See through it, don t want to fight too lazy to fight? 30

Hello, you yourself mentioned that you think there is no possibility of promotion, feel a little lack of self-confidence, and say that you work hard, hard work, in fact, you still want to fight, you still want to be promoted in your heart, not at all do not want to fight, and from your words, I feel a little complaining, you feel that you are doing a perfect job everywhere, you feel that you are a little overkill, you feel that the people around you are intriguing for a little thing, and you yourself are not the same, I feel like Qu Yuan"Everyone is drunk, and I am sober", You have been talking about the grievances you have suffered, in fact, you should also think about why you did so well but did not get promoted, is it really all because of the stepping on the feet of your colleagues? And leaving is not the best solution, leaving has a sense of escape, and how do you know if the next job is the same, you should have a thought about yourself, why you have worked hard for so long but have not been duly rewarded, is it really just because of the praise of colleagues? Even if there is intrigue between colleagues, why haven't you been appreciated by the leader, after all, you have done your job very well, find the reason through reflection, if it is your own problem, you must learn to correct it, if it is a problem of the company and colleagues, it is recommended to leave.

The above is just my personal opinion, do not spray if you disagree, thank you for your understanding.

Your personality will be seen as weak everywhere, you should change yourself instead of changing the environment, because there will be some people in every environment who are high and low for some interests, and only changing yourself and then adapting to the environment is the last word.

The Tao is different, and it is not conspiratory. You should think deeply about your wishes and then plan carefully.

The work environment is not satisfactory, and it may not be your cup of tea. Then carefully re-plan.

Have a clear conscience, peace of mind, don't care too much about other people's eyes, if there is a better and more ideal thing to do you like to leave the land of right and wrong is also a good choice!

See through it, don't want to fight too lazy to fight? You still have to adjust your mentality in everything, what is yours is yours, don't force it if it's not yours, let everything take its course!

Since you can see through it, you can really let it go and let them go.

In the workplace, you come and go, intrigue positions, the truth is sometimes more obvious, and on the obvious side, Ding is more likely to win back, no matter how you fight, there has always been so that as we who do not want to fight, we have to face the struggle.

Go your own way and let them say go! Do your job and let them go in a hurry. Let them go, just be yourself, and have a clear conscience!

It's called letting go.

To be a human being, you must be like a suitcase, which can be carried and put down.

1.It's all the same.

2.Either make your mood a little stronger, or let your colleagues know that you are not a bully.

Well, people grow up in the experience of society.

A good man doesn't care about villains, so he thinks he's a fart.

The current society is too realistic, and there may be people who can see everything through and look away, but it is absolutely uncommon. There will not be many people who can not fight, not complain, not be greedy, not complain, and deal with it indifferently in the face of gains and losses. It's still good to have these as the goals of our efforts, so that we can put our mindset in the right and adjust our emotions.

It can make us less troubled and get rid of negative energy as soon as possible. Let's fight together, and hope to become a detached person as soon as possible!

You this"Three looks, seven no''s summed up really well. I have seen through life and the world. It will be like a paradise to spend the red dust in a flat and clean place.

In fact, if you can really do these things in your life story, you always feel that these people are only saints, and how can no one be perfect and do these standards.

I always feel that it is really difficult to evaluate the real truth of life by seeing through, looking away, and looking down, and it is really better to go with the flow to understand all the bits and pieces of my current life.

There are too few people who can reach this realm, people are inevitably obsessed with competition in the world, you want to live a transcendent life, but the surrounding environment does not allow it.

If you can do it, you will become a saint. It's just a good wish. How can one person do that. So peaceful and open-minded.

This kind of person is ...... realmExtraordinary, unearthly, immortal.

Everyone fights, everyone works hard.

There are so few people who actually do it!

All things, all things, all life; Not sad? Don't like it? Not angry?

Not entangled? Don't complain? Not forced? Don't count? This is a saint too.

Of course, everyone has their own way of living, make friends with the people they like, and keep their distance from those they don't like. But don't offend people, tolerance and forbearance are the rarest!

I'm also exactly the same person as you, but this is destined to be bland, and we can't do this.

They will say that every day with a straight face as if they owe me millions, and people who don't like it really don't want to deal with her.

Being a simple person is a state in which you can develop in a world other than them.

Okay, I'm like this too, why are you so tired?

The world of a person is very lonely, and it is quite pleasant to make more friends.

yes, you have to be in contact with people. It's good to have friends.

You're numb. It is possible to accept the current reality.

If you don't quarrel, it means that you will soon become strangers!

Accept the reality, ask for less, and take it easy for yourself to help you adopt it.

When you're tired, let's separate for a while and calm each other.

It is a sign that a relationship is coming to an end.

They have all matured and entered a harmonious and beautiful life! Congratulations on your pass.

Completely disappointed in her tired.

The world is too big or I will meet you, and the world is too small or I will lose you.

Break up or continue.

Nothing is not done, nothing is not disputed; The meaning of modern Chinese is: the so-called inaction does not mean not to do anything, the so-called non-contention is not to do nothing, and the so-called non-contention is not to compete; As long as there are credentials for both forward and backward movements, you can survive for a long time by seeing through these things.

Nothing is not done, nothing is not disputed; Don't lose ground in advance and retreat, and see through that is immortality. The meaning of modern Chinese is: Wu Wei is not not not doing things, Wu Wei is not fighting for interests, moving forward and backward do not lose ground, and you can live forever if you see through this truth.

Wu Wei is not doing nothing, see Huang Lao's theory of doing nothing.

Don't fight for nothing, Yongzheng later farmed at home during the white-hot period, and put on a look of not fighting for anything, just pure filial piety, fighting for Kangxi's heart.

The core of these four sentences I think: to see the real direction of things clearly, there is no need to move forward desperately to take a little back, put on a posture of not fighting or grabbing, find the right way, and achieve success.

But it's not exactly a step back.

For this, it is not a psychological problem, because for some things, each of us has our own thinking logic, and we have our own way of dealing with people, so at this time it is carried out in our own way, for some things, if you feel that there is no practical meaning, and it does not have much impact on yourself, so at this time you feel that there is no need to argue, there may be such a mentality, So that's normal.

Sometimes we can't be too worried about any problem and can't be too sensitive, especially for some psychological problems, as long as each of us has a positive attitude and an optimistic attitude, then there will be no problems with the general psychology, of course, in this case, you have always thought that you may have some kind of problem in your heart, then at this time it may be a psychological factor that you have been affected by some aspects.

No, it has nothing to do with low self-esteem, it's just that when you get older, your thoughts and thinking are different from when you were young. The more human nature you know, the more disdain you disdain to express it. Psychologically calm.

This is normal, it means that you are mature and know what to argue about, what to be tolerant of, what to let go, and not to live with yourself.

No, it's that you've finally abandoned words and believed in the power of action.

The clear person clears himself, you have no problem, but when you grow up, you find that there are many things that cannot be solved by justification, so you don't bother to pay attention to it. Abbreviation, Inclusion.

It's not that I'm having a problem, but I've grown up and I know that it's useless to talk too much.

Because if you see it through, there is no point in arguing at all, and it is a waste of time, and those who are clear will clear themselves!

It's just that the dull days have passed for too long, and there is no motivation to argue, so it's not a big deal.

I think the older you get, the more you don't want to go, it's not that there's anything wrong with your psychology, it's that as you get older, you can see everything very openly, and some things don't want to go to the tone, I think this is actually a sign of maturity, not that you have a physical problem, I think mature people will have this kind of thought. Sometimes I want to open it, and it's useless to rectify it, anyway, what is clear in each other's hearts, there is no need to rectify it.