One thinks of traveling far away, one travels far away

From your own description, I can clearly feel that you always imagine that you always imagine that the effort is small, but the expectation is too large.

First of all, the road has to be taken step by step, your original idea is to go to college and find a girlfriend, and within a few years you can do a career that can earn you a lifetime of money, and then you don't care about your family, and the goal of being free with the one you like is a big problem in itself. First of all, after graduating from college, almost no one can achieve a career within a few years, and your goals have never thought about what you are good at, what you want, what efforts you have to make, just ask what capital you have to make a career after spending your college career sweetly with your girlfriend; Second, after you make money, you can leave a sum of money for your family and leave? What about your responsibilities as a son?

What about acts of filial piety? And what about the family of the people you love? You haven't thought about it, and you admit that you are a naïve child, so you always love to fantasize, but a 20-year-old boy should be sober, and the previous dreams should not be fantasies, let him pass.

Back to real life, now that you are 20 years old, you are the most responsible person in the family after sending away your sister who got married, but what did you do? Escaping, fantasizing, giving yourself countless pressures without putting in the effort. You are only 20 years old, life has just begun, you are not the time to harvest now, you have taken a lot from your parents and family in the past 20 years, and what you should do now is to reciprocate.

I don't think you should go on a trip, but go back to your hometown and have a good talk with your parents, talk about your confusion, talk about your thoughts, they have more experience than you, and they can also give you some advice.

And you talked about the problem of friends, I don't know what you have encountered that makes you afraid of being used, but sincerity can eventually be exchanged for sincerity, have you ever thought that your loss of friends may be related to your suspicion or fear of paying? Friends are never missing.

In the end, I still hope that you put away the fantasies of children and keep your feet on the ground Everything has just begun.

I want to ask you, what are you confused about!! You deserve to be scolded! Your goal is clear!

It's that you want to give your mother a good life, you're not lonely, you're idle and have nothing to do with your own crankiness, you know! I really hope you study hard, I really hope that! Because your mother needs you so much, you are not for yourself, you are for the mother who is suffering for you!

How much do you pay a year? How much is the cost of living? It's not easy for your mother to make money, a woman doesn't even have one to rely on, who will stand up for your mother if she is wronged?

Who can help him? Only you! There are also people in our class like you, how can they not be afraid of loneliness, they are alone every day, sit at a table by themselves in class, don't play all day, only know how to learn things, and he also works near the school while going to school!

Why can't he do it and you can't! Because you haven't really felt sorry for your mother from the heart, all you have is just a fantasy, and you haven't practiced it, so what can you do if you do it? It's a big deal to be ridiculed,,, it's okay for you to be ridiculed now, and when you graduate from college and don't have a job, can't support your mother, and can't afford to marry a wife, you will know what it means to be ridiculed.

Do you think you're still young? If you don't want to make progress, you will be cranky, you are sorry for your mother! You had a much better time at school than your mother, can you believe it?

You are her hope, I sincerely hope that you can have an epiphany and get out of the confusion, lazy people will not succeed, don't make excuses for your laziness!! The sky is so blue, when will there be a soaring sky that belongs to me? You don't fight for it yourself, others who give you the sky!!

Your mother gave you all her wings, but you don't cherish the opportunity to fly!! Still looking for the sky!!

2011-8-6 16:00:12Meow Meow Sauce Blog.

How can you be motivated without pressure, accept the challenge.

I love to go to distant places alone. Actually, this does not mean that I am withdrawn and do not like to socialize, but from the bottom of my heart I like a kind of solitude and tranquility and uninhibited. On weekdays, running between family and work, two points and one line, over and over again, busy, the burden of life and the tired body and mind, I have long longed to go to a distant place to walk quietly.

In the distance, you can let go of the fetters of red dust, or you can stay away from the hustle and bustle of the world, only myself, a world of one person.

In my eyes, the distance is content even if it is only separated from the earthly world. Perhaps, there are only silent mountains and forests and vast wilderness, but it can make the soul rest and happy. In this completely own universe, I can sit quietly, close my eyes, take a deep breath of fresh air, and the troubles in my mind will disappear immediately.

Or, stand up and embrace the breeze warmly, then look up at the sky and let your soul fly like a bird in the sun. Such a world is the holy place in the heart, others can't enter, only belong to you.

A person's distance is not only a kind of exile of thoughts, but also a kind of free and easy behavior.

Tao Yuanming once wrote in the poem of Yongdai: "Picking chrysanthemums under the east fence, leisurely see Nanshan." "This is the distant world in the poet's mind.

