It is said that a girl s marriage is an opportunity to change her fate, do you agree?

I firmly disagree, I think this question is too disrespectful to women, why is marriage an opportunity to change your fate? Can't women decide their own destiny? Do you have to rely on others?

That's a little too funny.

Today is a new era, people's ideas are also changing, discriminating against women, that women are inherently weak stereotypes have been almost eliminated, but there are still a few people who depreciate the status of women again and again, denying women's abilities, I just want to say why? In a family, many people say that the husband has worked hard to support the whole family, but without the hard work of the wife and the silent efforts behind the wife, how good can this family be?

In fact, women nowadays are generally more self-reliant and self-reliant. If the conditions are better, you can continue to study, constantly improve your academic qualifications, and constantly enrich your knowledge. Even if the conditions are not very good, they can find a basically suitable job in society, not to mention that they can be rich and expensive, but at least they can support themselves, right?

After a few years of hard work, how do you know that their fate will not be rewritten by themselves?

Of course, from a rational point of view, this issue cannot be generalized, nor can individual cases be ruled out. For example, the story of a poor woman marrying into a wealthy family, marriage can indeed change the fate of her life. But if you don't really love each other, I don't support this kind of marriage, who says that women are inferior to men?

How can you bend your waist for money and material things?

In fact, whether we are men or women, we can only rely on ourselves, and our destiny is in our own hands.

Agree, marry a rich man and struggle for several years, you don't have to buy a house or a car, it is estimated that a job can help you find a good one. To marry, you must marry the right person.

I don't agree, some things can actually rely on your own hands to fight, and finally get the most desired thing, even if you get married and find a rich partner, you may not have a good life in the future.

I think there is some truth to this, but not all, if the person you like happens to be rich, of course your standard of living will be better, but if you don't like him, he has no money, and your marriage may not be happy.

I don't agree with it this way, because I think everyone's fate is in their own hands, not that if you marry well, you must be good, what you want, give yourself, and your own destiny is in your own hands.

I don't agree, I think women should not depend on men to survive, women should have their own jobs, and it should be up to them to change their fate, not marriage!

When a girl gets married, her fate will definitely be changed, whether it will get better or worse, it is not necessarily. And finding a rich man to live, although it looks beautiful, but if the other party doesn't care about you, it is also very possible to kick it away.

I don't want to think that a girl's change of fate is about getting married. Being admitted to a good school is to change your destiny, because knowledge is relatively fair to you, and some of it will be beneficial for you to find a job and life in the future.

I don't agree, if you find a rich object, but there is no relationship between you, married life is destined to be unhappy, you must find the right one you like when you get married, even if you don't have money, two people will work hard together, and you have to rely on yourself to change your fate, not on men.

I think women should not regard marriage as an opportunity to change their destiny, women should still be independent, and everything is unreliable on their own and men.

I've always thought that the story of Cinderella and the prince can only exist in fairy tales, and there is no such example in real life

In reality, there are indeed those who change their fate through marriage, but they are really a minority. You can empathize with yourself, if you are a boy and your own conditions are very good, there is a high probability that you will definitely find someone who matches you, rather than looking for someone who is too far behind you。Therefore, if a woman is useless, has no ability and no family background, the probability of wanting to change her fate through marriage is really too low, and even if she really has a good marriage, it will not last too long.

I think that a small number of women can change their destiny through marriage, and it is enough to have a husband who loves me very much.

No. Because of the fate that you want to change, you can only rely on yourself in the end, and relying on others will eventually be in vain.

Yes, in a good marriage, the husband and wife have similar views, can appreciate each other, support each other, and grow together. The marriage will be happier and happier, and the fate of both husband and wife will be better and better.

Possibly. There are countless examples of this, both ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign. But it is not only fate that is changed, but also a person's character and psychology.

Therefore, the price is high, there is no such thing as a free lunch!

Possibly. A beautiful and temperamental girl can marry a very wealthy man. Then the fate of this life is changed. I am very comfortable and my children can receive a better education.

There are many choices to change your fate, including academics, careers, and marriages. And for a woman, marriage is her choice to change her fate.

I've always felt that the choices that didn't change my life were often not made by thought, but sometimes they were just thought out casually. And to talk about whether a decision has changed your life or not is not to look at it in front of you, but to look back in the coming decades. Only after the right years can you judge how the marriage you chose changed your destiny.

Generally speaking, the choice of marriage can change a lot for both men and women. Marriage brings benefits, higher economic income, more regular sex life, higher social status, and lower crime rates. A good marriage brings both husband and wife to progress together, and two people have two semicircles to become a circle.

But a bad marriage brings people endless pain, healing emotional wounds, poor financial situation, and irreconcilable family conflicts.

It is unlikely that marriage will change its fate for the better or for the worse, if it is not for nothing. Why should marriage be treated differently for women? Why is it that women talk about marriage when they talk about the way to change their fate, but men rarely talk about this situation?

In fact, this is not the case, both men and women can change their fate through marriage when they meet a partner with abundant resources.

Therefore, girls don't think that marriage can change their fate and have expectations beyond reality, you still have to have resources to have the right to choose, and so does marriage.

Recently, I was poked in the heart by "The First Half of My Life", which is not only very close to real life, but also poked at many people who are pretending to be asleep like me.

I raise you" This is a man's most beautiful love words, every woman hopes that she can live as "Luo Zijun" in the early days of the TV series, be a full-time wife, have a motivated husband, have a child, and an obedient maid, don't worry about money, don't worry about life, and be a happy little woman.

But in the end, Chen Junsheng abandoned Luo Zijun and found Ling Ling, who had a common language with him in his career.

In the TV series, Tang Jing said: The person who makes rapid progress in marriage will always get rid of the person who stands still, because people's instinct is to want to explore more of the extension and connotation of life. Yes, no one likes to stand still, the one who remains the same.

The one who goes far will not always be accustomed to waiting.

In the relationship between two people, not only marriage, but also friendship, if you stay where you are for too long, you will find that the person who is on the road with you has already gone away, even if you shout vigorously and ask him to wait for you, once or twice maybe people are waiting for you, three or four times?

In marriage, if you teach your future to a man without any cards, you will only be like "Luo Zijun", when you are cleared out of the house, you have no choice but to leave. Working and making money is a woman's greatest confidence.

Progress in marriage does not go hand in hand, but the most basic thing is that you have to make relative progress on the original basis, at the very least, you must have common topics with the other party. You can't always when the other party wants to talk to you, you only know Korean dramas and running men, and you can only uh-huh, right?

Once there is no communication between the two, is it still husband and wife? The most familiar stranger, but that's it, right? Perhaps, even familiarity can't be done. After all, everyone wants to live with an interesting soul!

Marriage is an important decision and experience in life, and for a woman, marriage is indeed a very important choice to change a person's fate.

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