How can we mature our minds?

First of all, I have to say that mental maturity is inseparable from suffering, and when you get rid of suffering with love, there will be a mental improvement. If you want to make a human change, the premise is that you have a good sense of suffering, that is, you can find the strength to grow in the suffering experienced by others. Reading, movies, can lead you to maturity, to see the suffering of those people, and then to find the power of redemption.

LZ: Don't think about it so much.

After all, he's just a student.

I haven't stepped into society and haven't experienced a lot of things.

Besides, everyone's personality is different from the environment in which they were born and raised.

Some people are precocious, and some people are late.

Don't pay too much attention to what others say, otherwise it's easy to lose yourself.

Don't be so blind to change yourself easily because of someone else's words.

This is something to keep in mind.

Now it's okay to study hard as a student.

In the future, when you graduate and enter the society, you will gradually get better when you hit a wall.

You're trying to make changes right now, and it's too hasty, there's no need.

Frankly I've been working and for a few years now.

When I got home, my dad said I was naïve and easy to be deceived.

So what.

I have to go through some things slowly to become more mature.

LZ, don't bother yourself.

Study hard.

I know from your name that your personality can't be changed, but it doesn't matter, don't be so pessimistic, care more about the people around you, think more about others, take good care of yourself, and be a good person.

In fact, it's not that others say that you are mature, you are mature, you have to do things from your future performance, mature people are very stable, even if they give people a very immature impression on the surface, but they are very stable and thoughtful, and they will be recognized by others and bosses, don't care too much about other people's opinions, do your best.

After a few more setbacks, you will slowly mature after a few injuries.

As long as you can do your own things well, why do you have to be mature, you always make yourself vicissitudes and tragedy.

Are you happy? Are you at ease? If you're sure, then don't care what others say, why make yourself miserable? It's best to be true to yourself and live comfortably!

True and false Monkey King Wukong's performance after being misunderstood:Sun Wukong asked the Dragon King for weapons but failed, so he did not give up until he found the golden hoop stick; Later, he asked for a drape, but when he refused again, he threatened to test the gold hoop in the Dragon Palace. When borrowing a banana fan, Sun Wukong was rejected by Princess Iron Fan, so he first got into her stomach, and then turned into the Bull Demon King and outwitted the fan.

Sun Wukong went from being rude and unreasonable to making good use of wisdom and understanding human feelings, and his mind became more mature.

Sun Wukong fought the white bone spirit three times, and was repeatedly misunderstood, he made a defense and said that he was unwilling to leave, but the misunderstanding was still not eliminated, and finally returned to Huaguo Mountain in anger. In the plot of "True and False Monkey King", Sun Wukong was misunderstood again, so he successively asked Guanyin, the Jade Emperor, Tang Seng, the King of Jizo, and the Buddha to identify his true body, and asked Guanyin to clarify the truth, and finally returned to the scripture team. It can be seen that Sun Wukong is more sophisticated, more accessible, and more determined.

A person's physical maturity is a natural formation as they age. But a person's psychological maturity must be related to experience and his ability to understand things, i.e., understanding. A person can understand from what he has experienced, whether it is good or bad, whether he is happy or sad, why he is happy, why he is sad, and why he has done it well.

Why did this go bad? When he understands, he will find out his experience, he will be more calm in his work, he will be able to deal with problems easily, and he will feel very sophisticated. But sophistication is not maturity, and sophistication and maturity have similarities but differences.

A person's maturity must have a good cultivation, and being sophisticated without cultivation is not maturity. For a mature person: When he is lonely, he can find something interesting to do and let the loneliness go away.

When he is lonely, he enjoys the silence of silence alone. He was glad that he was inspired by the silence and Mo of that moment in his heart. When embarrassed:

He defuses it with humor. Tricky: He handles it calmly.

When he's happy, he smiles. When he is in pain, he heals himself. When he succeeds, he feels that it is inevitable.

When he fails, he sees it as paving the way for success. He is always sincere when facing friends, and he is always smiling when he meets opponents. Bumpy is his only way, and happiness is the criterion for him to grasp.

The charm of a person is his maturity, he can say what he should say, and he will do what he can do. Not pompous, not ostentatious, not dull. Reliable, honest, optimistic, positive ......That's all I have for my understanding of maturity, and I hope it will enlighten you.

May my friend understand and mature when he matures. You are a mature person if you can do the following: One:

Bear the consequences of your actions and take responsibility for your actions, not just kick the chair; Two: Don't care about the difficulty, maybe it's a lucky start; Three: learn to get rid of the misfortunes in life; Four:

Have your own beliefs and put them into action; Five: You are unique; Six: Know and like yourself; Seven:

Don't blindly follow the attack; Eight: Always pay attention to those nasty behaviors in yourself; Nine: To make others like you, you must first make yourself likable.