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In fact, there is no absolute right thing in marriage, many of them are actually running in with each other, understanding each other, and tolerating each other. So when looking for a partner, you need to find someone who is willing to tolerate and understand you, and even want to share your lifestyle.
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I think there is no absolute right match in marriage, and the real good match is definitely the continuous run-in between two people, so that each other can understand each other and tolerate each other.
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I think there is. Because the marriage of friends around me is an absolute match. And they live a particularly happy life.
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Of course, there is an absolute right match in marriage, the two families are basically the same, and the two people's personalities and tempers are also very good, such a marriage is relatively happy.
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I don't think there is an absolute match in marriage, it's just that the gap between two families and two people's cultures is relatively small.
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I think there is no absolute right match in marriage, because when two people love each other, they may not consider many reasons, and some of them do not look at each other's family conditions when they get married.
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Personally, I think there is no absolute right match, many times there will be a gap, and the most important thing is that two people accommodate each other.
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I think there is such an absolute right in marriage, whether it is family conditions or the education and work of two people, the appearance is very relative.
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I think that absolute things in life do not exist, and there is no absolute right in marriage, but the relative right still exists, so don't pursue absolute.
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In marriage, there are just about the same match, which is also because two people have the same living habits and similar living environment, and can produce a common language.
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In fact, there is no absolute right match in marriage, because if love comes, you don't care about these things.
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I don't think there are absolutes, because everyone's family is different, and it's hard to find the same.
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1. The family environment is the same.
It is said that the original family is very important, because it will affect people's personality and some actions in life. The family is the right family, the living environment is the same since childhood, the people in contact with and the knowledge they know are similar, and although the treatment of people and the vision are different, they are basically very similar. Children who grow up in such family conditions will also have a lot to talk about in their later lives.
Otherwise, the living environment is different, many concepts together are different, and there is no topic to talk about, so it can only be farther and farther away in the future.
2. The values are the same.
How many marriages are different because of different family conditions, different values that they have been exposed to since childhood, and quarrels because of different values after marriage. I have a female friend with a good family condition, I met my current husband by chance, and the two fell in love at first sight, and later got married despite the opposition of my family. Married on the premise of love, married life is definitely happy, but no, two people will always quarrel over shopping.
My friends and families are in good condition, and the clothes they have worn since childhood are very good, and I never ask when I buy things. Her husband's family has been thrifty since she was a child, and if she can save, she will save, and the values of the two people are very different, and her husband often says that she is a loser.
Later, she didn't pay her salary, and her friends couldn't spend their own money to buy things, they always quarreled, and they were reluctant to separate, but she was not willing to compromise on consumption. Therefore, marriage is still a good match, and it will be more compatible in terms of values.
3. Equality of identity.
There are many people who are not the right people and have different family conditions, so their status in marriage is also very different. Generally speaking, the better family conditions occupy a dominant position in the marriage, unless the other half has an acquired advantage and a higher salary, but will always feel inferior. If the conditions of the man in the family are good, even if the marriage is not good, the woman will endure it, after all, it has become a family.
And the family conditions of the woman in a family are good, as long as she says a few words about the man in life, the man's self-esteem will be very strong, and he will quarrel if he disagrees. The status of the family is equal, and there will be no major contradictions because of identity issues.
The right person is very important in marriage, so whether it is in love or marriage, you still have to find a person who is the right person, because this will make you happier and happier because of your family environment, the same values, and equal status, which is very topical.
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I am in favor of having a marriage, because only a marriage with the right family will make two people happy after marriage, and the children raised by families with similar conditions will have similar ways of looking at problems, so that they may have a common language.
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The marriage of the right person is not necessarily happy, it mainly depends on whether the two people have feelings, if there are feelings, even if the door is not right, the household is not right, it is okay, happy. It's just the old notion that a marriage with the right family will be stronger and happier. It is easier to maintain a little because two people have the same background and concept of life, and the same is true for people from two families, so marriage is not only about two people, but also about two families.
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The so-called marriage of the husband and wife refers to the fact that the husband and wife have the same or similar family conditions in all aspects. ......Such marriages are relatively stable. ......Here's why:
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Hello, generally speaking, it is easier to maintain a marriage that is a good match, because two people have the same living background and the same concept of life, and the same is true for people from two families, because marriage is not only related to two people, but also to two families, thank you.
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The so-called marriage of the right family, first of all, is that the family situation of the two families is similar, and the educational background of the two is also about the same, in the eyes of many people, it should be a childhood sweetheart, this is the so-called family pair.
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The so-called marriage of the right family. It doesn't have to be happy. And some so-called marriages that are not in the right place are not necessarily unhappy. It depends on whether the two people will manage their own marriage.
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In a marriage that is the right person, two people will be happy after they get married, and the children raised by families with similar conditions have similar ways and methods of looking at problems, so that they may have a common language.
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Personally, I think that the right family is the most reasonable marriage!
Because the two sides of the door are more suitable, things are gathered in a similar way, not the same level, and it always feels a little abrupt to get together.
Personal opinion, don't spray if you don't like it!
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It is very important to be a household, those who want to get rich by marrying or marrying a daughter-in-law, get rich has always relied on hard work and wisdom, and the wealth you seek by selling yourself never belongs to you. Although it is not necessary for the two parties to be good, the benevolence of the rich and the backbone of the poor. Well-bred words.
Wealth is not an issue. However, there are so few such examples that it is basically not the turn of ordinary people.
