How to give up and keep yourself to live

It's not early. First of all, you're not an alternative girl.

You're just yourself, so easy

Put aside willfulness, clarify yourself, abandon selfishness, and retain self-love.

For love, I think that same-sex, opposite-sex, insects, animals, any life as a lover as a partner is established.

The lover is just a mirror for yourself, and when you calm down and look at the mirror, there are all the desires you project. There are your own flaws, make up for them, and improve yourself. Lovers look at each other and lift each other's energy. The lover is oneself.

Social morality is mostly reduced to a tool to be used as a norm, to be used as a constraint.

For good and evil, it is like a left and right hand. At the beginning of man, both left and right hands.

Tolerance and patience allow people to have a broader mind to accept energy, and the ability to transform these energies is an advantage; No, it encourages people's desire for self-abuse.

As for the generation of dreams, the composition of the universe, the definition of time, in many countries, people who do not possess this knowledge are also called aliens.

Let's talk about love, men and women, beauty and ugliness, how much, garage, endless, endless...

Love is the entrance, the meaning of life.

For yourself, you have to be strong, for love, you have to be strong, you have to be strong, you are not obsessed with attachment, you are not being yourself. Energy is fluid, and attachment is a moral constraint of self-sufficiency.

Love and marriage are not mortal enemies, life and life are not mortal enemies. Just like self-love and selfishness, how to measure, look at the flow of energy.

To tell you a little secret, Trouble is a fun-loving child, you ignore him and leave.

When the troubles are gone, a lot of mental effort is saved.

I think your personality is very interesting, in fact, I have most of the same personality as yours I'm not afraid of the insects you said, just don't touch them, I'm afraid of cockroaches Speaking of which, I'm also a rotten girl, my personality is as abnormal as yours, my parents don't even know my interests and hobbies, I also have some dreams similar to predicting the future, my parents always don't believe me, but I still be myself. I'm a bit of a two-faced person, but my friends won't alienate me, and they will think I'm cute, in my opinion, you're just a little more childlike and curious, and I decided when I was a child, I don't want to marry or be more at ease alone, my parents always think I'm rebellious, but I'm a good girl to other relatives, and I'm also a joke to some friends, so I think you just need to be yourself! Don't worry about it anymore

If all these things you say are your principles as a human being, then you will not have such doubts, live according to your own principles, how can there be such a big trouble You are confused, to yourself, to your family, to society, when all this is unraveled, no matter what outsiders think of you, you will not feel sad, then you are really alive...

In fact, since birth, everyone has been doing such and such changes for the external environment, such as "standing" and "running", we will think that these are all for ourselves, but why not for others? No matter how you change, you are still yourself, unique. "Normal people"?

I think it's better to be called "ordinary people", and it's not wrong to like something different, it's not abnormal, because the definition of happiness that everyone is pursuing is different. Whether to be your current self or change yourself depends on what happiness you are pursuing? Live to say, do you have the capital to insist on not changing?

Don't worry about the road ahead! There will always be someone in the world who will appreciate you! If you believe me!

Then I'll tell you! I like reptiles! I'm also a fan of fantasy universes!

As for life, it can only depend on how you understand it! Anyway, I think being alive is the greatest happiness! Although a lot of helplessness!

But alive, I can speak to my family! I can taste the sadness! What do you think.

If you continue to think like this, I feel that you will be paradoxical and sick, everyone has a different way of life, everything goes naturally

You have to decide first whether to live for yourself or for someone else.

There are no wonders in the world, and it is not for nothing that you have the same personality, but you are unique.

What you like, what hobbies are just different from most people, you also have like-minded friends, in fact, your personality is not special, special is just hobbies. Hobbies don't determine anything.

Having said all that, what do you want? Someone else's identity? Isn't there anyone who approves of you?

Only you know what you want, you just don't know "gains and losses".

There are gains and losses in everything, and gains and losses can never be proportional.

You can't measure what's important and what's not.

I will give you a life motto: it doesn't matter if it's worth it or not, whether you want it or not, the important thing is that you only need a reason to convince yourself.

To be truly clear of conscience, it is not difficult or difficult, worthy of oneself and others.

There are no regrets when you decide.

Remember. The past is like the wind.

I don't think there's anything about your character. That's good. It doesn't have to be popular. Go your own way. Hey, this society is too realistic.

If both parties love each other, but are not willing to give up.

Their own lives show that neither man nor woman is either.

Be willing to give what you want for love.

This kind of love is selfish, but it is also normal.

Do you believe that's love? This kind of love has been defeated by reality.

Believe in love, there is power. A smile is a dessert in her life. Learn to forget, learn to lose, learn to be happy alone.

If you don't go for a long time, you won't come with a new one. tomorrow is another day Tears are her beautiful lost memories It is beautiful to be able to really like someone The beauty of loss - learn to give up Maybe we live easier and happier! Learn to give up the moment the tears fall, turn around and leave, and leave a simple figure!

