How to cultivate children s courage in front of outsiders

I remember when I was in elementary school, my family lived in the suburbs, and I went to school with the children in the countryside, and I was often bullied by the children in the countryside on the way to school, so I could only go home and cry in front of my parents, many times. When your parents saw that they were not hurt by any big deal, they always laughed and said: If he beats you, you will fight back!

I never dared, but my parents heard a lot of such words, and it was still a starting point, and finally one day I fought back and took the first step, and I was very happy that day. Since then, the country kids haven't bullied me again. Therefore, I think that if a child is bullied outside, don't let the child feel that this is a serious matter, and there is nothing wrong with giving appropriate words of encouragement to fight back.

There are many reasons why a child is timid, as you said, he only shows timidity in front of outsiders, so in order to make the child obedient in the process of his growth, is there an element of intimidation in the education of parents (or other family members)? For example, how terrible the outside world is! If there is, it is very detrimental to the development of the child's brave spirit.

Don't scare the kids.

In addition, encourage him, praise him, and look for various opportunities to praise him. In addition, it is also beneficial to take her to some activities or socialization where she can show herself.

I'm a 24-year-old girl, and in retrospect, I had a situation like your child when I was a child, and I would like to say something about my personal growth from the perspective of a child. In fact, when I was in elementary school, I was very outgoing, very cheerful, and I was okay at home and school, but later when I was in junior high school, my family became more and more strict with my education, so I heard more words of strict discipline and eagerly taught me how to study, live, and behave. Of course, they also praised my merits, but I always felt that I was not good in their evaluation at that time, because my parents wanted their son to become a dragon, which is understandable.

In fact, when a child grows up, what he needs most is the positive encouragement of adults, and your affirmation is very important to the child, if he is always hitting him, he will become unconfident. Sometimes you even unconsciously undermine their confidence in small details. A child's heart is also sensitive sometimes.

We should let the child have more free space, let him develop naturally, don't interfere too much with the child's thinking, control and limit him, this is really important, my personal experience. Of course, now that I have graduated from college and worked, I feel that my personal personality is neither completely extroverted nor completely introverted, and I like my current personality very much, but in retrospect, if adults could understand the psychology of children, I would not have taken many detours to adjust my introverted personality after junior high school. Since I'm working right now, what I'm writing may be messy, but I hope you read it and find it helpful.

I wish your child a healthy and happy growth.

Take her out and out to the outside world. Participate in more activities and encourage him more.

Encourage and praise more. That's what your child needs.

Give your child comfort to your child.

When children leave the house, they always like to bring cute blankets or their favorite animals with them for a sense of security. Mom may not want him to take these things around or even throw them away, but if the child needs it, let him take it. Most children need comfort at some stage, even if they don't need it anymore.

When the environment changes, the child will need it again. These things can give children enough strength to fight their fears – wearing a cape or talking to an imaginary child can do a similar thing. Learn by playing.

Hiding Cat Cat is a very perfect game to develop children's courage. It helps children learn to deal with separation and the unknown.

Ways to develop perseverance in children:

1. Pay attention to cultivation from an early age.

The cultivation of children's perseverance should be grasped from an early age, because once the habit is formed, it is difficult to change, if we do not have too high requirements for the child from an early age, it is very difficult to become a brave and persistent person when we grow up.

2. Let children learn to endure hardships.

Children should not be too comfortable, especially those children with good family conditions, because they have not suffered much since they were young, it is difficult to become a person with perseverance when they grow up, and we should pay attention to this kind of hardship exercise.

3. Cultivate children's self-confidence.

We should start with the aspect of cultivating children's confidence to strengthen the perseverance of children. Whether the child has perseverance mainly depends on whether his confidence is sufficient, if the child does things, mentally collapsed, then, it is difficult to let the child have perseverance.

4. Teach children to do things with their hearts.

Do things must be done carefully, so that you can make what you do more accomplished, once you have achievements, the child's self-confidence will be enhanced, if the child is not serious about doing things, which directly leads to doing things badly, then, perseverance will be affected.

In daily life, many children are afraid to do things on their own, afraid to meet strangers, afraid to talk to other people, and these phenomena are all manifestations of timidity. So how do you make a timid child brave? Here's how to make your child brave.

The result of having fewer children in the economy is that too much pampering of children makes children more and more squeamish and cowardly, and loses the courage to face difficulties and setbacks. What should be paid attention to in family education to make children brave?

Let your child know about the dangers, but don't let them become a hindrance to your child's growth. Teach children about the potential dangers of existence and enlightenment in advance, remind them to be careful to avoid harm, but do not prevent children from trying and facing them independently because of the dangers.

Face your fears. Tell children that fear is a normal emotion, both adults and children will have it, and when there is such an emotion, you need to find a way to overcome it, and you don't need to feel inferior because of fear.

Encourage. When a child is timid, he needs the guidance and encouragement of his parents patiently, encouraging the child to face the things or behaviors that make him feel afraid, so that he can try bravely and find that there is nothing he is afraid of behind the fear.

Children should gradually improve their abilities as they grow up, and the improvement of ability is to lay a good foundation for the cultivation of character. Tell your children more stories, the stories of heroes will inspire them to keep improving, not to be weak or to become cowardly.