I m going to get married, but I hesitated, before I got married, I hesitated

Premarital fear is normal, but to distinguish whether the root of hesitation is fear or your own psychological immaturity, the former can be overcome through communication between the two parties, and the latter is troublesome, I can't help you, only time can solve the problem.

Your ex-boyfriend is a sweetheart, and you know this better than anyone else, will you and him be happy? So cherish your current boyfriend and don't think too much.

You are 24-5 years old and your current husband.

That is to say, you know your ex-boyfriend who is only 18 or 19 years old, and he is only 18 19 when he breaks up, which is too young! Seize the happiness in front of you, or you will regret your death.

Since it's an ex-boyfriend, it represents the past tense, don't always think that what you don't get is the best, the 5-year relationship is hard-won, forget to think twice.

The ex-boyfriend is all in the past.,What do you mention about him.。。 Besides, it's a big carrot.

What you should think about is: what is not satisfactory to you with your current husband-to-be, and whether it will affect your future life.

You should really want to have a vigorous love, find your ex-boyfriend, if one day he finds another one better than you, then what do you do, hide and cry.

The goodness of your ex-boyfriend is something you fantasize about and can't stand the test of life. Hurry up and wake up.

Hesitation before marriage to get married What does the hesitation to marry mean.

1.Not ready.

Most people hesitate to get married because they are not ready to enter the palace of marriage. It may be that the relationship between the two is not so deep, or it may be that the material is not rich enough. After all, marriage is a lifelong affair and requires a certain amount of material support.

It's better for the two to wait until their relationship is a matter of course, and then consider getting married.

2.Don't want to get married.

Some people are hesitant when their partner mentions marriage, probably because they don't want to get married. You may not want to start a family at a young age, or you may not be sure that you want to marry your romantic partner. If the other party is hesitant to marry you, then the relationship between the two needs to be reconsidered.

As long as one person is determined, there will be no hesitation to get married.

3.Worry about the future.

There are also some people who hesitate to get married because they are worried about their future married life, that is, premarital fear or premarital anxiety. After all, marriage is not the same as falling in love, and it is easy to have conflicts with each other's families after marriage. At this time, the two can get along with each other's parents more and get used to this mode of getting along in advance.

Then ask yourself! If you yourself feel that marriage is not good, and you don't want to get married, then you will feel very tired and unhappy after you get married!

If you also want to get married then get married, I think it's really happy to get married and have a sweet home of your own.

If you are very hesitant about the relationship between two people and don't know whether to get married, don't get married, which means that you are not sure about yourself and do not have the confidence to go on with the other person.

Hello, you are still young and not yet ready to get married, if you feel that you are not suitable for marriage now, then don't get married. Your task now is to study well, and when you have the ability to do so, you will think about getting married. If you get married now, then your marriage will be like child's play, without any emotional foundation, and you will be very tired in the future.

You can communicate more with your family, let your family give you some advice, and then combine your own ideas to see if you really want to get married, and then get married.

Chatting with my girlfriend before getting the license, she asked me with a smile: "Have you decided to marry yourself?" "I'm truthful :

There is also hesitation, sincere fear. This sentence immediately aroused her best friend's interest, and she hurriedly asked, "Where is the hesitation?"

Mr. Xue is good, but it is not easy to compromise, and as long as it is my fault to quarrel, he will definitely lay out the facts and reason with me. After hearing this, my best friend looked into my eyes and said seriously: "If you think that this habit is likely to become a stumbling block to your marriage, you can think about it again, and the difficulty of accepting before marriage will be infinitely magnified after marriage."

After listening to his best friend's words, after some thought, he finally entered the palace of marriage with Mr. Xue on a sunny morning.

Some people say that if you think too much before getting the certificate, you can't get married, and some people say that if you hesitate before getting married, you can't get married, and I say that hesitation before marriage is not terrible, but what is terrible is to stick to or give up without thinking.

When you fall in love with Mr. Xue, there is an agreement, do not hide, do not pretend, and show your truest self in front of the other party, so that you can know if the other party is the person you really want to find. After two years of running-in, every time I encounter a quarrel, I find that Mr. Xue always grasps the things I have done wrong, and he has to let me understand where my mistakes are, even if I bring rain to him, he will not compromise easily. The reason is that he doesn't want our lives to be arguing over the same thing, and of course, he will do the wrong thing about him.

Before receiving the certificate, I thought about this issue seriously, and Mr. Xue's rationality is what attracts me the most, and it is not surprising that people who are used to maintaining their sanity and rationality will not compromise easily. It is said that home is not a place to be reasonable, but when you meet such a rational and super logical person, it must be very hard to live an unreasonable life. Since I want to spend the rest of my life with him, I can't get over this hurdle, so I can't make a decision easily.

After figuring it out, it was naturally smooth, so there was a later story. It's been two years since I got married, and looking back on my married life in the past two years, every time I quarrel, I see him being serious and reasonable, and I never regret my original choice.

It is said that marriage is the grave of love, but I think, as long as you think clearly before marriage, if you can't give him what you want, whether everything will be okay. Think clearly and then make a choice, so that you will not regret your original choice one day and at a certain moment in the future.

I wish you all happiness

Summary. In general, trust is very important in love, and it is also related to your qualities.

2. Whether you feel safe with the other person means that you can be sincere and peaceful.

Communicate with the other party, whether there will be a good communication foundation, this is faith.

Allow. If you feel like chatting with the other person, you don't have to worry about whether the other person will be born.

Anger may dislike you and can give you enough security, then you at least.

You can communicate happily with him, so you can distinguish the right one in communication.

Whether they are suitable candidates for marriage.

Don't get married if you have the slightest hesitation.

Hello, dear I'm glad to answer for you 1, a trust between husband and wife can represent whether the other party values you, in general, trust is very important in love, and it is also related to your quality. 2. Whether you feel safe with the other party, which means that you can communicate sincerely with the other party, and whether there will be a good foundation for communication, which is trust. If you feel that chatting with the other person is not worried about whether the other person will be angry or dislike you, and can give you enough security, then you can at least communicate with him happily, so you can determine whether the other person is suitable for marriage.

Get along for a month and get the bride price. Personality incompatibility was discovered.

Article 10 of the Interpretation (II) of the Supreme People's Court on Several Issues Concerning the Application of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China (hereinafter referred to as the "Interpretation (II)") stipulates that: "Where a party requests the return of the bride price paid in accordance with custom, the people's court shall support it if it is ascertained that the following circumstances apply: (1) the parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities; (2) The parties have gone through marriage registration formalities but do not live together; (3) Payments made before marriage and causing hardship to the payor.

The application of the provisions of items (2) and (3) of the preceding paragraph shall be conditional on the divorce of both parties.

Hello, if you have not registered your marriage, you can ask the other party to return the bride price, and the law is based on Article 10 of the Judicial Interpretation II of the Marriage Law.

We don't get along, and we don't see each other for many days. Is it sloppy to take the bride price?

Hello dear yes.