The troubles of university life, the sensible people enter!

After all, I don't judge your two roommates if they don't understand, but have you thought about it, the dominant force in this world is still people, people are social creatures, and the difference with beasts is that we have our own moral laws... It's a big deal, isn't it... It means that life is like this, you can't say that this thing is yours, you can dispose of it at will, you have to consider the feelings of others.

It's not to criticize you here, it's just to illustrate the problem, to put it more broadly, the dormitory is a collective resting place, the bed is a personal space, you can throw a pair of garbage on the bed, and then say to others, this is my bed... It's an exaggeration, but you can try to understand why you're being excluded, and maybe you'll feel better if you figure it out.

The landlord thinks he can't stand it? You're too much, right?,In a dormitory, everyone jokes or something.,I think it's nothing.,I remember that when I was a freshman, the three people in my dormitory often joked about me.,It's nothing to laugh and laugh! Long hair isn't good after all, so cut it.

Take care of your hygiene!

I think they are well-intentioned After all, you are still a student You have to be like a student You should have low self-esteem if you think like this You always feel like being targeted at you Let it go, roommates don't kiss anyone.

Well, maybe you're thinking too much. However, there are always times when people are in a bad mood and can be suspicious. If the hair can be cut, cut it and sprinkle it, and the boy's short hair looks spirited.

If you don't cut it, try to make your hair as fresh as possible. Of course, this is because please yourself, and it is obviously more important to be yourself, but it would be better if you could get others to agree with you at the same time. FYI.

This is just a small thing, and this is your personal life preference, you don't need to cater to them, no matter what they think, just be happy.

I think there's nothing wrong with everyone, you really don't have to care too much about those useless people, and do what you have to do.

I'll send you a sentence Go your own way and let others say go It's so big I don't understand this truth? There are so many things in life that you are so calculating, and you can't live It's not good, but it's the truth, I also have a lot of troubles, and there are many rumors, and there are many unwarranted disasters, but I solved it with just one thing: learn to laugh at myself.

When you really can't ignore these words, learn to laugh at yourself! No matter what you do, the main thing is to make life easy and happy, and miscellaneous things will only increase the burden of your mind.

The small group of the university is like that, you just have to ignore them, or form your own small team

Don't worry, some people have their own personalities. Be yourself, there are other good things waiting for you in college.

It's you who are too careful, and they are agreeing with the kind smile. It's just that you don't notice it.

Don't care what they think, what you think is right is right, and others can't control your thoughts.

It's just a joke in the university dormitory, don't pay too much attention to it, maybe you're thinking too much about it.

Endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky! You finally got into a dormitory, and it's fate, so don't be too careful! You're going to be together for a few more years! Like the four of us in the dormitory, they all call each other nicknames, and the relationship is iron!

Don't care about them,,, some people are like that, don't influence you because of them, so that you don't change things.

In fact, it's not deliberately aimed at you, it's just that we live together, and I believe that our relationship can withstand mutual ridicule, but we are relatively iron compared to others. I like to laugh at my best friends when they're in trouble, and I'm too lazy to care if it's anyone else.

Actually, he probably didn't have any malicious intentions, he was just joking.

Yes, I think so too.

It's not easy for parents to train you! You also have to be considerate of your parents' feelings, I am also a student, and I don't have the same experience as you, but I feel the same way.

your mom and dad and scold you.

You can't earn money on your own.

I don't know how to save it.

You think money is so easy to earn.

I'm embarrassed to come up and ask.

Reflect on yourself.

Don't think about how to get the money.

Learn to manage money, and money will take care of you;

You will manage money, but money will not necessarily take care of you;

If you don't know how to manage money, money will definitely ignore you;

You need to do a lot of planning and planning in terms of the economy;

Make a ledger!

Dizzy! College students now! Carried away by material life! ）

You can work and study on your own, or if your family conditions are really difficult, apply for a student loan and pay it back after you graduate and work.

Save a little yourself.

I went to college in 2002-2006 350 dollars a month. All fees are included. Let's think about it, why is it not enough to spend on what is necessary?

Don't wait for you to graduate, you won't make as much money a month as you did when you were in college. It's sad.

