How to solve the helplessness in marriage 2 ?

It can be seen that you are a very delicate person in life, and you love your husband very much. However, your husband can't be as affectionate and romantic as you before after marriage. There are actually a lot of people like you.

From your description, it can be seen that you are still very insecure about your family and marriage. Placing too much of one's own emotions on others, trying to get enough attention from others. It is just the life after marriage, and your partner's attention to you is far from satisfying you.

And so, something painful happened. Of course, it's not your fault.

After marriage, they expose each other's lives, every day. After a long time, it is natural to see it, and there is nothing new to speak of. Some boys' feelings for their partners fade faster than girls, and some have weakened their feelings for each other in less than half a year after marriage, and there are naturally more contradictions, which is also a factor why there are more divorce rates.

Every man understands the principles of family marriage. However, they are just lazy, because they have little motivation to create each other, and their married life is stressful.

So, I don't think what you should do is to focus most of your time and attention on your husband, because it doesn't really do much. Because, he already has no interest and motivation to do what you want.

What you have to do is build your own attraction. This is an ability that girls should not be able to ignore after marriage, many girls are diligent in makeup and dress up during marriage, but they are too lazy to take care of it after marriage, which is not good. After a long time, the attraction is not as good as before, and the partner will naturally not be interested (please take a detour for the emotional affection report).

This is a point, and the attraction after marriage can also include work, social circles, and so on. In short, it is to do everything possible to take your attention away from your husband and slowly attract him to understand the importance of romance and surprise. Make him realize that even if he marries you, he may lose you if he doesn't take care of you, instead, let him feel a kind of pressure to be with you.

You also said that communication, yes, yes, communication is very important. Try different ways of communicating with people.

The time of communication before marriage is also a factor that I pay more attention to, after all, the pre-marriage relationship time is short, and we don't know enough about each other's lives, and it is actually very dangerous after marriage. Therefore, the relationship that is rushing to get married must pass the hot love period, and then consider getting married when it comes to a relatively real and stable period and a period that is closer to real life, don't let love get carried away, it's not okay to be stupid.

No pay, ** gained? Go fishing in the river, no rods, lines, no bait, the fish will go ashore on their own? Nowadays people are very realistic, only looking at the results, but not knowing what others have experienced. Beauty, every family has a scripture that is difficult to read.

I feel like living with someone I don't like, life is boring, and there is nothing to pursue, which is the mentality of living a life.

This kind of marriage is a very bad experience, because marriage is supposed to be a consensual thing, and if it is only forced to do so, such a marriage will produce a lot of estrangement and contradictions.

I don't feel anything, it's just that we are making do with living together, we are married, we still have to take responsibility, and we will work hard in the future.

It's very awkward, there's not much to talk about together, the two of them are very nervous, there is some embarrassment, and I hope to be able to go out and be with friends rather than staying at home.

It is a feeling of great regret, because I always complain about my original choice, so I feel very helpless.

It is a very bad feeling, and if two people have any bumps, it will lead to divorce. Relationships don't become very stable either.

This feeling is relatively poor, and there is no way to invest all your emotions in this relationship, and the possibility of divorce in the end is particularly high.

It is a particularly bad feeling, and in such a marriage, it is particularly painful to not get any happiness.

It is a particularly depressing feeling, every day at home in the face of a person I don't like, I feel very depressed and helpless.

I have a sense of powerlessness and don't want to be with this person, but I have no choice but to be with this person, and I am very desperate in my heart.

I think this is a kind of sadness, as I get older and the pressure of society, I am forced to be together, and it is very painful to have an emotionless marriage.

Those helpless experiences in married life may be that they are always unable to do what they want in terms of money, money is always in the hands of the other party, and there is nothing they want to buy, and they can't do what they want to do, which is very helpless.

In my married life, my helpless experience is that two people quarrel all day long, and they have been in a state of quarreling every day since they got married, but after the quarrel, the two of them quickly reconciled.

In married life, sometimes both men and women will do something that the other party says they can't understand, maybe because some things are forced to do something, or there may be a reason why they can't know, which will make each other suspicious, sensitive and suspicious, which will be very helpless.

There are too many helpless experiences in my married life, for example, my husband always abuses me, which really makes me feel very annoying, I hate the kind of person who speaks, talks and acts.

Marriage is actually a shackle on love, when the two of you quarrel, you can't break up, you can't divorce, you can only choose to deal with it so coldly, and over time this marriage will become more and more boring.

