Some men have excellent conditions, so why do they have to go on a blind date?

Some boys have excellent conditions and want to go on a blind date, maybe because of the compulsion of the family, or it may be that there are no suitable girls around him, so they will choose to go on a blind date.

Introverts don't like to deal with others, most girls like boys who can speak well, and they don't have the courage to provoke girls due to their personality.

Just because they are very good, they can't find a more suitable partner for themselves, but blind dates are all about each other's conditions, so there will be a lot of detours, and they will be matched according to the conditions.

Because these people generally focus on their work and career, they don't have time to meet all kinds of girls for dating and falling in love, but blind dates can provide them with ready-made and similar levels.

Although some boys have excellent conditions, they are not very good at getting along with girls, or they have been busy with their careers and have no time to fall in love, so they can only go on blind dates.

Although the conditions are very good, they don't have a suitable girlfriend, so they make some friends of the opposite sex through this channel.

Maybe it's because he hasn't found a suitable partner, so he wants to go on a blind date to see if he can find someone who has the same topic as him.

Judging from your description, you met this man through a blind date, but this man's family conditions are not very good, you are a little dissatisfied, I think family conditions are secondary factors, mainly depends on character and whether there is potential, whether it is good for both parents.

When you talk about other people's conditions, you have to look at yourself in the mirror, you are really so good that you will not be married in your 30s, find a man, as long as the man is good to you, make money diligently, even if the family is good, you will not pass the door and give it all to you, be content.

First of all, it can not be seen from your description that you appreciate this man, but are full of helplessness, his conditions do not meet your standards, and this man is not very satisfactory to you, then you have to consider, do you want to ask for a stable and unturbulent life, find a man who is okay to live, or bravely give up this opportunity, and then wait for a man who meets your standards and satisfies you, after all, marriage is a lifelong thing.

Secondly, you mentioned the trouble that age brings to you, since you came here to ask questions, then I believe that you must be an independent woman with your own ideas, who have adhered to the principle for so many years, will you be willing to give up here? You need to think about it!

You don't need to like it much to get married, but at least you don't hate it, you obviously don't like him and have some dislike for him, don't get married for the sake of getting married, if you're doing well alone, but your parents are urging you to get married, then talk to your parents, have skills, let your parents see those who are married and divorced, as well as those who become resentful couples, and even kill their wives, and slowly let them accept it, marriage is not a necessity, and it is better to live by yourself if you barely meet such a person. The main thing is that you have to think about what kind of life you want.

Emotional love is reluctant to hurt, because I have feelings for you, so I don't want you to be sad, so I am reluctant to hurt your ......

Feelings are to leave silently when it is time to leave, no one is deliberately trying to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, and if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

If you still love him, you should want him to live happily, hope that he is with the person he really loves, and will never stop him, if you prevent him from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him, what right do you have to accuse him of changing his mind?

Feelings are waiting, when I have feelings for you, I would rather wait like this stupidly all the time, I can wait desperately for ......

Feelings are giving up, and if you have feelings for you, I hope you can be happy, so I learn to give up ......Feelings are love and hate.

As deep as love is, as deep as hatred ......

Feelings, she is the most complex and simplest thing in the world;

She is the easiest thing in the world to have, and the easiest to lose;

He is the most lovable and the most hated thing in ...... worldFeelings: The greatest weakness of humanity!

Feelings are the bane of contradictions!

Feelings are the wealth given by God, and what is the point of living without feelings. What people pour into them is emotionally invested.

You think it's okay to go on a blind date, you might as well get along with this man for a while, see how he treats you, whether he really loves you, if he really loves you, if this man has good quality, is a responsible and responsible man, he can give you a sense of security, then you should accept his love for you.

But the family conditions are not very good, in this case, as long as two people are in love with each other, those two people must work hard to start a business together, be able to bear hardships and stand hard work, be independent and self-reliant, have their own life goals, and through their own efforts, then your life will slowly get better.

Thank you for having me, Buddhist, May 18, 2021.

It depends on your determination, whether it's human or material. Since you are hesitant about the conditions of the boy now, it means that even if you are with the boy, there is a hidden danger of conflicts due to economic conditions in the future. So give up on the boy, follow the family's request, and find a boy who meets your expectations financially.

Since you don't like it, don't delay others, I don't think I like it very much when you describe it, since you don't like it so much, don't force it, find a ...... that suits you betterIt's already like this when you fall in love, and it's even more difficult to get married......

Think about it! After all, I am no longer young, I have no capital to choose, good conditions may not necessarily take a fancy to you, good conditions can accept your estimate is a second marriage, the second marriage is not bad, but most of the second marriage will have the interference of children, and then there will be more contradictions than the original match, and you can't deal with these things without enough life experience.

Love is mutual liking, mutual respect and tolerance, people are not afraid of being poor, they are afraid of laziness and no ambition, as long as they work hard and thrifty, life will get better and better.

The conditions at home are not very good, and if you are very concerned about the conditions at home, I advise you not to continue. After all. The burden on the family should still be very heavy.

I'm also very much inclined to the right match. If the disparity is relatively large. Then let's choose something else!

It's better to lack than to abuse, don't compromise because of the family's urging, it is likely to end in divorce, why bother.

In fact, when two people get along together, it mainly depends on the communication and tolerance between each other, mainly depending on the quality of the individual. The conditions at home are not very good, and it is up to the two of you to change it yourself. If a person's character is not good, it cannot be changed.

