I already have a boyfriend, what should I do if I meet a better guy again?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-22
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I'm a realist, I think I still have a choice before I get married, and I won't be like some people say, then I already have a boyfriend, even if someone else is good, I shouldn't leave my boyfriend, I won't be like this, if the better guy also likes me, then I will give up my current boyfriend.

    I'm more realistic, and I think girls sometimes really have to be realistic, when we are with a boy, we have to try something for him, for example, if a boy is good to you, he has nothing, you want him to be good to you, a boy is excellent, you want him to give you the life you want, but if they are actually good to you, and they all love you, then we will naturally choose the one with better conditions, sometimes love really has a price.

    I don't know what love looks like in other people's hearts, at least if I were ten years younger, I would have made my own choice, because now I have experienced too much, I can see too clearly, many times a boy's excellence will really bring you to excellence, and you can really be a lot easier, and if a boy is not excellent, even if he is good to you, but it is useless.

    Because he is good to you is his initiative, you are passive acceptance, maybe you think he is very good, at least love you to be good to you, but have you ever thought that he has nothing else to do but be good to you, isn't it, and if he takes back his kindness to you, you really have nothing, nothing, isn't it?

    So in reality, I will choose the boy with better conditions, because we are not married, I will propose to break up, and then after a while with the boy with good conditions, I have always believed that people are not good, although he is good to you, but he can't give you the life you want, and in the end your love will be smoothed out by reality, at that time it will be too late to regret it, just like me now, regret is useless, isn't it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Then you have to keep your distance, even if he is good, you are still the one who has a boyfriend. You can't get too close. Otherwise, it's not fair to your boyfriend.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If your current boyfriend is very good to you, then you just need to grasp your current boyfriend, but if you live with your current boyfriend, there is no happiness at all, only pain, then you can consider letting go and seeking new love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you really like your boyfriend, then deep down you will never accept other members of the opposite sex, so I don't think your feelings for your boyfriend are sincere, and I suggest that you should break up.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In this case, it's okay to choose to break up with your boyfriend, after all, a better guy will bring you a better life.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you meet a better guy, you can choose to break up or leave.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You still have to restrain your true thoughts in your heart, otherwise this kind of relationship is unreliable, and you will choose to break up if you meet a better one in the future.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You should keep a certain distance from each other, since you have a boyfriend, you should be responsible for each other, and you can't have a bowl and look at the pot. This is really incorrect.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You should adjust your mentality and don't let yourself be another man, because doing so is sorry for your boyfriend and is also a betrayal of feelings.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    A girl already has a boyfriend, but now that she meets a man who is better for her, as a woman, she will be a little hesitant to choose. Girls should know that since they have a boyfriend, they must not have the behavior of eating in the bowl and looking at the pot, which is obviously unfaithful to the relationship. And once the boy knows about his girlfriend's behavior, he will also feel that the girlfriend is a half-hearted person, obviously falling in love with a boy but thinking about stepping on two boats.

    Don't give a hug to someone just because you meet someone who is good to you, most men often contact women, and they have bad intentions in their hearts. <>

    Many girls can feel the feelings between each other when they fall in love with their boyfriends for a long time, and they will be prone to change. Because as two people fall in love together for more and more time, each other will enter the dull period of the relationship, so that the girl feels that there is no freshness in the relationship. As a result, they will want to have more contact with the opposite sex around them, and girls should learn to be loyal in their relationships, not only to be loyal to their boyfriends, but also to be responsible for themselves, not to look at the mountain high.

    When you are in a relationship with your boyfriend, a girl should put her mind on her boyfriend. Even if your boyfriend will have all kinds of small shortcomings, then there is no guarantee that you will be with others, and you will not be able to find the mistakes in the other person. You must know how to appreciate the advantages of your boyfriend, discuss more trivial things in life with your boyfriend, and motivate the relationship between two people to go on longer.

    Regardless of whether they will consider getting married in the future, but if they choose to fall in love, they should take each other seriously. <>

    When some strange boys approach a girl who already has a boyfriend, they will want to exchange their favor for the girl's like, and begin to use various skills to pursue the girl. It also allows girls to experience freshness, but such freshness is generally short-lived. No boy wants to be good to a girl wholeheartedly, only two people who truly love each other can go on.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Choose your boyfriend, because there will always be very good people, and you can only make a firm choice, otherwise you will die in this endless loop.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think the criterion for choosing a boyfriend is to see whether two people like each other, not whether they are good to themselves or not, being good to yourself and liking yourself are two different things, you must recognize your heart.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In a relationship, if you already have a boyfriend, you should refuse to have intimate contact with other boys. When you have this thought, you are actually dissatisfied with your current boyfriend and suggest breaking up.

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