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In a marriage where the two people live in the same environment and have more common language, they are also easy to communicate with, and they are easy to be treated equally emotionally. A marriage that is a good match is easy to get along with and communicate, and the foundation is easy to consolidate.
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The so-called marriage of the right family, I think it is necessary, because the marriage of the right family does not refer to the same family conditions, but refers to the two people who love each other in terms of knowledge, ability and living habits are roughly the same, such two people are the right people, and they can reap their own happiness.
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The so-called door to door, more will be said because of the environment of childhood life, personal experience is relatively similar, so it is easy to form a more similar three views, such a concept of the same people in the process of getting along will have more common views, so that there is a lot less friction and contradictions, easier to get along, just said that the possibility will be greater, but not absolutely, but also to see whether the three views are compatible.
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The right marriage. In many cases, the marriage of the right family will have a more stable life because the living environment of the two people is very similar, and they will get along more harmoniously. But not all the right people will be happy, there are also good people, the main thing about divorce is to see whether the two people have mutual respect and understanding, know how to tolerate the scope of thinking, so that the marriage will be more stable.
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Hello friends, the so-called marriage should be very stable, at least the three views of two people and all the values and social views will be consistent, so that there is no big gap between the two people, so that after living together, different problems cause family discord, so there is a certain truth in saying that the family is right, thank you.
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If the marriage is the right one, then the two people will be happy after marriage, and the children raised by families with similar conditions will have similar ways and methods of looking at problems, so that they may have a common language. As the so-called three people with similar views are suitable for being together.
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The so-called family pair means that the family environment of two people is not too similar, and the values including the identity of the two people are equal.
I still agree with the marriage of the right family, after all, these things are very important for marriage. Without these things to support a marriage, it is difficult to last long.
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I think there is a lot of truth to the fact that many people pursue not being a household in their marriage. Because only the family members will not be kidnapped by other factors in our marriage, and we will be able to deal with the various problems in the marriage fairly.
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Generally speaking, the marriage is the right one.
Two people will be happier when they get married.
Since it comes from a family with comparable conditions.
Then the outlook on life and values of both husband and wife, and so on.
Then you can be happier when you live together.
Children who are raised in such an environment will also be better.
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I won't get married because I'm married, only when I meet someone who has the same three views, the same goal in life, and a person who dotes on me and loves me and has a common language, I can marry her.
Clause. First, the three views are very important.
A person's three views are directly linked to his spiritual world, so if your spiritual world can't be the right one, then your three matches Lu Sen view may be difficult to be consistent, two people with different three views live together, it is very tiring, and marriage is naturally useless after a long time.
Clause. 2. Life goals.
In marriage, the husband and wife will be able to achieve long-term harmony if they have the same life goals, but if the husband and wife are inconsistent in spirit and ideas, then it will directly affect the goals and structure of the marriage.
Therefore, many people do not care about the family background and family background when they get married, thinking that as long as they have feelings, they can overcome the habits brought by these original families.
Clause. 3. Common language.
The most direct manifestation of the spiritual level is whether there is a common language, you are talking to him about the world political situation, but he replies to you trivial, like a chicken and a duck talking, you can never find a topic to chat with, slowly you will be alienated, and the spiritual world will feel very lonely.
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Do you think it's important to be the right person in your marriage? It is very important that everyone has the imprint of the original family on their body, which almost affects their lives. The door-to-door pair is mainly reflected in social class, cultural upbringing, economic conditions and other face-to-face.
The people cultivated by these families with similar conditions have basically similar three views, at least the gap is not too big, so it is easier to get along, even if there are some problems, it is relatively easy for parents on both sides to communicate. Therefore, the right match is the foundation of a stable marriage. I think it's important.
Marriage is based on equality, and this equality is more manifested in economic independence and independence of thought. Two people from different families, in order to enter into marriage, it is necessary to love each other, but often it is easy for two people to love each other, and they fall in love with each other when they are in love with each other.
The hardest thing is actually to get along for a long time. After getting along for a long time, their respective tempers, habits and lifestyles from their original families, their attitudes towards everything, and the behaviors, words, deeds, concepts, and opinions of the members of the two families all affect each other's emotions and thoughts. These are difficult to reconcile and agree on each other's inclusive understanding.
After a long time, conflicts will definitely break out, and without exception affect the feelings of two people. If it is so irreconcilable for a long time, the marriage will not be happy. Only two people's family social status, economic conditions are close or equivalent, two people together can be more integrated together, the smaller the difference, the more harmonious, the easier to get along for a long time.
So I think it's important to be the right person.
There are still many benefits to being a good person in marriage, and it is easier to communicate in language, and there is no one who is higher or lower in family status, at least not to look up to others. It is very taboo in marriage, it is easy to produce pride and inferiority of one party, easy to psychological imbalance, that is, there will be differences in living habits and social circles, and it is also easy to produce family conflicts. But this is not absolute, it can only be said that there is this phenomenon, this possibility, in fact, the three views in the marriage are very important, and the happiness index will be higher in the marriage with the same three views.
In fact, no matter whether a boy or girl is looking for a partner, it is best to see if the three views are correct or not, whether the character is good, whether there are bad habits, whether there are bad habits, whether the person is frivolous, and then the character, which is also very important, people with bad personality may detonate at any time, you must know that the country is easy to change, the nature is difficult to change, and the temper is also difficult to change. Of course, the material foundation also needs to be properly considered, it is bound to be too difficult to start from scratch, which is also a practical problem, but it can't be too much pursuit, you can eat food and clothing, people's hearts are not enough to swallow elephants, greed is not enough to eat the moon, it is impossible to be perfect in everything.
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