Is kindness really silly? Are good people stupid?

In the future, when you want to be kind, you must first distinguish between true and false deeds. And sometimes you can not give him money, the power of society is very strong, you can tell them to seek help from society. If they really needed help, they would have found ** long ago.

Do you think he will live with the money we give him!! That's how I usually go, and I don't give anyone who asks for money on the road!! If he was really in trouble, I tell you, now that society wants to be stable, someone would have taken him away and left him in a social assistance center.

The fact that he can ask for money on the road shows that he is a fake!

This is normal and I feel like many people do! Me too! In fact, if you don't help, no one will look down on you, it's just your own delusion!

I think it's okay to be yourself, and kindness is a very valuable thing. No need to change, maybe you will be deceived 1 time. 10 or even 100 times.

But only 1 out of 100 times did you actually help someone in need. That's worth it, all you need to change is the kind way.

Next time, who will say that there is no money to eat.

You take her straight to buy something to eat and watch her eat it.

Or who has no money to buy a ticket. Take him to buy one and give it to the car.

Got it? One last word for you. Good people have good rewards. It's not that you don't report it. The time has not yet come.

PS: Helping others should also be within the scope of your ability. If it's too much, just give up.

For example, I asked you to borrow a 100w like this.

I've been in this situation, but I didn't give it to her, I think giving it to her is hurting her.

We often do bad things with good intentions, give it to her, and she lives on this, in fact, maybe she is richer than you, do you believe it? It's just that there are people in society who have caught you.

This kind of psychology is not asking for help at all. Encounter such a thing in the future.

Think twice, we have the ability to help, and we should not help in order to accumulate virtue.

Don't help, sometimes it's a kind of "love" if you don't help, I don't know if you agree. Is it?

This is yours or not, whether it is good or bad, there will be some people who have different attitudes, such as this oil price**, some say good, and some say bad.

That's how your thing is, you give money, maybe someone says you have money, give 5 yuan at once, some say you're stupid, some say you're a good person, and some say you're fooled.

But from my point of view, I believe in Buddhism, I don't want things that are not mine, I try to find the lost owner of the things I pick, and then return them to him, others seem stupid, but at least I am psychologically happy, and the owner is also happy, this is my purpose. It's the same with charity, since I want to give alms, I don't care what others think, especially the person who is being given alms, no matter how you laugh, even your family is now a millionaire, I'm burdened, at least you are saying good things to me now, let me give alms, then we still care what he thinks, how he says, how he laughs.

From another point of view, from the perspective of believing in Buddhism, I give to you and me to balance my mind, which is also what you owe me, maybe you have to pay me back in the next life, maybe you have to pay me back in a few days, the previous Buddhists said that it was the cause and effect of the three lifetimes, but now it is the present retribution. I give you 5 yuan today, and you may use 50 yuan to repay me in a few years, but you still laugh at me while I give you charity, maybe you will pay me back with 500 yuan in a few years.

In short: don't let what you do by yourself affect your mood because of what others say, if you think it's right, do it, and you'll be happy when you finish it, that's it.

Upstairs are all hypocrites ......It's only 5 bucks. It's not 10 years ago, okay!

Repay your kindness.

I used to buy things, and there was a guy who hadn't birded me for a long time.

Then I went and asked him, and he gave me a double portion.

I gave him one more, and he scolded me and said, "Didn't you say you wanted two?"

What do you think I can say?

Think about it or forget it.

At least I have a clear conscience.

But don't be too gullible either.

Kindness is not stupid, not stupid at all, it's just that person's problem, don't take it to heart!

Kind people are simple. They are always defenseless against the world and the people of this world. Because they are kind in their hearts, they think that all people are as good as themselves.

Kind people are simple. They never complicate matters, and they see people and the world as simple. They don't understand why bad people can be so bad.

Good people are merciful. They do not see others suffering, and they can always empathize with the pain and sorrow of others. They help others out of difficult situations, not because others can give them anything in return, but because they want to do it, and they are willing to do it.

Kind people are soft-hearted. When they are hit, bullied, and hurt, they also want to fight back, but every time the enemy is more pitiful, the good people will choose to forget. Their choice of more may not be revenge, but distancing.

Kind people are grateful. When they receive a little favor from others, they will feel great gratitude and emotion in their hearts. No matter how big or small the favor is, they will keep it in their hearts. The grace of dripping water, the spring embraces each other, and it is said that it is a kind person.

Kind people are not stupid, they are just too kind-hearted, they are just too simple and don't care. You say he's stupid, but you don't understand, they're wise and stupid. It is precisely because they do not care, are simple in heart, and know how to be grateful, that they are more likely to be happy and happy.

Those who bully the good are bad people, and those who take advantage of the good are villains. May there be more good people and fewer bad people and villains in this world.

Definitely not! Kindness is a quality that makes people willing to approach you, trust you, and work with you. It is a code of conduct, a methodical attitude of honesty and respect, which can help you be respected and recognized by others in society, and can also make you an upright and loyal person.

Kindness doesn't mean you're ignorant, it's a warm, generous ethic, and it's an effective life strategy that can help you succeed in society because people like to deal with trustworthy people.

The ancient Greek philosopher Heraclitus told divination that "one cannot step into the same river twice" and there is a point. This means that people cannot make the same mistakes, and if a person betrays you out of malice, then you cannot forgive him, otherwise he will repeat the mistake again and again.

What's worse is that he sees your kindness as weak, even crushed, and will cause you more damage. Sometimes, people who are too honest can be taken advantage of by others. Being too honest is stupid, and being too kind can be considered a bully.

