are really good by nature and don't know how to hurt others, so they always hurt themselves, so they always receive a good person card.

Yes. It shows that he is stupid in life and repents quickly, so that such a situation will occur, and it also shows that he has no opinions and opinions in life, and he will not refuse any questions and topics.

It's not like that, it may be that your strengths are particularly prominent. It may be that your personality is better, and the other party doesn't like you, but the file eggplant doesn't want to hurt you, so he will send a good number of cards.

Yes. Because you are often very arrogant and don't particularly care about anything, people think that you are particularly easy to bully.

1. I am too inferior and have too little identification with myself.

This type of person is characterized by a pessimistic personality, a serious lack of recognition of himself, and suffering from gains and losses, and is prone to inferiority. Once you start a relationship, you seem to be low to the dust, and only the other half is obedient, as if you have lost yourself. It's like how hard-won this relationship is, so I hollow out my heart and devote myself wholeheartedly, leaving no self.

But in the two ** loves, this is a big taboo.

In addition to being very passive, this will also make the other half become more reckless under your unprincipled "accommodation and concession", and your efforts will only become a habitual thing in the eyes of others, and in the eyes of others, it is "licking the dog".

There is a sentence in "The Way of the Wolf" that says: dignity is priceless, if a person loses his dignity, then his value and pleasure are impossible, when dignity is offended, tell yourself: nothing is more important than defending dignity.

In short, the arrogance and ambition that should be there cannot be lost, and it must be able to afford to put it down.

2. Don't know how to refuse.

Love itself is actually a game war, if the other party has just shown a little affection for you, you will accept it all, and you will be stupid and happy, then it can only be said that you are really "too stupid and naïve".

I have a friend, every time a girl has a little "good impression" of him, he immediately agrees, but he is always indifferent to all kinds of disapproval from others. As a result, both people and money are empty.

3. Too soft-hearted.

Those who are often issued good person cards are people who are too soft-hearted.

This sentence can be described as quite incisive. Sometimes, it's not that you can't meet the right person, but that you don't dare to let go of the wrong person.

Just imagine, the other party ignored you at the beginning of the relationship, or spoke ill of you, and broke up a long time ago with a little vision, instead of finding all kinds of reasons or even a thousand and one reasons to explain for them. To put it bluntly, it is soft-hearted.

When others say a few kind words, they think it's the whole world. Even if she has been hurt, she is reluctant to let go, and always gets along with her with a mentality of saving the lost lamb, looking forward to one day she can be touched by herself. So she chose to believe, tolerate, and give in again and again, but instead of repenting, the other party became more and more arrogant, until finally she was tired of playing and ready to leave, and only said one sentence:

You're a good man, and I don't deserve you.

The so-called routines are all utilitarian things, don't think about achieving it overnight, and don't think about one step to the sky. Everything in the world can only develop in balance.

First of all, it must be that the girl doesn't like you, or it's not long enough, the girl or boy doesn't know you well enough, or every time your performance doesn't satisfy the other party, so the other party will feel that it's not their own dish, so they will send a good person card, but there is nothing particularly annoying, and sending a good person card means that you can still be friends in the future but can't develop into a relationship with lovers.

Being issued a good person card may be because you are very talkative, considerate of others, more dedicated, and willing to sacrifice yourself for some small or even big things. This character is often taught by teachers in school, the so-called "virtue", but in today's society, a person or colleague who knows you plainly, sending you a good person card is mostly two situations, one thinks that you are indeed a good person, and gives you his cheap affirmation, and the other is moral kidnapping, "You are so good, you will definitely do something for me", most likely to use your good words to get a little benefit for yourself. In either case, your status is not high.

The good guy card is becoming less and less of a word that people use to compliment anyone.

I'm the one who often gives people good guy cards. Girls with a sentence of "you are a good person" is just out of politeness, euphemistic refusal, not to deny a boy's feelings or character qualities or the like, boys don't think too much. On the one hand, it may be that the girl you meet really doesn't like your type, on the other hand, it may be that you are in the wrong time and place, and missed the best time to confess to the girl.

