What should I do if my love encounters such a man?

Be brave, every day there are hundreds of thousands of girls who are as sincere as you are sad and disappointed because of all kinds of helplessness, they can finally cheer up after the pain, why can't you? In fact, many times what we need is to have a little more confidence in ourselves, not to easily tell ourselves that nothing is okay, and not to easily imply that I will not be able to live without anyone. It's not that I don't have a backache when I stand and talk, really, I've also experienced the deception of someone I love deeply and left, and I will cry for several nights in a row and feel that there will be nothing that makes me feel good about life anymore, Those days are actually a kind of harvest in retrospect, we should be proud of ourselves, because we can give so much sincerity and love for a person who has no relatives and no reason, Like you said, very stupid and naïve, it's not sad, it shows that we have loving people.

Of course, many things will be sad when you think about it, but many times when we think about it, we magnify the pain, yes, if he holds someone else, we will be sad, if he bothers to coax other girls, we will be sad, if he protects another person, we will be sad, if he only accompanies another person, we will be sad... But in fact, this is just a feeling of ours, why worry about and restrain their future, if there is fate, we will eventually be his person, if not, there will always be our own "he" to come to us, we will have our own future. So you really don't have to force anything, the most important thing is not to give up on yourself, because this cannot increase his love for you, only by trying to make yourself more beautiful and better, will he cherish you more.

So, believe in yourself, your world will not fall apart, it's a good thing to have a dog, but don't think it's to comfort your poor self, it's just one thing to make your world more brilliant Since he thinks you love a little more, then use the extra one to love yourself, give it a try, give yourself a little change, give yourself a little confidence and courage

What is the pursuit of love itself for, for pleasure, not for pain!

When a love has gone bad, there is only pain left.

If you can't let go of it rationally, you are destined to live in pain.

There is indeed a gap between ideal love and reality, and imaginary love can live without eating. In reality, it doesn't work, it always has this, that kind of thing to bother you!

If you don't understand this clearly, it will be very tiring to live.

Life is not all that love can give you. Sometimes you will find that you live alone more freely and with a smile than that kind of love.

The most important thing is to find something that can hold your spirit. One thing, one pet.

The longer it goes, the harder it is to part with it.

If you can be mature and calm in the face of everything, maybe it will be good for you.

You still have a long way to go in your life.

Try to do something happy and fully integrate yourself into the community and society.

Even if you can never forget him, your heart will not be more painful.

Just let time dilute everything.

If you want to jump from a tall building, I don't think I will sympathize with you, great you are to make this man feel guilty, but unfortunately, how long can his guilt last, with his personality, just find another one, forget that you are sooner or later.

I think you know him very well, so I think you should know better that such a man is not very dependent, you have to learn to love others correctly, and love yourself more correctly.

Such a man will only drag you down, and you have to give yourself and him two choices now. You've been with him for four years, it's not a short time, either you have to ask him to agree to get married, or you have a warm and loving love with someone who loves you.

Also, it is not okay for such a man not to teach him a lesson, rather than let him drag him down, but leave, let him know what it means to cherish after he knows what it means to lose.

If you leave him and he doesn't look back, then it means that he doesn't love you, or that he loves his life world more than you, so there is no need for such a man to let you devote all your body and mind to love.

If he turns back and is willing to change, then congratulations to you, the prodigal son will not change his money.

In the end, rational love is the foundation of normal life.

I support you in getting a dog.

I've always felt that as long as I have a sustenance in my heart, even if it's a dog, the world is at my disposal.

And I also like dogs that are loyal, considerate and even sensible.

Give people the courage to tell you that you are not alone in this world.

What to do? Leave! But don't abuse yourself, if you commit suicide, people like this will not be sad for you at all, and it is your parents and relatives who are really hurt. But it's often not easy for you to do. If you don't do it, it hurts.

There is a saying upstairs that is very true: in fact, there is a big difference between love and marriage, men always want to get what they don't get, and women are always unwilling to give up what they have lost.

You already know where you are! What to do is not what we say, what can you do yourself! We advise you that you should withdraw, have you been able to draw?

This kind of emotional problem does not depend on reason, only on time! Wait until he really breaks your heart so many times, and you will really realize that you are not worth it! No matter how much others say, it's useless!

Think about your family, and your friends. How you feel today, I've had it.

The effort is disproportionate to the gain, so tired!! If you take emotional matters too seriously, the result will be very painful!

So there is a saying, it's rare to be confused!

It's a bit hard to do!

Think about your future and change your life now.

Do you love that man very much, or are you unwilling to do so for the past 4 years?

When the judgment continues, it will be disturbed.

Men drag it up, women can't!

Escape is not the way to go. Face it bravely!

Continuation or Termination.

Is he Gemini or Sagittarius? You really care about this kind of man, he has to pretend not to care! The more you show that you care about sticking to him, the more scared he feels and wants to run away!

You can comfort him when he is sad, you can always remind him to keep warm, etc.! Then he will think that you are very sophisticated!

In fact, there is a big difference between falling in love and getting married, you may feel that this kind of man is challenging and interesting when you are young, but it is obvious that this kind of man is not suitable for being a husband, and his heart can't be settled. My husband still needs to find someone to take care of his family and have a sense of security, so that you will have less to worry about in the future.

There must be something hateful about the poor man, and since you have chosen him, you will find a way to change him. You are not afraid of death, what are you afraid of?!!

Find someone who is willing to live with you for the rest of your life!

People are something you can never change, it can only mean that he is not suitable to be a husband, there is no responsibility, the second floor is right, do you want to be like this for the rest of your life? It's been four years, have you realized this problem?

Let go. Turn around.

For your own sake.

Then I will stay away from this man, because I know that no matter how much I give, I will not be rewarded, and I can't go deep into this relationship and get out in time.

I think you should slowly teach him how to love, because some people have some obstacles in these areas.

Then we should let him get used to his existence, which is also a very good choice for himself, and in many cases, they will also care about and care for us, and it will also make us feel happy.

How can I say that. Sooner or later, this man will mind that you have lived with someone else.

I don't know why.

It's a woman's sixth sense.

It even feels like your future with him is very slim.

You can rent a sedan chair and watch it yourself.

It looks like I'm going to break up with my live-in boyfriend.

Do you have no hesitation to be with this man?

If this path is chosen.

The road ahead is hard. ~

Don't be sad, let it pass since you can't get it, stretch out your arms and embrace the breeze to feel the spring, summer, autumn and winter.

Cheer up the spirit of grinding the mask to welcome the new day, you just have no chance with him on the road of life, there will be people who are destined to shout with you and walk through the road of life with you. Believe it.

Take a break for a while. Make the most of this time and do what you want. If you think it's right, do it.

If you talk to your close friends, you will naturally feel better. Usually, you should often decompress yourself, and when you have troubles, don't drill the horns of the bull and think about the benefits. Slowly, the knots in my heart melted.

Laughing at life, but also to cultivate an optimistic and open-minded healthy psychology. Lift your spirits, look to the future, don't stare at the love setbacks in front of you, we are not people who can't live without love. Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose.

Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up and make each other both.

It's an easier start. Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun...

Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to wander in front of the door or hit your head to the point of bleeding.

Not waking up. Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...