I m getting married, and some things are very big

Marriage is a matter for the two of you, you need to communicate with each other frankly and openly, since it has come to the sake of marriage, there is nothing to hide, explain the situation, I believe that she knows how to deal with the woman's affairs better.

A lot of things, after you say it, you can let it go. You don't have to fight alone (otherwise why do you want to get married?) ）。

Let's just say it, depending on what she means, if she can take care of the people in the family, she will take her time or be frugal! If you only care about yourself, it will be useless to marry home (and make you more insomnia), you are the boss and there are many responsibilities that you have to resist.

My boyfriend and I are just like you, he has 2 boys in his family, and the family doesn't have much money, but he said that the best thing with me is that the family has no money and no way, so we have to understand each other, and when the days are better, we can buy whatever we want.

This issue does not need to be talked about here, privacy is everyone's right, brother, I believe you have the ability to solve it, I wish you happiness.

Alas! Why is life so hard?

It is recommended to break up immediately, this man is not your lifelong dependence!

It's not worth your wait for him! It has nothing to do with the house!

Reason. 1. This man cares more about his family between his lover and his family.

It shows that he does not love you to the point of no return, whenever you have a family dispute with his family, the grievance will always be you; Girl, this is a major event related to your lifelong happiness, isn't it just to watch a movie and endure it, are you willing to be wronged for a lifetime?

Reason. Second, a man with domestic violence is not worth entrusting, and he will beat you before he gets married, how will he live in the future? You can forgive each other once or twice if you miss each other's goodness, can you be wronged for a lifetime?

Reason. 3. The attitude of the man's parents is obviously dissatisfied with you, and they feel that if you are not the same, how can you call the house if you want it? This is a kind of family affection, which can also be understood as an obligation, how is it also a future daughter-in-law, how can it be like charity?

All right! You should be a good girl in every way! Perhaps, God has prepared for you to understand you more, love you more, be more considerate, and understand your true destiny better!

Wishing you happiness!

It's been a long time, I actually finished reading it, and when you narrated these things, your husband was a**?

What kind of home does he want to give you? Why are you the one who comes out of everything?

Calm down and think about what you are fighting for so much and what kind of life you hope to live in the future. This kind of fighting for life is not what you originally wanted.

What exactly can your husband give you?

This matter, everyone else, is secondary, the main person is still your boyfriend, you should have a good talk with your boyfriend, what is he going to do, after all, having his own house is his own home· It's your boyfriend who will spend your whole life with you, not anyone else

The house where his brother lives, whose name is on the real estate certificate, if it is his parents', it must be your boyfriend's share, the brothers are to divide it equally, and the real estate is subject to registration, it depends on whose name It is not nice to say, in the end, if you really don't give it, you can also sue and fight for your share of what you deserve, there is nothing to be embarrassed about

Or your parents buy you a set, put it in your name, and whatever happens after the pre-marital property, it will be yours, and no one can touch it

Your current problems have not been solved clearly, and you have quit your job, and you have no living funds since then, isn't that even more impressive? This matter still lacks consideration, but you must make things clear to your boyfriend, a big man has no responsibility at all, otherwise you will go back like this, and then they will come together to bully you, don't you still have to be wronged? ? Let's think clearly, even if you are together, get married in the future, divide the house, and your name must be written on the real estate certificate, and now that the new marriage law is out, this is the most important thing.

The reality is cruel, break up. Unless you love each other so much that you can put everything behind and be together. Anything else doesn't make sense.

Can you still tolerate such a family now? You have already made such compromises, the man still wants to be anxious with you and has been struggling to beat you, you can bear it, I really convince you And the attitude of his family is obviously not good for you and favors his younger brother What does it mean to "have it, don't have it."'I don't take you seriously at all, your husband is not married yet, and he will break up with you if he says no, what else do you want him to do. It's not that you can't find someone Now it's a good girl who doesn't worry about marrying The attitude of his family is so bad Can you be sure that you will be happy when you marry into his family What a fool You yourself know what to do if you get married and regret it too late Then why do you still marry her I'm also a female college student My point of view is that no matter what attitude the family has, my boyfriend must not beat me and never tell me to break up or something If the family has a bad attitude towards hunger now, maybe how they will bully people in the future So don't get married easily.

Think about everything clearly Marriage is a lifelong event Don't be blind.

After reading what you wrote, I feel that the problem is your boyfriend, I don't know if he loves you or not, otherwise how could he treat you and solve the problem like this! I think you should think that instead of bothering to think about what you don't have, you should calmly think about whether this man is worth your life!

Then don't talk about the house first, get married first, and if you really love each other, you don't care about these.