Although there are only a few huts and a few thin fields, the scenery is not beautiful enough, the scope is not wide enough, but it is wonderful and deep enough. Because in the eyes of the poet, the indifferent pastoral life of "elm and willow shade behind the eaves, in front of the peach and plum Luo Hall" is the most beautiful home in his heart. It was in this world of one person that the poet's talent was unleashed to the fullest and he wrote many immortal masterpieces.

In fact, the distance is the habitat of the soul. On the journey, people will inevitably encounter setbacks and misfortunes, as well as all kinds of tribulations and hardships, so they need to have a pure world to soothe the wounded soul and think about the future of life. Going to a distant place is not only a kind of experience, but also a kind of cultivation.

I firmly believe that when I return from a distant world, I will be a nirvana-reborn self, full of optimism and strength.

A person's distance is actually not far away. It's on both sides of the path of life, and you can see it at any time. When you are tired of walking, go there and sit down; When you get tired of walking, you go there to rest for a while, and then you muster up the courage to continue on your journey, through thick and thin, until you are glorious and forever.

Life is not only about what is in front of you, but also about poetry and distance. I don't know who said such a sentence, but I don't know how many people's hearts were pierced by this sentence, including me, of course. The faraway places I want to go are really far, and there are so many things I want that I want to ......

Riding freely on a road that doesn't know where to go, while still enjoying the beautiful scenery around you, is probably the most enjoyable state. The unknown yearning is the most exciting, maybe you can meet a handsome guy on the road, talk about love with him, talk about love, don't expect him to have a good result with me one day, but it's good to know each other, life doesn't have to care about the result, in fact, the process is more important!

It's a beautiful snowy scene, and I haven't really been to Mt. Fuji in Japan, but I'll definitely be able to see it if I have the chance. You can ski and have snowball fights on the mountain, and if you live at the bottom of the mountain, you can go to the mountain every day, but there is also a danger, maybe the mountain will erupt, I have seen it in other places, there are many active volcanoes in Japan, and you have to be careful while playing.

Everyone wants to go to different distances, and the scenery they want to see is also different, perhaps, you are a very beautiful scenery in my eyes!

I want to pick such a scenery to show you, play by such water, I want to close my eyes to feel the wind, feel the sound of water, I know that at this moment I have become one with nature, so we will throw less garbage, less damage to the environment, and protect our home, because all this beauty is given by nature.

I want to go to such a forest, I want to have an adventure about youth, to experience the primitive feeling in the forest, the birth of every fairy tale is inseparable from the appearance of the forest, the predation of every animal world originates from the forest, the forest has countless stories, come, follow me, walk into it!

If you go alone and return alone, you will end up with nothing, nothing at all, and this is what people have to accept. 2. I always do something alone: eat alone, go shopping alone, watch a movie alone, go to the hospital alone, walk the dog alone, and today, take a train to a distant place alone.

3. Strive for a new life. If you want to regret a cat, you can watch dramas, read books, and drink. Bu Xian wants to go to distant places alone, to Chengdu, to the northwest, to all those places where I want to go but have been open.

Travel is often an enjoyable activity that helps people relax, strengthen friendships, and broaden their horizons. Sometimes, however, travel can be a source of conflict, leading to tension and even breakdown between friends. It mainly depends on several factors:

1.Travel Planning and Execution: The planning and execution of travel is a common cause of conflict.

For example, budget issues, travel arrangements, accommodation options, etc., can lead to disputes. If there are different opinions on these issues, and there is no effective negotiation and compromise, it can lead to conflict.

2.*Personality Differences**: Everyone has their own personality and habits.

If there is a big difference in personality between friends, for example, one person likes to be lively, and the other person likes to be quiet; One likes to wake up early and the other likes to go to bed late; One person prefers the outdoors, another prefers indoor activities, and so on, and these differences can be magnified during travel, leading to conflict.

3.*Mutual understanding and tolerance**: Travel is a process that reveals people's personalities and habits, and if there is a lack of mutual understanding and tolerance between friends, conflicts may arise over small things.

For example, one person likes to try new foods and another doesn't; One person likes to take pictures, the other side Zen Bureau one person doesn't like it, and so on.

4.*Communication and problem-solving skills**: If friends have weak communication and problem-solving skills, conflicts may arise due to some minor problems.

For example, when you encounter a problem while traveling, if you can't communicate in time to find a solution, it can lead to conflict.

Therefore, traveling, while generally an enjoyable activity, can also be a source of conflict. To avoid conflicts during travel, friends need to make adequate preparations before the trip, such as making reasonable travel plans, understanding each other's personalities and habits, improving mutual understanding and tolerance, and maintaining good communication during the trip.