After all, in this competitive era, many times you are tolerant and humble. He didn't seem to have any opinions, and he didn't know how to refuse, so he was at the mercy of others. So, when necessary, you have to be individual and bold.

There are often things like this in life. When you kindly forgive the person who betrayed you, the first time you forgive him, he will cry gratefully and be nice to you, but the second time, he will only faintly say thank you. After many times, he will not hesitate to think that you should forgive him, otherwise he will think that you are too stingy.

This is the so-called grievance and grievance, such a person can't forgive him from the beginning, let alone give him a chance to hurt you again. You should wipe him out of your circle and stop talking to him. There are people who are close to you, not because they respect you or see you as a friend, they just treat you as a step, step on your head when necessary, and betray you at any time.

Some people have softer hearts. When others beg him, he thinks about others and makes some unrealistic fantasies, even thinking that the other party will be lost, know that he is wrong, and never do it again. This psychology belongs to the likable character.

Over time, your kindness may not be exchanged for the sincerity of others, but it may be exchanged for the contempt of others. Your forgiveness may not be reciprocated, but it may hurt. Your kindness ends up hurting yourself, but your tolerance turns into indulgence.

So, once you don't think the other person deserves to be forgiven, then you can express your feelings directly. Some people just like to bully people, and when you learn to retaliate, they will respect you and even fear you. **The more I experience, the more I believe this sentence, and there is nothing wrong with being ruthless.

As the saying goes, no one shall offend me, I shall not offend anyone, and I shall not tolerate anyone who offends me.

Good people don't have to be stupid, and while there are times when they may make decisions that may seem "silly" in certain situations, they may act out of a moral, compassionate, and caring nature.

Kind people usually treat others in a positive, warm, and inclusive way, and they are willing to help others, understand others, and respect others' feelings. This behavior may sometimes make them seem like they are "sacrificing themselves" or making decisions that don't seem to be worth it, but deep down, they believe that these actions are right and valuable.

While kindness does not mean a lack of wisdom or judgment, good people may exhibit some "silly" behavior when dealing with complex issues because they may focus more on moral and ethical values than on personal gain or efficiency.

In conclusion, good people don't have to be stupid, and their actions and decisions are usually motivated by a quest for morality, compassion, and caring for others. Although their behavior may seem "silly" at times, they have their own values and beliefs deep down and believe that they have made the right decision.

No. Kindness is not the same as stupidity or stupidity, kindness is a virtue and a noble quality. Kind people tend to have a strong sense of compassion and sensibility, and are able to understand the needs of others and take the initiative to think about others, which is an indispensable quality in our society.

Of course, excessive kindness can be taken advantage of or hurt when it is promoted, but this does not justify the denial of goodness itself. In daily life, we should respect the quality of kindness, carry forward the power of kindness, and at the same time learn to protect ourselves and remain vigilant. The most important thing is to learn how to balance kindness and self-preservation, so that you can be a kind person and maintain your self-worth and dignity at the same time.

When we say that a person is good, we usually mean that their behavior and attitude are in line with moral values. Kind people often exhibit the following characteristics:

1.Caring for others: Kind people will pay attention to the needs and feelings of others, and are willing to listen to the troubles of others and try to help them. They will show compassion and empathy, and will be able to empathize with the pain and joy of others.

2.Helpfulness: Kind people are willing to offer help and selflessly think about others. They may help others solve problems in their daily lives, or participate in volunteer activities to help the community or vulnerable people.

4.Integrity and honesty: Good people usually follow moral principles, they will stick to their values and be honest and trustworthy. They do not deceive others by picking up hail, nor do they take unfair benefits from others.

5.Positive: Kind people usually have a positive and optimistic mindset, and they influence those around them with good behaviors and attitudes. They may be able to convey positive energy and encourage others to face difficulties and challenges.

All in all, good people don't mean they're stupid, on the contrary, they often have a high level of intelligence and emotional intelligence, and are able to understand the needs of others and respond in the right way. Their acts of kindness are not only beneficial to others, but also have a positive impact on their own growth and well-being.

If kind people are not treated well, I think they still have to be kind. A kind person does good things and has a down-to-earth heart, if he is allowed to do something unkind against his will, he will be very uneasy and feel that he can't forgive himself.

First of all, kindness is not done for others to see. It's a quality of inner innocence. When a person does good deeds, it is not for the sake of seeking kindness from others, seeking praise from others, or getting praise from others.

It's because he thinks that being a human being should be kind. A kind heart, treat family, friends, colleagues, and everyone around you. This is a criterion for her life, no matter whether others understand his behavior or not, he will continue to serve and do good things.

Secondly, kindness is a kind of old poor supremacy and true psychology from the heart, and every kindness is a beautiful dream, which is for people. Our society needs kindness, good hearts, innocence and gentleness, and no malice. There is no fixed scale for kindness, and there is no standard answer, kindness can be said to be a person's virtue, or it can be said to be a person's character, kindness is for the sake of others.

Third, kindness should be the code of conduct for each of us. Kindness is actually very simple, sometimes it is just a gesture for us, such as when others are sleeping, we control the sound by ourselves and do not wake each other, this is kindness. Giving up seats for the elderly, children, sick, disabled and pregnant on the bus is also a kind of kindness, without any utilitarian and purposeful donation, and it is also a kind of kindness.

Kindness is not reciprocated, a truly kind person, he will do good deeds all his life, do not do good things, even if he is misunderstood, he will not change his mind, this is the real kindness.