She s married to someone else, and now she s back and won t leave, I m living in troubles all day, w

Whether you were a couple or a crush, or a husband and wife, in fact, the essence of the problem is actually very simple, very simple, first, she is married, second, you are single, third, you can't forget her, so you first put down your troubles, first ask yourself if you really love her as before, then if the result is positive, then accept her, then the result is hesitant or uncertain, then it means that your love is discounted or uncertain, then don't force her to accept her, this is advice for you, but what if it is my personal choice I will persuade her to return to her husband1, because if you accept her, it will be another kind of harm to another man (provided that the woman's husband is not a bad person) 2, and there is no grass at the end of the world. It's not that I don't have a backache when I stand and talk, once when I was young, one night when a woman left me, I was alone thinking about why this happened I slept for 2 days and 2 nights and then woke up and became a lot more calm That night I drank 2 bottles of liquor and 12 bottles of beer... The loneliness of a person, I understand.

But to be a man, you have to have a bigger heart. Finally, I wish you a smooth handling of this matter. And finally, you know better than anyone what you want.

Yes, just go in this direction, there's nothing wrong with that. Because that's your choice.

Do you mean that she used to be a couple with you, then got married, and now she is divorced and comes back to you? It is recommended to ignore it directly, if she is cheeky and relies on you, you can do whatever she wants, anyway, just ignore it. If it affects you, don't talk so well

What is your relationship with her? Divorce if it's a husband and wife, and break up if it's a friend

You should make it clear to her what you think.

Ditto, it is recommended that you do not have too much to do with this kind of woman.

I don't think there's any need to be together.

What's going on? Have you become a third party?

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read You may not be able to use other people's experience, if you can Generally, you would have called the police a long time ago You can endure so much Jiu There must be something unspeakable to hide Look at it yourself and solve it Don't hurt her You just grieve yourself If you want to be comfortable in your heart, you have to hurt her,

If the relationship is not good, just tell her that it will disturb your life

Half-jokingly telling him that you're just a big shiny light bulb or something, if you're not stupid, you know what you want to say, and it doesn't hurt the friendship, so why not.

Call 110, this kind of person is really cheap!

What kind of relationship do you have, it will really affect your normal life if you live in your house for so long.

You haven't seen this kind of male hob yet.

What is your husband's opinion, let him say it.

Why didn't she leave your house? Is your husband in a relationship with her?

Let your husband harass her and scare her.

Drive it away directly, do you want to wait for her to be the hostess?

Just know how to live in? Cut off the power and the network, cut off the water.

Didn't you call the police, what do you want to do if you don't feel like you're leaving? Occupy your bed! What are you waiting for, what is your husband thinking!

Organize a trip or go to work.

In fact, love is like a grinding stone, maybe when you first picked it up, you are not so satisfied, but remember that people are flexible, many things can be changed, as long as you have the heart and courage, instead of picking up unknown stones everywhere, it is better to polish and polish the stones you already have. Many people think that it is because the feelings are weak that people will become lazy, and the feelings will slowly fade, and then, for the sake of each other's happiness, they let go, but they don't know that it is each other's happiness that is let go!

I've always thought this sentence was good. You give yourself a minute of silence, a deep level of silence. Ask yourself if you can't let go of it yourself, or if you don't want to let go.

Just like your wife's friend, who has been in a failed relationship, she will be very cautious in itself. And you actually gave up your girlfriend for seven years for her, so do you think she will choose you, if you really give up your seven-year itch. So did she also say to herself:

You're not reliable, and if you meet someone else in the future, maybe you'll have so much of me.

Calm yourself down and ask yourself, do you think you can promise to love someone for the rest of your life, no matter which relationship ends up with feelings. You may be suffering today, that is because you neglect the people closest to you, you think about how you and your girlfriend have lived for seven years, every bit of you, you have cried and laughed together, when everything is calmed down, it is the tolerance and understanding between the two parties to create, congratulations at that time: hold the hand of the son, grow old with the son.

You will find that the two people are becoming more and more like each other and feel like another self. You can say anything, you can hold hands in everything, and what you leave behind at that time is a strong cup of feelings. When you look back and think about the present, you will only have a scrutinizing eye in your heart to look at, don't be afraid of what will happen in the future, the future has not happened yet, no matter how the "future" changes, it is to pass by the "now", so you grasp the present and cherish what you have now.

You know that if you choose your girlfriend's friend, bring an unblessed marriage. An unblessed marriage, a cursed marriage, if you consider your girlfriend and friend's feelings, will you live well in this life?

Your wife's world is only you, but your wife's friends are not the only ones.

Friends, think about it. Don't do things you regret, do things when you do them, men must be worthy of people, worthy of their parents, and worthy of responsibility, otherwise what is the use of men.

To add] infatuation is only temporary, long-term love needs to be partner love.

It feels like you're a very affectionate person.

You chose to get married, sandwiched between love and love, no matter how you choose, you will be sad, love is two people, have you never had love with your girlfriend, or has it already disappeared with 7 years? Do you have a relationship with the person you like now? From a personal point of view, I think the most hurt person must be your wife, a person who loves you but is deceived by the person you love to like someone else, and finally if you choose to divorce, and the person your husband likes is still your classmate, how can you be embarrassed?

I'm not denouncing, after all, feelings are uncontrollable, and love is even more so. Before making a choice, you must think about whether you will be happy and happy with that person in the divorce, and whether you will meet someone more obsessive in the future. Will you be happy if you don't get divorced, and can you gradually like your wife again?