Just remember how much you take and pay her back.

Is it an obstacle to interpersonal communication? I have this, because I can't fit into the collective, and I don't like to talk. Is it lonely and lonely? There must be loneliness and loneliness, especially at this age in college, and I want to fall in love.

Is it academic confusion? It doesn't matter if you study, it's good to be able to find a job after graduation.

Is it because you feel inferior to yourself in general? If you are not tall enough, you will have a little low self-esteem.

Do you not know what to think of campus love? Campus love is an inevitable product of this college age group.

Don't know how to continue love? I don't have a girlfriend, so let's just continue.

Don't know how to prepare for the world? After graduating, it is natural for them to go out into society.

Are you a boy? Or a girl? What are your concerns? What are your professional troubles?

I'm a boy. My troubles are that I don't have a girlfriend, and my major troubles are: I am in finance and insurance, I think this major is too difficult, and it is completely different from high school language, mathematics and English, so I often skip classes, to put it bluntly, I chose a wrong major.

College is all about depression.

There are a lot of useless things, and they are so complicated, and there are a lot of depressing and useless theories.

Don't get down to business.

In college, I went out to the playground at night to run and exercise, and found a pair of romantic under the shadow of the tree, and even, for a while, someone on the side of the playground always pulled the erhu "Erquan Yingyue" to accompany my footsteps, and my psychological taste was uncomfortable.

I'm not strong enough, I don't have the heart ...

Sometimes I don't handle interpersonal relationships well.

And I'm the class leader.

A lot of the time it's confusing.

At that time, the trouble was that I didn't do well in the college entrance examination.

I'm a boy, I don't have any worries. I think you have to hold your breath and wait patiently, sooner or later it will come, and it will be yours after all. Answer: If you have troubles, it is better to spend more time on improving your personality charm, improve your connotation, and improve your communication, I personally think that these three things should really be learned in college, and then you will find that the lover will come to the door unconsciously.

The professional thing is not much to use when it comes to work, of course, the major must at least be familiar with it, and the society is mixed with the accumulation of experience, not by the fact that you can do a full score in the professional test questions.

You really worry too much, you can enjoy the college life to the fullest, happy every day, full every day, the future you said, love, the preparation to step into the society, the confusion of study, and the obstacles to interpersonal communication are all things that are natural and straight from the boat to the bridge, and sooner or later there will be a day when they are faced and solved, and prepare more when they do not come, wait patiently, instead of worrying and complaining. I wish you a speedy solution to your confusion.

Pls why are you asking this boring question.

Aren't you going to be helped?

Do you want to help others as a result?

Actually, you mentioned that the above symptoms are all there, but I think it's still at a loss for the rest of life, and I don't know what to do.

Actually, everyone didn't say it, most of it was love, and most of it was career.

College is so scary? I'm a little scared.

Hehe, I also came over during that time.

When you don't have classes, you can go to the library to read books, no matter what type of book you are interested in, or go to the playground with a few classmates, so that when you leave school, the most worthy of your nostalgia will be the library and the playground, now I think it's beautiful, hehe. You can also try it.

Oh, life, it is inevitable to encounter some setbacks and helplessness, especially school, boring, boring, including learning, life, emotional, too much unsatisfactory, unsatisfactory, but also can not be uncomfortable for some reasons, to fight for their future, give yourself a goal, no matter how big a setback, but also to live happily every day! I wish you success in your studies.

If you go to the library and read more books, you may find new pleasures. Go out on weekends and don't be lazy to go out just because ......the school is remote

University is not a paradise, the youth of the university is the coexistence of innocence and cunning, it is the coexistence of purity and scheming, it is the last step towards maturity, but also the most critical, the easiest step for people to relax their vigilance, please don't be infected by the noise around you, don't be attracted by the red men and green women, this is the last baptism of youth for us, but also the last temptation of youth for us, college youth is a moment when the dawn breaks.

Be selective about activities and spend more time cultivating your interests... Slowly ......But you will remember the events of this time and you will understand ...

The university lifted his pants up from me and said to me:"Youth stays, you go! "That's when it dawned on me that it wasn't me who went to college, it was college that went to me.