You think that as long as you give sincerely, take care and care of everything, support her views unconditionally, cheer her up, and think that she will be able to look at you. Result: You're really nice, but we're not suitable, I only see you as a friend.

It's really pitiful to be given a good person card by a girl, but I think the girl who really makes herself worthy of liking should be not far away, for example, Naruto ended up with the girl who liked him - Hinata. ‍‍

Because the character is too weak, lacks his own opinions, often goes with the flow, and when he says good things, he is quiet and introverted, and what is not good is that he doesn't know how to be flexible and wooden. He never knows how to refuse other people's requests, leaving the impression of a good person to others. In the long run, I forget my own needs and don't know what I want to do.

At the same time as being issued a good person card, he also lost himself.

It's not a bad thing to be given a good person card, it just means that you may not meet the criteria of others to choose a mate. In my opinion, being issued a good person card means that you must be very good, very able to understand other people's feelings, and be able to help others as much as possible, but in terms of feelings, it may not only rely on help to enhance feelings, but more on mutual attraction.

Maybe it's because I'm a boring person, and I die talking to girls when I talk about it, and the end result is: "I'm sorry, you're a good person."

If you have been issued a good person card countless, then you must find the reason from yourself, analyze the advantages and disadvantages, self-evaluation, if necessary, you can let the people around you with more powerful mouths analyze and analyze, what do others need? Do you have one? What do you have?

How can there be? If you are disgusted and don't look good, then you have to work hard in other aspects. People who work hard and live a down-to-earth life are also very attractive.

You're really nice, but you're not the person the other party needs, you're gentle and the other party just wants a wild personality? Who can tell, the key depends on how many times you have this each time, once, twice, three times, this is also possible, just think of the wrong direction, love the wrong person.

Why do some boys always get a good person card?

Being always given a good person card by others means that you are not capable of attracting the opposite sex and are an honest person.

I have a cousin who is almost 30 years old this year, and he has never been in a successful relationship, and every time he meets the girl he likes to confess, he will be said by the other girl: "I'm sorry, you are a good person, we are not suitable." "Refused.

As far as I know, there are at least ten or twenty times, mainly because my cousin is too honest and doesn't know how to be flexible when he speaks, he will answer whatever others ask, and he won't take the initiative to find a topic at all.

Later, I said to my cousin: "It's not right for you to do this, how can you attract girls if you don't dress up, don't develop your abilities, and don't show your charm." ”

My cousin listened to me, changed himself, and after half a year of further study, in the second year, he finally found my current cousin-in-law, and they got married right away.

So there is a reason why people are always issued good person cards, we must learn to be flexible, learn to be romantic, be interesting, don't always be down-to-earth, and be an honest person.

Why do some boys always get a good person card?

The good guy card is an affirmation of others, indicating that such people have excellent character, like to help others, have the spirit of selfless dedication, and are easy to be liked by the people around them. The class leader of our class is such a person, and he often sends us good person cards, because he takes good care of us, and the things in the class are also arranged very well, which brings us a lot of convenience.

It's much better to be a good person card than to ignore it, which means that you are still a relatively warm man, just to say that you don't know the goods you encounter, don't be in a hurry to improve yourself, and wait patiently for your fate.

Explain that the other party thinks your character is very good, but the relationship between you can not go further because of your good character, maintaining the status quo and keeping a certain distance from him will leave a good impression on the other party, the good guy card is not a negative, but there is no lack of hints of warning.

This should indicate that you should get along well with others, or that you have helped others, and others think that you are a person who cares about others in a warm and positive way, so you are often given a good person card.

That proves that you are really a good person, but others can't accept it, in fact, at this time we have to make appropriate changes, not that all the pay is what kind of harvest you want, you have to see the reality, so you may have what you want, but doing good deeds is also recommended, it seems that you have love!