When will I be able to see him, the school here is so depressing, alas, what should I do? 5

I'm going to say something ugly, sometimes when a mentally ill person has a seizure that is brutal and unreasonable. I'd rather she wander outside or die. Don't do it, normal people are going crazy.

My dad too, I want him to die soon.

My dad is still mentally ill! He is suspicious and fantastical, often sarcastic and slanderous about me and my mother, and when I want to defend myself, he scolds me with disgusting words.

Hit us, right! In his psychotic world, he is always right, and normal people are wrong. I don't even know what I'm going to do in the future, so I just follow him.

Otherwise, he will make trouble in the sky and chase me everywhere like a mouse, without saving any face. I have this dad and I feel sad!

Let me tell you, do you know that mental illness is a disease? Do you know if you have a disease to take to the hospital? Probation?

Ha ha. If the probation is good, then what do you need a psychiatric hospital to do? I know that some people with mild mental illness are cared for at home by family members, provided they don't hurt anyone.

I think you should have sent your dad to ** a long time ago, maybe it would be useful. I can also see that the conditions of your family are not particularly good, are they? Maybe you really can't afford to send to the hospital.

Your mother and grandfather are really bitter in their hearts, especially your mother, it's really hard. So at this time, if you don't help her, who will help her?

But do you know what the last thing you should be? It's where you are. I know that you grew up in a very oppressive environment, and I can understand that you don't like to talk at school.

But how can you become psychotic? Your mother has to earn money to support her family, take care of her sick husband, and provide for your education, and in the end she will change you with a sentence of "I am also mentally ill"? Who do you say you are worthy of?

Are you most sorry for yourself, are you going to ruin your life that you haven't started yet?

What I'm trying to say is, regardless of your parents, don't confuse your life with someone else's. Your dad is mentally ill, it doesn't mean that you have to deal with mental illness every day in your life, don't let others ruin you. You can't choose the environment, but you can choose the mindset.

For people who don't give up hope, most of the things in this world are decided by the mentality. You tell yourself that even if your life is bleak or even hopeless, the future will be fine, as long as you live normally. It doesn't matter if you don't study well, it doesn't matter if you don't fight, the most important thing for people is to be right and bear their own results.

No matter how hard you try, as long as you do it, it is better than sighing all day long.

I hope you don't give up and think about your life, are you willing to do this?

If you are not reconciled, just change it, no matter what, this life is still your own.

No one is right or wrong about this, it's a natural disaster, and your family is actually a victim. You have taken on responsibilities that should not have been borne by you, and you have lost the family affection that you should have enjoyed, and at the same time, your mother and grandfather are also hard, what about your father? His mental state is not good, and naturally it is not up to him to decide.

We are not responsible for the disasters that happen to us, because we are passive victims, but we have an inescapable responsibility for our own future. I understand that you are hard, your pressure is very heavy, your burden is very large, and you have endured things that others have not beared, but, believe it, this is the test of fate, and the heavens will descend on the people, and they must first suffer their minds, strain their muscles and bones, starve their bodies and skin, and empty their bodies. Disasters will make you stronger and more aware of life.

Be optimistic and confident, and don't have the idea of beating yourself again, it's not your fault, you're already hurt, so you have to love yourself even more. Live well, cherish everything, take good care of your family, and be considerate of your mother and grandfather. I hope you are happy.

My dad is also mentally ill, I also hope that he dies early, and I hope that his mother dies early, that dead old woman forces me to take money every day, since I was 14 years old, I forced me to go out to work, I later got married and bought a house without giving me a penny, and today I also called the psychiatric hospital to call me ** and told me to pay the money, and then they also beat the neighborhood committee over there, and told me that he fell down and wanted me to take money to treat him? Five or six of her own children don't call me? I have two children to raise now, and I don't have the money to support these two old immortals, and 10,000 Nyima float by!

The more I think about it, the more I take it.

I think this is just the landlord failed to understand one point, that is, the world of the mentally ill and our normal people is different, our normal people's world and people must first have self-esteem, on the basis of equality can interact, just like my relative's child, nothing to always scold people, but also beat people, but I never care about these, because the child is small, you lose your temper with him and he doesn't understand anything, the mentally ill is even more so, so, the landlord can't be angry with his father, because your father doesn't know anything. So, I figured this out, and the landlord wouldn't be uncomfortable.

Study hard ... Make hay.. Leave... Send him to a psychiatric hospital.

How can my family be better? It's about the same as you, landlord, you think about how many people in the world, it's a lot worse than you, isn't there a very beautiful girl recently, only 17 years old, 90% burned from her part-time job, what kind of blow is that, you are at least very sound, adjust your mentality, be positive, and watch more disaster movies. This will help you, my family is not good, and I am still here to enlighten you, I hope that the future will be bright, watch the documentary (alive).

Anyway, it's good to have a father, although it's annoying, I don't have a father, I miss him so much! The most pitiful of mental illness!

Feel uncomfortable, is it for yourself, or for your father?

You have to influence him with your heart and don't give up.

I also have a personality that is everything, and it doesn't have to be caused by a nervous disorder.

If a man is not successful in his career, he is most afraid of being counted down by his own women, and you have committed a big taboo.

If you want to maintain your relationship, you first have to let go of the version and let your boyfriend restart.

The idea of right to work, why can't the heroine be outside? Your boyfriend grew up in a foreign country and received a foreign-style education. Foreigners don't have a culture of male dominance and female dominance, you have to understand this.

After reading your story, I feel that your boyfriend is a kind person that you should cherish. If you want to continue the relationship, you can go to his mother, talk to his mother more, and let his mother help you. Sometimes the words come out of his mother's mouth and the effect is much better than what you say.

