What should I do? Neither does it receive it, nor does it not receive it

I think you should accept her return your money, because after all, the money is yours, this girl is also doing very well, don't say that the two of you haven't dated now, even if you do, she should pay you back, people have the ability to stand on their own, as long as they don't earn their own money, who doesn't use their money very steadily, you can continue to be good to her, you can give her gifts, but just don't give money anymore, see what you said, it can be seen that this girl has a strong self-esteem, as the saying goes, eating people is short, taking people short, she is very steady, It doesn't make sense to leave a handle for people after taking a little money, it's actually very reasonable for the brother to settle the account, come on, young man, this girl is very good, support you!

If you accept it, you are not willing to accept the favor of others, as if you are inferior to others. Unless your relationship is formalized, then you can not take it back, because she is in your protection area, and not yet.

If he didn't care about you at all, he would have accepted your RMB a long time ago Even ordinary friends will not be so sensitive to money and gifts Unless he doesn't treat you as an ordinary friend in his heart, then come on.

you still accept it , i am a girl and she may love face .

I admire girls who are independent and self-respecting, and I don't like what you do.

Some girls aren't so materialistic either. How is it possible to accept your red envelope when you are not familiar with it at first. Reactive power is not punished, this still has to be done slowly. You explain that the red envelope was sent incorrectly, and then move on to some topics that interest him.

Not all girls love red envelopes.

Not all good is expressed in money, either.

It is recommended that you contact her slowly and attentively.

Use time to influence her.

I just met, but I only saw one side, and I didn't accept you and didn't accept your red envelopes, which is normal.

You're too social, you give out red envelopes when you come up.

Step by step, starting with ordinary friends.

If you feel that you owe someone a favor, you can pay it back through many channels, and you don't necessarily have to give money.

1. Give gifts, and give expensive gifts on his birthday, Spring Festival and other large festivals.

2. Please eat.

3. Invite him out to play.

If he gives you money and you owe him money, it is more realistic to pay it back.

You jokingly threaten him to charge him all if he doesn't take it. It's best to get your bank card number. Call him directly.

The postage doesn't cost much, so you can charge her phone bill! There are also no processing fees. It also shows that you are more particular.

This kind of thing, I think it's good to be honest with him, and there is no need to hide it, it's a bit hypocritical to be too polite, others are willing to help you, it's people who think you can be socied, to make more friends, it's definitely not a bad thing, my opinion is like this, just for reference.

If this kind of thing happens, you can send him a gift or something, and then explain the situation and thank him

First of all, you have to explain why you owe him? Why do you have to give him money, is the amount big? Do you have something to do with a man or a woman?

That's not simple, isn't there a receipt when the courier comes Buy something that girls like, send it over, treat it as a friend, and give her a small gift. It's not bad to make a friend.

In fact, this is a very proper thing.

Who knew you would meet such a nice person again.

You can just talk to her.

This is the rule of **.

We can't break the rules.

ruined their reputation.

I hope you don't embarrass me.

Then just pay her directly.

If the money is more, it will be returned to him directly.

If the money is relatively small, if you don't return it, you can wait until the next time to buy something and bring him one.

5. What is there to say about not collecting tickets! Our World Heritage West Lake has never had an entrance ticket confiscated!

Let's go, the first bai is not more than 200 yuan.

Now parents give their children.

zhi goes to school and takes great pains to give you money and you take it back In the future, educate your children to answer school Isn't it over Besides, what kind of society is it now?

You go to a big school to be a teacher, and you pay for it, let alone the students.

When you are a teacher, you will give blessings to the leaders during the New Year's holidays.

Understand each other.

And you're a teacher, and you need to be taught by someone else.

You'll know when you're a parent.

I've copied this experience once, and you can do this, first of all.

If you take it when you fill it, it's not a big number, but you have to send a message to Dao Qi to show your own position, tell him not to do it in the future, and explain to him that he will do his best to treat his students, please rest assured.

I think since it has been given bai

You charge it in, then take it, you zhi

If you return it, it is estimated that the human dao family will not accept it, so don't do it after telling the human version of the family that the right is clear.

This society is like this, development is deformed, I guess your school should not be in the city, right? Now the schools in the city are even more outrageous, and parents of students have to give gifts to teachers every time they celebrate a holiday. As a teacher, I think what I can do is to level the rod in my heart!!

Buy something of about the same value and return it.,After all, it's not good to pay back directly.。。。

Ask clearly. I think since I've already filled it up for you, let's take it.

You're giving your students $200 for food. As a teacher, I think what I can do is to level the rod in my heart. This society will develop.

Accept it. Otherwise, parents are not at ease. Be nice to your child within the normal range.

If there is a purpose, you can tell the parents of the students, don't do this next time, you can communicate with the students, if you have any difficulties, you can come to me, after all, you have already received 200 phone bills.

Of course, you shouldn't accept it, you can send a red envelope back to your parents, or charge your parents back, remember to keep screenshots or evidence. There are many teachers who remind you to protect yourself.

Communicate well with parents in a friendly way, in fact, they just want their children to be well taken care of at school! Tell him the following:

First, it violates the teacher's morality. Everyone knows this, and now that this article is put out, some people will feel sour and fake. Because some people put on this gesture on their lips, they should accept it back when the time comes, anyway, they don't know it, and their parents won't come out to say who I give a gift to or which teacher.

The corruption of the social atmosphere also affects parents, some parents do everything possible to get closer to the relationship with the teacher for the sake of their children, in addition to eating and giving gifts, if the teacher has a need, they always spare no effort.

