Why do some people like class reunions and some people don t?

During the Chinese New Year, the reunion between classmates has become a norm, such a party is nothing more than everyone getting together to eat, singing K, when I was studying, there were still more people who participated in the party, and when I came out to work, everyone was more and more reluctant to participate in this kind of party, and those who participated were generally those who were usually more connected. On the third day of the Lunar New Year this year, our class also held a junior high school reunion, and there were only 11 people who went at that time, and these people were more active in the group, and they were also people who usually get together. Why are there so few people attending the meetings?

I summarized the following reasons: First of all, the vanity of classmates who are not very good is troubled, and they would rather not see people than let others know how they are doing. The second is that now the pace of life is fast-paced and stressful, and there is no way to get out of the work of the family and children, and many people think that they don't want to waste time in this kind of boring party.

In the end, I usually don't contact at all at all.,Only when you appear at a class reunion.,What do I talk to you?,I can only talk about some things before.,In fact, the classmate sitting opposite you.,It's no longer the previous classmate.,It's like a familiar stranger.,Greeting and asking a few words about the recent situation.,There's no more to talk about.,The rest is just full of embarrassment.,And then they play with their mobile phones.。

Personally, I think the so-called class reunion is just to show who is richer than whom, so there is no need to participate in it at all. Even if you are good enough to be rich, ordinary people have ordinary people's lives, everyone's background is different, even if you used to study at the same university, but in essence, everyone's family conditions are very different, so there is no need to go to the classmate association to find anger. Generally speaking, between the students who are often in contact, the feeling is either very deep, or the economic strength is comparable, at least it will not be too far behind, and there is no pressure to participate in such a class reunion.

The purpose of the class reunion is to never have an old dream, what if there is no old dream to pursue in the first place? Why bother to go to such a party, the relationship is not good, and you don't have points in your heart? Don't run over because you said it very important in **, only to find out that you can also have a party, even if you see that you are doing well, there is no need to be alone on the sidelines, after all, it has nothing to do with others, class reunions are easy to make their own gaps in a better life, and will make themselves have no sense of happiness at all, so it is better to participate in such a party less.

First of all, let's confirm the purpose of the reunion, the old classmates meet again after many years of separation, and they are generally curious, how has he or she become now? Old, or more beautiful, developed, rich, what kind of work, who to marry, etc., etc., but after the party, I found that the old classmates have undergone earth-shaking changes, some have developed and become rich, some are lonely, life is in a low-level state, successful people naturally attract many envious eyes, people who fail in life are naturally in a bad mood, the next time they get together again, it is estimated that they will find a reason to refuse it politely, plus some people still like to show off, so that The original purpose of the old class reunion has changed, so the old class reunion initiated the organizers to formulate a theme that everyone can accept before the party to avoid comparison. However, in fact, many things often backfire, so fewer and fewer people attend old school reunions.

This is an indisputable fact, and it eventually evolved into a reunion of several like-minded old classmates. Therefore, when we get together, we should not engage in any pomp and form, and invite a few people with similar values and personalities.

For me, students with a good relationship are often in contact even if they don't participate in class reunions, and students with bad relationships, even if they get in touch through class reunions, rarely have intersections in the future, and generally organize class reunions are relatively good in the class, more appealing, everyone will look at his face, participate in class reunions then my own experience, a few years ago, high school classmates organized class reunions, forty or fifty people in the class, almost a month of preparation, There are more than 20 people who came in the end, all of them are already very good, at that time, everyone basically just graduated from college, some classmates have been married, the classmates who have not seen for a long time are slightly embarrassed, there is no topic to speak of, and they began to introduce their own situation, after three cups and two lamps, they began to chat with familiar classmates, or that model, the relationship is good, the relationship is good, the bad is still the same nothing, just take this opportunity to get together with a better relationship, but now we have just graduated, has not yet reached the age of showing off wealth and obvious class divisions, there is no embarrassing touting and boasting, but I just feel that this kind of gathering seems to be dispensable, and the good ones will naturally find opportunities to get together, and the bad ones will not intersect again, and I am too lazy to please at this age.

This is because some people like to be lively, and some people don't like it, so some people like it and some people don't like it when it comes to class reunions.

It's not interesting, you can play together in different learning parties or often together, you can't play together, you still can't play together after the party, waste time and money to listen to some classmates show off all kinds of things, it's better to go home and stay with your family, maybe you really have the ability and ability, but you still have to live your own life, what does other people's prominent official positions and a lot of money have to do with yourself! I'd rather get together with a few classmates with whom I have a good relationship!

There will be fun and annoying things in the class club. The fun part is to meet classmates many years ago, and the annoying part is that everyone likes to compare at class reunions.

I like class reunions, people who have just graduated from college and worked for a few years, most of them work in the same city as their college classmates, work hard, grow together, and make appointments to eat, drink and have fun together during the holidays, which is very simple and pure, without too many complicated things. As for "what's the point of a group of people meeting together to eat, drink, and sing?" I think life sometimes needs some ritual to be interesting.

In addition to focusing on physical exercise and self-improvement, the connection with friends is also indispensable, so you can relax and learn some knowledge outside of solitude, such as how to get along, activity organization skills and game clearance skills, etc., so that life is rich and colorful. As long as you don't eat, drink, and sing whenever you are free, but a variety of styles, there are always different harvests.