In marriage, he wants to divorce but can't leave, but he won't divorce. But he also wants to go to your tangled, contradictory and helpless experience. It's a memory I'll never forget.

There are a lot of things that make me feel very helpless in my married life, and I usually feel that I am not as interesting as Yuqi when I get married, and my husband has become very helpless.

Women get married only when they are dizzy, and this is not false at all.

This man is snoring, it's only 10 o'clock, he hasn't taken a shower yet, he washes his face, usually he doesn't sleep until 12 o'clock, at least he should wash it, and now he will take a morning bath. I don't call him husband now, because he has someone, I know. It's been more than half a year, and I'm numb to him, and I hope he doesn't come back to this home, I don't want to see him, and I have nothing to say from the past to now.

At first, I wanted to divorce, but the man didn't agree, and if he wanted to leave, he would end up together, and finally because of the children, I didn't make trouble. Maybe a woman just feels sorry for her child, I can't let the child suffer for my own sake, I chose to suffer by myself. In the past six months or so, I have been tortured.

Time is the best medicine, and I don't feel any more at all. Even if I saw this man with my own eyes, I wouldn't do anything.

It turns out that marriage can be so helpless. Think about what will happen to your child.

Modern people's marriage and love are always full of all kinds of helplessness, today we will talk about what helplessness is in marriage.

1. The helplessness of the original family.

2. The choice between inheritance and making money.

In the eyes of the elderly, children should have children as soon as they get married, but in the eyes of young people, working hard to earn money is the king. Different ideas form a choice, if you choose to work hard to earn money, you will inevitably be dissatisfied with the elderly in the family; If you choose to have children, the burden of the family will be even heavier. A friend I know, who got a marriage certificate with her boyfriend at a young age, gave birth to a child at the urging of the elders in the family, and she was forced to buy discounted goods by life when she originally pursued a high-quality life, and the sadness of life is obvious.

This kind of helplessness is also a common one in everyone's married life.

There are many more helplessness in marriage, what have you experienced? Feel free to come and talk to each other.

When you enter marriage, you have to endure some things, you can't do what you want, and love in marriage also needs a certain amount of patience to maintain.

When you fall in love, it's just a matter of two people, from sitting together to talking about marriage is a matter of two families, the father-in-law and mother-in-law are reasonable, if the husband is biased towards himself, life will be much better, if you meet that kind of arrogant father-in-law, plus the husband is stupid and filial, the marriage will have problems sooner or later.

The biggest helplessness in marriage and love is money, and then there is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after marriage, which will be head-wrenching if it is not handled well.

I think that in marriage and love, there are two people who have three views that do not agree helplessly, because two people have three views that do not agree, it is very easy to quarrel, and then quarreling will make the relationship fade.

For example, in marriage and love, one side is one's own parents, and the other side is one's wife, so you should make more adjustments and dredge in the middle to avoid causing a war between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

In marriage and love, you must face the ordinary trivial things in life, but there will also be some small fights, and you will be very helpless.

No money is the biggest helplessness, two people do not have a good material, life is difficult to maintain, it will be very sad.

If you say that you are completely unfamiliar with and understand each other, your love is only impulsive, and the basis of flash marriage cannot be discussed.

His life philosophy is different from yours, you don't care who is right and who is wrong, everyone grows up in a different environment and lifestyle, he is a traditional conservative type, you belong to the current ** type of thinking, will be out of place.

In the future, it will be difficult for you to have a common language in your life, and you will not be able to get used to each other, unless you have to adapt to him.

The traditional conservative type of person has an unchangeable personality, but a person who is extremely responsible for the family, he will not waste it for no reason, and he has strong self-esteem.

For example, if you want someone to clean up, he will think that it is not necessary; If you want to throw away some old things, he will think to keep them first; When you are angry with you, he should come and coax you, and he will think that I am not wrong, and you should reflect on yourself. Wait, a series of life trifles will let you down.

Just want to ask, is your reputation important or your own happiness in life important? While you don't have children yet, let's separate quickly, and don't suffer for your reputation for the rest of your life.

Is he likely to love you in two months? I think you should try to get to know him, try to care for him, and don't always talk about marriage to him. A year is not long, but it is not short. Take advantage of the year, maybe this is also an interesting story for you to grow old hand in hand with gray hair.

Marriage needs to be managed for a lifetime, and when you are young, you can find your happiness again, but you can't like the new and hate the old!

Flash marriage - flash divorce, the way of young people now. Living together before they officially got married? Are you pregnant?