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Your question is simple to say, and complex is complicated. The detailed analysis is as follows:
In fact, the relationship with B, everyone is obvious to all, you must often meet with everyone when you are together, it must be that B has done a good job in all aspects, so that everyone likes her more, but after you break up, everyone must know what the reason is. The first thing to be clear is that you have not formally proposed to break up, but you have a new girlfriend, it is likely to affect everyone's perception of you, thinking that you are a very upright person, why would you do such a thing? At the very least, you have to make it clear to B what's going on, right?
It can't be said that they are unreliable, because after all, love is selfish, whether you get it or not, it's all your own and has nothing to do with others. You're sure to think what's going on with your friends. So you won't give you much advice or advice.
F will help you because F is the same type of person as you, and he only hopes to help you find the answer that you are most satisfied with, without thinking about what you would think of him if he was doing a bad job, he only knows what is wrong with me helping my brother? In fact, he is wrong about the emotional affairs that others can't help, especially a three-cornered relationship like yours is even more chaotic. This kind of thing should be solved by yourself, and you should not rely on your friends.
Find an opportunity to talk to a few of your brothers, maybe it will be more convenient and effective to say something at the wine table than usual. Try it, no matter what, I wish you to find your true love and not lose your friendship.
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Iron buddies don't do everything for you, especially relationship problems, they may also think that A is a betrayal of B if he gets along with G without officially breaking up with B. A should have ended up with B as soon as possible, and it seems that it was a little late for B to come back to understand, and B should be notified after establishing a relationship with G, so understand the brothers. Although it is an iron triangle, it is not a person who has no thoughts of his own, they may have some misunderstandings about you, and it is not that they are unwilling to help you.
It's also because I'm also friends with B.,I'm embarrassed to do so desperately.,So I ran away and let A solve it by himself.。 Or for B, it played a so-called counterproductive role.
Be grateful for F's help, don't care about the fruits of the other two, and if you want to be brothers, you have to know the reason why they do it, A can talk openly and honestly with your buddies, everyone has a meal, and A first self-examines during the banquet, and then apologizes to B, during which the brothers are disturbed, so that everyone can raise any dissatisfaction with A, and A can correct it.
A's thinking is so clear, it's not difficult to find out the reason. As for living together or apart, in the way of dealing with A. I think that the problem should be solved regardless of whether you live together or not, otherwise it will affect the communication between G and A's friends, and let people push the fault on G.
Even if you can't be a buddy, you can't be so confused.
It is recommended not to live separately, and if you live separately, you should go back to the nest from time to time, otherwise you will be cold and emotional after a long time. The life circle of the other brothers may be difficult to insert.
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Let's talk about A and B, they used to be lovers, and now they are breaking up, which is not unforgivingly seen for other friends who have lived together before, because CFF is not only your friend, because A and B are together, so B is also their friend, even if they are not lovers with A, but B has become friends with CFF, this is something you can't change.
So, you have now broken up with B, which means that your relationship with B has become the same as that of Cdef. I think it's because you don't have the other friends to think about the feelings of the other friends, and whether the other friends support you or not doesn't show whether they are friends enough or not. On the contrary, if you don't take into account other people's feelings, you don't seem to be friends enough.
To use an inappropriate analogy, in a family, if the mother is changed, the stepmother comes. All the family members are not the original to see. No matter how bad the mother is, how good the stepmother is.
Of course, falling in love is your own business, and breaking up with others can't stop you, but you shouldn't hurt your friend's friendship with your former girlfriend.
To sum up, if you are in a group and you are unhappy with everyone else, then think about whether you are doing the right thing yourself, because it is likely that everyone else is unhappy with you.
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Seriously, you abcdefg....
It's a bit hard for people who aren't average IQ to figure out. Hehe.
It took me ten minutes to look at it carefully, and I finally finished reading it. Got it.
I think it's best for you not to live together, no matter how good the brothers, no matter how good the iron buddies are, if you stay together for a long time, the strong relationship before will fade because of time.
It feels like the relationship is not as good as it used to be.
Isn't there such a saying? "It's better to miss each other than to see each other. "
There may be some happy times in the time you live together, but I believe that unpleasant things are still the majority, right?
If you want to be brothers in the future, I would like to advise you to live separately and get together occasionally.
When we first separated, we had to get together a little bit later, and I think your relationship will be very good by then.
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The wrong time meets the wrong space, the wrong thing happens.
Don't deliberately pursue perfection in everything, and don't give a lifelong attitude to the end of a thing.
Man inadvertently planted a fruitless seed that will one day be forgotten by the world.
In that case, why bother with this, and whether to change the position of fc d after tomorrow to ask for answers? How do you help them when things are in front of you, and maybe what happens when they don't like you when you think you're doing your best?
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Looking at the simple plot constructed by the landlord to explain this matter, I feel that you should be a more organized person and have a personal view of people and things, but from your doubts, it seems to be a very simple person
What do you think of the so-called iron buddy relationship? Should Iron Buddy take care of everything for you? A personal issue like a relationship is often difficult for others to interfere with, not to mention that your ex-girlfriend B is a friend?
In the face of the emotional contradictions of friends, you can only stand on a neutral position and play a very limited role in regulation, is it a little selfish for you to let people ignore B's feelings and only stand on your side? Of course, if they mess with it, that's a different story
Also, the reply from upstairs is also very reasonable.
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What the two upstairs said I think is very reasonable: First, you shouldn't continue to live together, you think that even if you are a family, there will inevitably be friction! Second, you shouldn't blame all your brothers, they are also difficult to do, so you can only do nothing, third, you are so organized, do you still need others to help you solve it, if you don't want to lose friends, then be tolerant! Get all the problems right as soon as possible.
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No buddy can participate in your relationship problems, that will cause criticism, in saying that B is also a CD friend, feelings only can help themselves, others do not have any rights, friends can only enlighten you when you are unhappy.
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logic confusion looks very difficult !! There's nothing to say, simple things can sometimes be very complicated, and the attitude of the bystander seems to be able to solve anything!!
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I don't want to have a problem today.,Seeing that the question you said is ridiculous and the old woman's footwrap is smelly and long.,,I'm not in the mood.。。。 Alas! Say goodbye.
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The score was very tempting, so I looked at it carefully, and I still didn't understand it after half an hour. I see that your logical analysis problem is more than a triple integral, alas. When I was in school, I was most afraid of triple points. I don't have a chance to do it.
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LZ's literary talent and logic are very strong, why bother to make such a complicated problem to torture everyone and yourself, concentrate on writing a **.
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Women are like clothes, brothers are like siblings" Can you do it?
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I don't understand it either, haha, all 26 English letters are here to join in the fun.
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It's too hard to talk about, it's too tiring to watch.
Don't keep confessing, continue to melt her with your passion and sincerity. It's already very happy to be able to be together all the time!
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