During the summer vacation, a girl friend of mine told me that many of her classmates ended their studies after finishing junior high school and went out to work early, and now many of them are married and have children. On that day, the married female classmates got together and talked to each other about their husbands and children, A said that her husband had recently bought her a car, and R said that her husband was going to take her on a trip abroad recently. The business students get together to talk about business, and there is always a bit of "I want to see who can still use it" in the conversation, which is not like the atmosphere of a class reunion at all, but like a drunkard who does not mean to drink.

These topics are too far for Dani, who has just graduated from college, and she can't interject at all when she sits on the sidelines, so bored that she can only play with her mobile phone to pass the afternoon. Dani's words reminded me that I haven't been very keen on participating in class reunions in recent years, not that I don't like it, but I just think that the current class reunion has changed its taste, and it is better to have a small gathering with three or five friends. Slowly you will find that the people who are discussed at the class reunion are those who did not come to the class reunion, and those who did not come are either rich and disdain to participate in this kind of party; Either they don't mix well, and the comparison and show-off at the class reunion make them feel that they have no face to participate.

Class reunions are wonderful for some, and for others, they can feel impatient.

I haven't read any books, it's just elementary school, it's all from my village, and I can't see anyone when I look up. Everyone knows the roots, usually don't say hello much, it's just that a few good students have been coming and going, the village is quite large, and the people in the same village are all in the corners, and it's not interesting to have some past things that don't want to look back, and not gathering is also a kind of respect.

Class reunion is to meet and reminisce about the old days, get together and chat more, chat more and say hello, are smart people who are idle and panicked to dig up other people's privacy, lively and lively gatherings to leave a good memory for themselves, why think about it, mix well or badly, and have anything to do with others, the key is their own mentality.

Those who mix well go, and those who mix poorly go to find gas.

It is difficult to reconcile people's mouths, and everyone has their own ambitions.

Blow the bill, rub the food.

What kind of class reunion is to compare who has money

It's not that I don't dare, it's that I don't want to go

The classmates have already fallen into the sky, and after understanding the truth about the classmates, there will be fewer people who want to join the classmates, and the classmates are full of three or five students, and the big gathering is purely for the sake of trouble and self-appearance pain.

Why don't many people attend the "class party"? Come and tell you 4 reasons.

One, marriage. Classmates have become a high risk, after all, during school, there may also be secret situations, even if they are free, my graduation means regrets, etc., I will pass classmates, it is quite possible to make up. Unfortunately, whether it's an eccentric woman or like a clumsy person, it's usually possible.

It is usually more dissatisfied with the marriage. What is more interesting is the interest in marriage, not to mention the classmates at the bottom of the name, so the classmates become not in this place, and many people do not participate in the classmates because they do not want to follow one or more horses.

Second, sets. Classmates have become a walk of fame and wealth. Primitive pure classmates are polluted by interest.

It is often mixed together, who will be touted by the sky, will be the object of focus, classmates become strongly attached to the attachment of the stream and hold a high step, you have a bad classmate, you will not be invited If you come actively, you will take a cold stool, whether it is a speech or a glass of alcohol, a glass of wine, will be indifferent or ridiculed, and participate in the deep sense of the classmate party.

Jue will retreat. Third, show off.

A lot of people think that they are mixed and will show off in front of their classmates, that men will show off their cars, housing, jobs or careers, that women will show off their husbands, children, handbags or clothes, in short, that it will compete for comparison, and often the more people in the classmates, the less successful it will become, and the real mixed classmates, or the modest, low-key students will be used as the accompanying green leaves.

Fourth, there is nothing to look for.

There are no stories among classmates, otherwise classmates would not have caught colds and colds at night. If many people will feel the same, although classmates have few students falling, there will be fewer students and classmates are here. Will be silent, so wait until classmates chat, will not say, except that the emotional coldness is a fake, not to mention that classmates are likely to come, classmates will come back.

Participation, the relationship between the school is not good, no, there are no words, the classmates are pure self-discipline.

Conclusion: Gathering of classmates is a good impression that consumes a powerful supplement. I will collect my classmates who will gather on a strange road. Different experiences have been the same path for a long time, and because of the different paths, it is not more similar.

It may be for the sake of face, participating in class reunions must ask all kinds of questions, or some class reunions will have the phenomenon of comparison, which is no longer the same as when they were young, so more and more people don't like to participate in class reunions.

Mainly because the class reunion has deteriorated and has become a party for comparison, so many people don't like to go.

The reason why I don't like to go to class reunions is mainly because of personality, emotion, comparison and other issues, either because I am more introverted and I don't go to class reunions, or because some of my predecessors have emotions in class reunions, and there is also a class reunion, most of them like to compare and talk about careers, so many people like this atmosphere and choose not to participate.

After graduating, every class reunion was like a catastrophe. I think so. How many iron-clad men are silent when they are scolded by the leader, and they can't shed tears when they are dumped by their girlfriends, but after attending the class reunion, they fall into deep depression and self-doubt.

Because after getting older, many of the classmates will break up their shoes, in a word, "classmates reunion, classmates reunion, break up a pair is a pair!" "I wish you all happiness.

In fact, I haven't seen the scriptures for many years and have been strangers, and the so-called party with Bai Xue is.

Du eats and drinks, and the thinking chat that has long been not in a channel is also an embarrassing chat, some people want to climb the dragon and the phoenix, some people are afraid that you will climb the dragon and the phoenix, the stories of the past and the situation of modern society can not be communicated at all, and the classmates who have a good relationship have always had contacts, and those who have no contacts will not change anything because of the party, I am the kind of person who never participates in class reunions, because I heard that there are all kinds of noisy and even fighting in class reunions, and they are not in a circle, so why bother yourself.