Then it depends on whether you fancy his character, or his family background is also a blind date anyway, if you think his family is not good, then you can find a good family background, and it is better to find a good family, so that the two people can be a good match.

You can't get married because of your family and your age, and you can't dislike it because of family conditions, the main thing is to see its heart, ability, and whether it's self-motivated, as long as the heart is upward, everything will be fine.

I think the most important thing is that you still have to look at the other party, in fact, if a person is a potential stock, then he can also create a happy life in the future, no matter how good the conditions at home are, it does not mean that it is his. So people are still the most important.

Listen to the first voice in your heart, since you can ask this question, then you must have the answer yourself, since you are already 30+, it means that you are an assertive and capable person, marriage is not child's play, you must find someone who feels right, otherwise you will not be happy after marriage.

Although the other party's family conditions are average, it depends on whether you really like each other, if you really like each other, even if the other party's family conditions are not good, I believe you are willing to be with each other, after all, you really like each other.

It depends on what you think, and you see if the other party is worth your efforts for him.

As long as fate arrives and the two meet each other's eyes, no problem will be a problem. As long as the two are like-minded, they can have a bright future with their own hands.

The conditions are not very good, you can struggle by yourself, why expect the man's family to provide you with a rich life, it is more meaningful to struggle by yourself.

You can think about what shining points you have, how to let others find these shining points, blind dates are also consensual things, maybe others don't care about your own conditions. Believe in yourself and go if you want!

Should you go on a blind date when you encounter this kind of advice, why? There are several reasons: 1. Blind date is an opportunity for relatives and friends to introduce men and women to each other, and blind date is an opportunity, of course, there is a chance to succeed and the possibility of not succeeding.

However, if you don't go on a blind date, you will disappoint your relatives and friends; 2. The blind date should be respected, and you can still be friends if the blind date fails; 3. Blind date is the beginning of two people getting to know each other, and maybe they will deepen their understanding of each other in the process of getting along in the future.

It doesn't matter much if it's bad, there's always the one who likes you.

How bad it is, you have to say it, otherwise how can you judge...

1, let's talk about the heart-wrenching first: boys' conditions are better than girls' everywhere, most of them don't look down on you, they are very realistic, they are very good at weighing the pros and cons, you don't have the advantage of being able to make up for his shortcomings, basically no play! The general situation determined by the objective environment is:

Ordinary girls are introduced to one or two points that are not as good as their ordinary boys, and the shortcomings depend on your choice, and you can find other aspects to make up for each other's shortcomings. We must be clear about our rigid and flexible needs for mate selection, and it is recommended to start from the perspective of marriage.

2, chat and treat people, you can't see that the boy who can't find any fault is not necessarily perfect, don't rush into it, some people are just educated by the family scum to observe words and feelings, it doesn't mean that he is interested in you. Remember, blind date is not free love, you must not fall in love, the only criterion for a blind date man to be interesting to you is to clearly state with you that he wants to determine the relationship and take you to meet your parents. If you just say that you like you but are not sure that the relationship is dragging you back, you must have ulterior motives.

3. There is no need to deliberately have a very exclusive attitude towards blind dates, blind dates are very suitable for people who are busy with life and work, and it is a good way to broaden the social circle of the opposite sex. The advantage of the blind date screening mechanism is that it can quickly help you filter out some people with inappropriate family backgrounds. A lot of sweet love that you envy is actually a blind date, and when you have a more positive and optimistic attitude towards blind dates, blind dates will also reward you with a good result.

When going on a blind date, you can focus on whether the following conditions of the boy meet his own requirements.

1.Form Factor:

Go on a blind date and sit down. At first glance, it must be based on the appearance, and if the appearance is not in place, many girls have no desire to talk. Many boys said, then I am not handsome enough, my appearance has already been born, what should I do?

Many girls don't look at your looks, or look at your outfit. The beard is cleaned and the clothes are neat. What girls hate the most is that sloppy people are hungry.

2.Economic Basis:

The first impression is passed, and some information may be exchanged later, such as cars and houses. These are all bonus conditions, there is the best, without us will continue to work hard.

3.Culture, Conversation:

If the shape passes, and the economic conditions are acceptable to each other, we will start talking about hobbies later. Show your culture, interesting experiences, and life will make the other person feel more good about you.

Keep in touch with you:

You feel that you have thoughts about the person who is having a blind date, remember to keep in touch with each other.

Especially boys, take the initiative to have a chance. A lot of girls are more passive.

What about what points? It is to focus on whether some of the boys' conditions meet their own requirements.

Personally, I feel that it depends on the character, it doesn't matter if the money is not rich, as long as the character is good.

The blind date is rich and handsome, and the character is added.

First of all, it is important to realize that choosing one of the two is a common situation in the blind date process, and there is no need to worry too much or be discouraged.

Here are a few suggestions for dealing with either/or:

1.Think about whether you want to continue the pursuit.

But if you don't think the other person is the best person for you, then don't waste each other's time and energy and give up.

2.Don't dwell too much on the feeling of rejection.

Blind date is an attempt, and not everyone will succeed. Accept failure and don't blame yourself or be overly self-judgmental.

3.Carefully analyze the reasons for choosing one or the other.

If the other party does not explain the reason, you can try to communicate with the other party and ask the other party about their impression of themselves, the problem is **, so as to avoid similar problems from happening again.

4.Maintain a positive mindset.

Don't give up on a blind date because of a failure, you should learn from it, and learn to appreciate some of the good experiences in the blind date process, such as a pleasant chat on a date and the opportunity to meet someone new.