What does a boy encounter before he truly matures?

Mature people have goals and thoughts.

Short- and medium-term goals will be set, and there will be steps to achieve them, that is, ideas.

Able to communicate and understand interpersonal communication.

Look at the problem rationally and comprehensively.

Not impulsive. In fact, there is one point of comparison, if you are mature, you will not ask this kind of question anymore, maturity seems to be a very cruel thing, it represents the loss of youth and the fading of dreams. However, maturity is the direction of life, and a long-lasting peaceful and happy life is inseparable from maturity.

The true maturity of a boy is manifested in the fact that maturity can be both a physical indicator and a psychological and ideological indicator. Psychological maturity and physical maturity are two different things, but they are linked.

When it comes to the issue of psychological maturity, I believe that a mature person has strong independence in thought, feelings, actions, and finance, and has little dependence on others. Understand what life is, know what you want to do, have a clear purpose in life, and have practical actions. Able to control their emotions, and have the ability to observe and perceive things, have a good attitude towards real life, and have a considerable ability to bear and resist setbacks and difficulties.

No longer be credulous, but practice.

In short, a mature person means that he has found himself and has handled the relationship between himself and the outside world very well.

First, mature standards. Maturity can be both a physical indicator of a person and an indicator of a person's mind and thoughts. Psychological maturity and physical maturity are two different things, but they are linked.

Second, do not exaggerate, third, be knowledgeable and subtle and introverted, and fourth, be broad-minded. Fifth, it is not self-centered. Sixth, have the courage to admit mistakes.

Seven, strong-willed, eight is clean and tidy, nine is respecting the old and loving the young, and ten is having hobbies.

The boy's real maturity is manifested in, first, physiologically mature, coarse pronunciation, special laryngeal joints, etc., second, he has an independent ability to think about problems, he can also think independently about problems in society, and he has begun to do things steadily, so the child grows up.

Think a lot and think about it. Speech and demeanor give people a different feeling, they can take care of themselves, and they also know how to take care of others (relatives or girlfriends). Financially independent, don't gnaw at the old.

Do not do things impulsively, and be able to think carefully about the consequences.

A boy in his 20s, who is very mature and stable, must have experienced a life of poverty!

I am such a person, I graduated from junior high school before the age of 16, because I didn't have the money to pay the high rent of 480 yuan for middle school tuition, I stepped into the society early and worked hard to earn money!

Living in poverty, I was alone away from my family, working as an apprentice in a hardware factory in a small town, 250 yuan a month, working 12 hours a day, and returning to a rental house after work to cook on a coal stove. This kind of work has been done for four years, and now the 16-year-old child is still growing up under the care of his parents!

At the age of 20, he went to Guangdong to work alone. On the seventh day of wandering in Guangdong, the money on my body was robbed by three people, I remember very clearly, only the back trouser pocket was 26 yuan, and then I gave a Xiamen owner who opened a restaurant, carrying beer, about three days, although there was no salary, at least let me have food to eat, a place to live, thank him for his kindness! Fortunately, on the 10th day of Guangfu Sleepy East, I finally entered a factory, and I have been doing this for 20 years.

Premature independence, at the age of 20, I saw the vicissitudes of life compared to my peers, and when I met a girl I liked, I didn't dare to confess, I knew that I was not worthy of others. In addition to chatting with my co-workers, I work hard, and I work hard to complete the task with my best ability!

When you haven't experienced such a life, you can't understand that 20 years old shouldn't have a mature and stable look!

Therefore, a poor life makes people mature and stable earlier! Yes, we can't change our life when we are young, and when we grow up, we can only work hard to change our destiny, be mature and steady, work hard, be kind, and believe that we will have a life path of our own!

I have emotional experience, I have a lot of social experience, I know a lot of knowledge that is not in books, I know how to be a person, and I have been polished over the years, and I will slowly mature.

First of all, I think I will find the reason from myself, instead of blindly looking for external reasons when something happens, and I will also set a goal for myself, try my best to think about the goal, truly reconcile with myself, will not be inferior, very honest, do what I say, and be able to do a good job in interpersonal relationships.

If a boy has learned how to take responsibility on his own, will no longer rely on anyone's help, and can also rely on himself to solve all problems, then he is considered to be maturing.

Being able to deal with problems in a timely manner, and dealing with them is very good, can take on the responsibility of the family, will no longer rely on others, and will not let others worry about it, it shows that a boy is really mature.

Know how to take some responsibility. Go and work hard to make money. It's no longer just about eating, drinking, and having fun with friends. Know how to take care of people.

I can take into account how the people around me live, and I have a certain plan for my own life, and I don't have any thoughts on other places.

When a boy has the courage to take his own responsibility. Then it means that he is very responsible, and it also means that he is slowly maturing.

In fact, he is slowly self-motivated, and he will also have his own career, and he works very hard in life, which proves that he is actually slowly becoming mature.

It is to have your own sense of responsibility, and at the same time, when you do things, you will have a goal, a direction to struggle, and you also have people you want to protect.

Be willing to plan for your future, and actively work hard to make money, and then have a clear life plan and marriage plan, start to buy a house and a car, prepare for your future life, and discuss various matters about marriage with you, and often go home to visit your parents, with a man's sense of responsibility and responsibility.

Take into account the overall situation and know how to think about others.

There are no signs, and nature will mature.

I know what a sense of responsibility is.