Learn to give up, bury the pain in your heart, and leave the best memories that once belonged to each other! So I chose to leave! When you're lonely, you won't hide in a forgotten corner Learn to be free in forgetting and be the original me The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, why deliberately forget it.

Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy.

Self-confidence, optimism, and positivity to the future "I am born to be useful" Hegel said, "Being is reasonable... God is not boring, and everyone's existence is valuable. Treat the future with confidence, optimism and positivity.

Find your own value, the value of life!! And since I've lost myself, I'm going to get it back!!

Adjust your mindset as soon as possible, don't give up, don't deny yourself. The future is bright, but the road is bumpy. It's inevitable to encounter some setbacks in life, so don't lose confidence in your future because of a little thing, come on, I believe you will give yourself an accurate position.

The main thing is to find yourself first. in order to have a positive attitude to face the future. If you lose it, you can only passively accept life, and you will only get more and more tired and confused.

The lost self is**find yourself! Firm belief, there are a few people who have not experienced major setbacks and failures! Believe in yourself!

Find yourself first, and then be strong in the face. Persistence is victory.

Remember.

You are a manifestation of extreme inferiority complex, you have to believe that you can, others are also ordinary people, and they are all the same as you.

Just have a lot of fun!

People have nothing and fight better than you, you have everything but envy others for being free, what reason do you have to give up family affection? What reason do you have to live your life? Is there any reason not to work harder than others?

In fact, there are many things in life that we can't change, and if we can't change them, we try to accept them. When you face difficulties, you will find that in fact, there are no things in this world that you can't face, only things that you don't want to face. Come on.

When your relatives are the most important thing to you, you can not have anywhere, you can't live without you at home, you are a grass outside, but it is a piece of heaven at home.

What do you think, you don't have much time for yourself in life, after deducting sleep and other things.

Sometimes you should think about it in many ways, think about your loved ones, and don't be impulsive, last.

No quarrel with the world? People are originally group animals, maybe you just can't figure it out for a while, no matter what, it is inseparable from the collective.

I was also forced to give up, and I left the city.

Fear of touching the scene and sadness, and the fruitless love formulation will end in failure.

Now that I've found my love, giving up is also giving up to myself to hold hands.

Put that love in your mind, and don't let the other person let go when they are covered in scars.

Then it becomes hate.

It's not your fault that you love him. But we can't blame him for not loving you.

After all, loving someone is not an easy thing.

I can't love it. That's a realm.

OK. Sometimes letting go is a kind of love.

Renunciation is another kind of liberation.

If you love him, love him very much, and he is also worthy of your love and trust, then follow him But as a girl, love is not all we have! We should plan for our future, and everyone has their own dreams and lives, and it's not a question of whether it's worth it or not, it's a matter of choice, whether to choose love or life, and most importantly, how to decide so that you don't regret it

Hehe, there are times when people are not satisfied.

But wouldn't it be nice to change it a little?

You can start from scratch, but it's up to you to make the determination.

No matter what others think of you, the most important thing is that you don't deny yourself, they are them, you are you, your life is in your hands, your path has to be walked by yourself, maybe you feel bad in some aspects, but everyone is equal and has their own strengths, but you yourself have killed him. Cheer up, discover your strengths, and make them impress you. Remember.

Life doesn't give up on anyone! But if you let go, he won't catch you to death! Because there are too many people to catch! ......

Cowardly! In fact, the formation of your form is inseparable from the environment, this state is indeed worth considering, if you don't explode in silence, you will perish in silence, if you study hard and be one of the best in the class, then you will be valued by the teacher, you will not be coldly looked at by your classmates, your parents will slowly change their opinion of you, and finally be proud of you, provided that you study hard! Come on.

Change starts with yourself, because you can't change others at all!

I think I'm in the same situation as you, I've been trying to change but all kinds of setbacks are coming from all directions, I hate that I'm really stupid when I do something on my own, how I suddenly feel like I want to cry but can't. Alas! Like you, my mother is very strong, and I dare not disobey her, so my current personality does not look like a man at all.

2444314433, explain the remarks.

Life is a kind of tempering, life is not perfect, you have your suffering, he has his difficulties. You have to learn to be brave.

Instead of thinking about these questions, it is better to read more inspirational books, maybe you will have new ideas.

Don't do anything stupid

Don't be cranky

There is no hurdle that you can't get over, and your friends and relatives around you are also very good to you, but the way of love is different

Prove it to them

School and society cannot be divided into equals at all, it is impossible to say that the teacher says that you have the ability and courage, you have it, the society is different, out of the school hope to learn to be self-reliant in the society, don't be cowardly.

If the sky doesn't fall, we will all have hope.

Lost in life! There are the following reasons.

It's my own interest that I didn't find and didn't take advantage of. (Do what you are interested in) is that my circle of friends is too small and overly dependent on the Internet. (Break the introverted negativity.) You can watch some jokes and expand your circle of friends. ）

Didn't schedule the whole day. (Things at work also need a plan, and things in life need to be planned).