Sometimes the communication between boyfriends and girlfriends also needs a bridge.

You are two people who understand each other

The two people who cherish each other are very touched.

Zhi feels sorry for the other party, for the sake of the other party, the knot in his heart should be that he didn't answer the job well and made you suffer, and he didn't want to do this, and your depression also had a little impact on him. It can be seen that he also loves you and tolerates you. You must first let him know that you will not feel bitter with him, that you are very happy together, don't let him blame himself, give up on himself, let him fight for your future, believe that he will make your life better in the future, just give him confidence and support, let him take his time.

On the other hand, you can take some medicine to help you with depression**, you have to work hard to overcome it, change your mentality, and make yourself better. The two of you need to accompany each other and support each other to get better and better, to be each other's angels, to accompany each other through difficult journeys, and to set sail again!! Come on!

Seeing your description, I think at first your boyfriend should start to let go of the sad past, but because he hasn't found a job, he must not be in a very good mood, he feels that he is useless, you still count him down in **, he will definitely feel like this, oh so you look at me like this, he began to slowly let go of the previous things because of you, and now you make him feel that you are the same person as the previous woman, his mood can be imagined, Now he should be back to his previous state, it doesn't matter what happened, the estrangement must have arisen, if you really want to save him, then you have to do at least a few points, and after a while, the estrangement will naturally disappear.

I must apologize to him after going back for the first time, the kind from the heart.

Second, don't mention work for the time being, if you are generally looking for a familiar person over there, you can wait for him to be in a good mood, find a time to talk to him calmly, don't quarrel, and then come up with an idea with him, you can go to your hometown to find a similar one to do, do a 2 or 3 years of experience, and want to go back there, look for it back there, so that it is easy to find it if you have experience.

After the third back, it's best to pull him to relax, travel, climb the mountain, relax his mood, take him to a high place to see the distance, his vision is wide, his heart will be wide, he will naturally cheer up, and your depression As long as you think less about unhappy things, often think more about happy things, and slowly depression will be better, depression in the final analysis is actually depression in the heart can not let go, you used to see him give up on himself every day, you are also depressed, over time it will become anxious, when you can't suppress it, You will hurt yourself and others, so you also have to learn to see the point, learn to be content, and depression will naturally be good. Finally, I am talking about it, in fact, you don't know him at all, don't hurt yourself in the future, think more about happy things, don't say no, as long as you want to, you can think of a lot of happy things, even if it's just a little thing in life, as long as it's happy.

It's probably okay to say so much.,If you still don't understand, you can send me a private message.,I hope it can help you.。

Sometimes people come together.

Copying some setbacks, nothing went well like the body, and I felt that I was such an unfortunate person who was unlucky, and began to give up on myself, and became self-abandoned, and I didn't believe in myself, so I was depressed and depressed. At this time, if there is no one around you who can enlighten you to win souls, we have to save ourselves. Read some books about this to soothe your mood, for example, I was very depressed in my third year of high school, and I couldn't study all day and was very annoying, at this time, there was anxiety, I watched some movies that were positive about myself, and I instantly felt a lot more relaxed and had a fighting spirit, people are really interesting sometimes, and we need to instill energy for ourselves.

Judging from what you said, the relationship between the two of you for four years is not short, and the most important thing between lovers is to trust each other and give each other appropriate freedom. Emotional matters are like grabbing a handful of sand in your hand, the tighter you hold it, the more sand you lose. I hope you get along with your boyfriend in the future, don't always be suspicious, and get rid of your waywardness, then you can coexist peacefully.

Suicide and self-harm are very stupid behaviors, cherish life, life is only once. Why haven't you worked at the age of 29, what are you good at, what do you know, the threshold for work is not so high, I think the main thing is that you have high requirements, you can't do anything with your eyes and hands, it's very simple to lower your requirements to find a job, and you must stick to it if you choose.

You and he have a quarrel.

If you are very concerned about him, it is enough to show that you have deep feelings for him, he did not take the initiative to contact you, maybe he is trying to find a job to surprise you, or he feels that he is not capable of giving you happiness and is not confident to give up on you. Alas, communicate with him to see if he is self-motivated, if not, don't be nostalgic for him, there are still many good people in the world, we in China are not short of people, there is no shortage of capable people.

You and he both had a fight, if you are very worried about it

He is enough to say that you have deep feelings for him, and he did not take the initiative to contact you, maybe he is trying to find a job to surprise you, or he feels that he is not capable of giving you happiness, and he is not confident to give you up on the initiative. Either way, this is not the main reason for your relationship breakdown. You should contact him, find out the reason, forgive him, the misunderstanding will be resolved, you will be reconciled, you encourage him more, give him warmth and love when he is most vulnerable and difficult, and your relationship will not only not decrease, but will be deeper.

The motivation of love is endless!

First of all, you can be sure that your boyfriend is a person who does not make mistakes, patient and responsible, if he still loves you, you must not give up on him. Due to the long-term failure to find a suitable job, his self-confidence has been severely damaged, and once people have no self-confidence, they often become pessimistic and misanthropic and avoid personnel. You must encourage him more, and you must not fight him again, for fear that you have a psychological illness and you will not be able to control yourself. Alas......

As can be seen from the self-report.

Bai, your boyfriend is very.

du loves you, you have depression, he can never leave you, and the first thing between lovers is inner love.

Then the most important thing is to trust each other. When you go back, talk to your boyfriend and say whatever you want. There is also the need to control the condition, after all, if you have depression, it will also have an impact on the future life of the two of you, and the two really love each other and can get married.

Life is not easy, cherish the people in front of you!