Well! Egg set! Attend more activities and do more to keep yourself busy.

The longing of the past will only become a beautiful future by relying on today's efforts, and it is only a freshman who plans his life well and does not waste it.

Sedation first

People have some time to waste, because it's for the better, and in the short period of time, you don't have to do anything big, long-term plans.

Think about how to adjust your mindset

Then think about what to do next in college life

Don't think about it so much, the only thing you need to communicate with people is sincerity, because only what you get in exchange for the southwest is sincerity! No matter how scheming that person is, everyone will understand sooner or later, and besides, this kind of thing will be commonplace in the future, and you won't be so surprised and complain when you get used to it. Moreover, the head of the dormitory is not a famous and advantageous official, a man should take a little revenge, don't be fascinated by a little petty profit, the respect of the dormitory people comes from their own inner cultivation and behavior, and everything will be exposed to everyone after a long time, so as long as you are sincere, it is enough.

College life needs to be social, but you don't have to spend most of your experience socializing! In fact, it is very important to learn knowledge, there are textbooks, and there are more social practices, so as long as you demand yourself well in college, learn a little more knowledge, and have sincere friends, you should cherish and socialize well, after all, this society is very hypocritical, and it is not easy to make sincere friends. Besides, your junior high school buddy deceived you, this is nothing, just take it as a lesson, it is better to see through a person early than to continue to deceive you and pretend to be a good person in front of you!

By the way, don't be too indignant, there will inevitably be setbacks in life, and only those who despise setbacks will not be knocked down by setbacks, after all, there are too many things that life needs you to do, don't waste your precious energy.

When the forest is big, there are all kinds of birds, you don't have to care too much about other people's opinions, if you care too much about others, won't you live for others? Don't add trouble to yourself, just live your own life, that's how it is in the dormitory, if you don't want to ignore them, avoid them, other people's eyes are the most useless! Just live on your own!

I also had the urge to drop out of school directly.

Come to think of it, there are a lot of strong people like this.

It's the same as in my university. But it's not me who is the head of the dormitory! I'm kind of a bystander!

The reason they don't bully me is because I have a bad temper! I think I'm going to have the most trouble in my head! So my class is very popular.

It's the same as the dormitory!! Brothers have to have spleens. And the head of the dormitory is not the boss!

ok？Scheming. Something about money!

It's better to be less entangled with him!! My personal experience.

This society is like this, everyone hates scheming people. Men are scheming and more disgusting.

It is inevitable to encounter some unpleasantness in life and study, and the key is what kind of mentality to use to face it. Personally, I think it's usually a matter of personal adjustment, or finding someone else (classmates, friends, teachers, etc.) to talk to and get help. If you feel that you go to the counselor too often and are unwilling to disturb others, you should try to solve the problem by yourself, so as to not only exercise your ability to deal with things, but also make yourself mature.

The mind has become more broad-minded, and there will be no more distractions and worries about some small things. I wish you a good mood every day.

In my own experience, university counselors have a lot of people and things to take care of, so they are not very patient and thoughtful with everyone. Your instructor can still handle it for you before, I think it's already very extreme, try not to look for it again.

I don't know what your specific problem is, whether it's because the people in the dormitory have different work habits than yours, which has a greater impact on you, or if there are difficult people in the dormitory. These problems are annoying and difficult to deal with.

But you have to know that although these problems are annoying and difficult to deal with, they are very common, so first of all, you have to put your mind right, don't think that you are the most unlucky person, you must know that there are many people who are facing these problems like you, and they are all on the same side as you, so that your mood will not be so bad.

If it's really a problem between roommates, find a good time and talk about it with a good attitude. Tell them about your troubles, ask them to tell them what they think, be open, understand each other, discuss how to deal with it, and preferably find a compromise.

If the other party is tougher, you can find another dormitory that can get along with you, and when you communicate well, and talk to your roommate, then go to the guide to see if he can change the dormitory for you. Don't go to the instructor without any eyebrows, you have to give the instructor a clear idea.

I recommend you to read Zhang Defen's book, you can start with "Meet the Unknown Self", that book is helpful to me, I hope it will also help you.

I wish you a speedy solution to your problem