I think it's better to be kind to your wife, and the sooner you choose, the sooner you can come out. Actually, you've already made a choice, once when you see her, you're moved by her, but you're in control. Love is beautiful, but no matter how good it is, it can't withstand the passage of time, love will gradually turn into family affection I think this sentence is very reasonable.

Well, personal opinions, are not responsible, for reference only, willing. There is giving and taking. However, no matter how you choose, you will feel sorry, after all, the fairy tale of love at first sight is beautiful, and the reality is cruel.

Two choices, break up or continue.

No matter which one is suggested by others, you will immediately think about the opposite side in your heart, that is: is this suggestion really feasible, is it really the best? So, before I answer, you should calm down and think about whether you really have the determination to solve the situation.

If you have made up your mind, then let's get to the point, if you don't have to look at it anymore, thank you.

1.The woman's child:

If the child is divorced, there will definitely be a shadow in his heart, and if he follows his biological father again; Then the biological father will never praise the child's mother behind his back, it is likely to be the opposite, whether the child believes it or not, he (she) will hate you! Remember that it is he or she who will think that you are the first offender to destroy the harmonious family, and the second will hate your parents (both hate!). And the mother of the child, in the end, will constantly have conflicts and friction with you because of the child's affairs.

Eventually leads to a stiff relationship until they are separated.

Even if you have been with you, the child will still be hostile to you in his heart; As time grows, once it enters the rebellious period, this outbreak will be unstoppable. This period does not include: whether you will have children of your own, whether you will get tired of the woman's children, and will you be disgusted with the child's father (the child has the shadow of his father).

2.Your current girlfriend:

Domestic violence is not uncommon in China, as her current husband really mentioned in your article, then a very real problem is in front of you, that is: if she is really divorced, not to mention who the child is with, even her husband will not let her go and let you go. I don't know, did you figure it out at this point.

His husband is likely to go to your workplace to make trouble (so that you can't get off the stage without face) and will also go to your (rented) place of residence, parents, and relatives to make trouble, so that your friends, relatives, and neighbors can watch the excitement and gossip.

3.I don't know if you're unmarried, or if you've ever been married; If it's the first case, are you able to accept the strange stares that the outside world throws at you? And that's not even counting your family, your relatives, your friends.

and so on and the advice of people you know.

If all of the above has been thought out for you, then what's so scary about 'not being quiet'.

1.If she really wants to be with you, she can sue the man (I feel that this is difficult to achieve, and if she does, the child may hate her even more).

2.If this becomes a lingering shadow in your heart, then parting now is also a sign of respect for her.

In a relationship pattern like yours, it's easy to get together in a nutshell, but it's hard to get along all the time.

At this point, I think it is the end, please decide what to do.

No matter how you choose, I wish you happiness, bye.

Brother, first of all, understand you, this kind of thinking of yours also represents the troubles of those who are in the same situation as you. But really don't fret.

If you have children, you won't get divorced easily, and your family is against it, even if you are unhappy and unhappy, it hasn't reached the point of divorce.

In a relationship like yours, the best solution is to break up completely. She is just looking for you because she is not happy with her husband, and she gets spiritual sustenance and physical comfort from you. One day his husband changes, and she won't care about you. This thing is the common nature of a married woman with children.

You are not a savior, everyone in life will be unhappy and unhappy, but everyone needs to take the initiative to solve it themselves. So you still start your own new life, plan for yourself, start your own new life. Otherwise, in the end, it is you who will be affected, and it will be you who will be delayed.

Everyone else will have a good time.

Brother, it's very gratifying to see you think like this, men can't drag mud and water, and when they are broken, they will be broken. Find the value of your life and do what you really should do. Some things must be paid, but some things must be done.

No one knows anything about you. If you are an innocent man, all normal social people will persuade you to leave a married woman, which is good for both of you, at least good for you.

You are not an angel, so there is no reason for you to save a woman who is unhappy in marriage, let alone save her with an uncertain future!

Every marriage needs to grow, and even more so for her. Give her a chance, give yourself a chance!

Marriages that are not blessed by everyone are unhappy. Obviously, you don't have enough conditions with her!

First, don't break up other people's families, and let people solve other people's husband and wife conflicts.

You have to remember: husband and wife are arguing at the head of the bed, and the end of the bed is closed.

Second, find someone who truly loves you!

It's annoying to be involved in this matter!

Do you think you can save her from fire and water? If you want to be selfless, you will participate, and in the end you will have nothing, do you believe? After all, people have certificates, what are you?

You have to be selfish, and you leave and find your own new life.

Mistress is actually a career with no future, and you need to deal with your problems according to the other party's situation, since the other party does not dissolve the marriage, you can only leave.

Everyone's marriage may have contradictions for some time, and it is possible to be taken advantage of at this time, but the marriage contradictions are not unsolvable, and after the marriage is stable, others will have no chance.

Your last addition is the right mindset, good luck!

Dude, don't think about it too much.

Now in this society, as long as you have a little ability, look handsome, and have no problem with morality.

As long as you meet the above points, there will be many women chasing you in the future.

What you don't love, what you like, what you love, what you love, what you love, many more.

Don't be in a hurry. Hehe, sometimes feelings are as simple as that.

Let it go. Maybe he loves you really. Maybe you're just a temporary haven when he's helpless, but she doesn't want a divorce. I have no intention of staying with you. I think you already know the answer. Just unwilling to face it