The second is to be aware of the hard work of parents, and it is not easy for them. Most parents are engaged in general service occupations, which are very hard, and even if some families have rich industries and wealthy families, they do not come easily. Many parents hope that their sons will become dragons and daughters will become phoenixes, and they will work hard for their children, and under the spread of bad social atmosphere, they will take the method of giving gifts to teachers - in the hope that teachers will be better for their children.

Third, it is necessary to maintain a normal and proper teacher-student relationship. From time to time, I received gifts from parents, in fact, it directly affects the relationship between teachers and students, some parents may hint at their children, I sent it to the teacher, how do you do it, this is bound to affect the relationship between teachers and corresponding students: teachers in education and teaching activities, for the corresponding scope of education, should strive to build and maintain relative educational fairness, but because of the gifts, often the direction is biased, and begin to pay more attention to the performance of some children entrusted by parents, and give them some special care, As a result of the possible preference and injustice in fact, with parents "greeting" and giving money as a foreshadowing, individual students may not care much about the teacher's requirements under the domination of this sense of superiority, which is not conducive to the effective development of work.

Fourth, teachers should keep a certain distance from parents sensibly. There is no doubt that teachers and parents should strengthen interaction and communication, but teachers should not have too much contact with parents, let alone go beyond the normal relationship between the two sides, because "our work object is students, as long as we can communicate with students in teaching and character education, in addition, it is not appropriate to communicate with parents" (Wu Fei). Even if there is sometimes a "gratitude" component for teachers to educate their children and work hard, it is also a backward and vulgar form, and there is no need for this at all (here is not the same thing as the concept and behavior of individual parents who ignore teachers and despise teachers).

I accept money and money from the parents of students, and even ask the parents of students to do things, how many years later, what will students say when they mention me? What am I in the minds of students and parents?

A middle school old teacher, the parents of the students charged you 200 yuan I feel that this zhi should not say dao

First of all, it is my instinct to educate my own students as a teacher.

There are also obligations.

Teachers are also teachers, teachers, tutors, etc., is a kind of profession, which has existed in ancient times, refers to the personnel who impart knowledge to students, there are various types of education (such as Chinese, mathematics, etc.), and the class teacher is also one of the teachers; It also refers to people who are worthy of learning and can bring certain correct knowledge and guidance to everyone in a certain aspect, and have the ability. The relevant holiday is "Teacher's Day".

Although there is no affectionate confession and no sincere promise, we become each other's only ones in going with the flow. The rest of my life is long, I am willing to hold hands with you in the wind and rain, and grow old together in the plain.

Stubborn on the surface, but there is a fragile side on the inside. Although he spoke very strongly, he was worried that he would not be supported by opposition. In particular, it is best to be mentally prepared to be voted back if the boss or teacher has a suggestion.

At such times, it is important to make it clear to the parents of the students, and then treat the students as usual, with dedication and without any reservations.

I think you are a clean and self-righteous teacher, since the parents have recharged you, you can accept it, this is not too much, of course, if you want to go back, you can change the way, buy something, let the child take it back!

When a teacher comes, he may meet a family head to give gifts, and some parents give gifts very much. So if you encounter parents who force them to give gifts, how should the teacher refuse it, in fact, you can greet parents in advance, and it is the best way to actively refuse the behavior of parents to give gifts, don't hesitate.

Recently, Teacher's Day is coming, many teachers actually have joys and sorrows, and some teachers are even very afraid of receiving gifts from parents. The purpose of Teacher's Day is to thank teachers for their hard work, so that parents and others can experience the hard work of teachers, so as to respect teachers, for many teachers, what they care about is not the gifts and other materialistic things sent by parents on Teacher's Day, they are more concerned about the students' evaluation of themselves, and parents' views on themselves, in order to avoid the embarrassment and misunderstanding caused by gifts, parents can let their children write greeting cards to the teacher, so that the teacher can be more acceptable.

The teacher has always paid the most attention to the teacher's morality and style. In the ranks of teachers, it is advocated to be willing to give, and it is strictly forbidden for teachers to pay for tutoring, and teachers are prohibited from accepting any gifts and help from parents. Because education is inherently pure and selfless.

Giving children knowledge and watching them become talents is the best gift for a teacher. I'm sure many teachers will be happy that the children they teach will make a difference in the future.

The way to express respect for the teacher is not to give gifts, but to show respect for the teacher's labor, such as listening carefully, doing homework carefully, and being polite when meeting the teacher. When students say 'you've worked hard' to their teachers, that's the best gift!

First of all, you are a very good teacher, and parents may also think that your popularity is particularly good, and you are also very good at dealing with people, and you are also very responsible as a teacher, so you will be charged with phone bills.

Again, you must not be able to charge your parents for your phone bill, otherwise all your good seems to have a picture, you just did your duty as a teacher, we know, but if you collect everything will change, the value of your life will depreciate, so it's best not to.

Third, you are a middle school teacher who cares about your children very much, and you are afraid that your children will be affected, so you will consider this and that.

Fourth, if you are afraid that the child will be affected, you can call the child to the office alone, say let him bring you a book, what kind of book to send over, and then give the 200 yuan to a student, let him take the initiative to hand it over to his parents, and then call his parents, tell her parents, your child has brought the money back, and don't let him charge you money in the future.

Fifth, you must be principled, so that you will be a very political energy, and will go long-term, you are a very responsible, and very good teacher for students, it is not easy to have a teacher like you, we will cherish you very well, but also cherish your character.