How does it feel to fall in love without an economic foundation?

It will be very sad, there is no hope, and I feel that everything I am doing now is a waste of feelings, a waste of time, but I am reluctant to separate.

Will be confused, can't see the ideal future, if two people decide to be together, they must be prepared in advance for the torture caused by poverty and pressure, if they bear it together, carry it together, they can change, but it depends on the determination of two people.

Uncomfortable is certain, it is not practical to fall in love to maintain feelings, there is no economic foundation, every day for oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea worry, it is better to fall in love with an economic foundation, it is better to have an economic foundation and then fall in love, after all, there is a good future in love with such a foundation, otherwise it is a waste of time and feelings.

I deeply realized that love without economic foundation is an invisible **, no matter how insistent and in love two people are, they will eventually be separated.

I think it's unreliable, because the society like this now is not the society it used to be, two people can go through many difficulties and be together as long as they rely on their feelings, and that's just a TV series! I think that love in this society now has no economic foundation, just like a skyscraper without a foundation, it can't last! And, if you think about it, even if the two of them are fine, what about the family?

Will they agree??? So there is no emotion without an economic base! Of course, there may be exceptions, but there should be a small chance!!

The economy is the material foundation, while love is the spiritual foundation, and if one of the two is missing, there will be a sense of extreme instability. You will feel scared and will not see the future.

I didn't have a financial foundation for falling in love at the beginning, and even when I got married and had children, I was still living in debt, my wife and I were naked and married, and there was nothing, but fortunately, through hard work, life is getting better and better.

I would like to thank my wife for not giving up back then, so there is no absolute in this matter, it depends on everyone's luck.

Fate, meet the right person at the right time, nothing is suitable and unsuitable, love can't be stopped, as long as you work hard, the future will be bright.

College boyfriend and I have a very harmonious relationship, we were planning to graduate and get married at the beginning, but really when I got to know each other more and more, I knew that his family was particularly poor when I was very helpless, I didn't know what my future would be, once, I was very rational to talk to him about the future of marriage, he actually told me that he was also very confused, only knew that it was good to me, and the helplessness at that time made me unable to continue to persevere, so I broke up, I felt that such feelings can only be left in memory, It's really fragile if you face reality.

We have been together for 8 years, I know that his family conditions are not good, but now that I am really facing marriage together, I have really retreated, although I have not broken up yet, but I am very afraid, how will I live in the future? The basic life is not guaranteed, I bought a house in the county and still owes money, the money for renovation is gone, there is no money for marriage, and I am forced to postpone my marriage. The point is that his salary is also low.

In the future, firewood, rice, oil and salt, human etiquette, what if you want to have children? I'm very upset and insecure right now. When faced with these basic necessities, what happiness is there when you can't afford to live a basic life?

You shouldn't be in a relationship if you don't have money. You have to think about the money for a meal. You yourself will be miserable, and others will be sad.

If you can fall in love in this case, it can only mean that both of you simply like each other, and will not mind these financial worries and needs, and more about your feelings.

You can talk about love, but life is a little tight, and I'm afraid that we won't be able to go together in the future and can't afford to support my wife.

To be honest, I'm not in favor of that. Because if two people don't have a financial foundation, they will think a lot when they fall in love. For example, when watching a movie, you have to worry about whether you need an AA system, so you say, is this kind of love interesting?

If someone you like has someone you like, would you give it up? Yes, this question is really good. My answer is simple: I would choose to give up.

But before giving up, I'll let him know that I love him. As for how he chooses me, I won't interfere. After all, he also has this right to know.

However, I don't guarantee that he will give up on the person he likes and like me. At least, I personally don't need to leave any regrets.

I'll bless him well. I hope that person can give him the happiness he wants. It's not great, it's a gamble to lose.

People are like that. I knew there was no result. But I still want to give it a try.

It doesn't matter if you lose or win. The process is what it's all about. If you confess to this person you like.

Many times, as long as you say what is in your heart, you will have no regrets in this life. It can be said that it is the last gift of this relationship. Personally, I think it's necessary.

Of course, you can turn around and leave quietly like this. Well, maybe it's a pity for him? Tell him, that's all.

But if he chooses me, I can't step on two boats. That's the bottom line. You said it, yes.

Can you talk about love when you don't have money? Can you talk about love when you don't have money?

There is no money without money, and there is money with money. But the premise is the same, that is, there is a foundation of love for each other. In this case, no form will be greater than the content.

No matter what Zheng Han pretends to be in love, it is what you want, the beauty you like. In fact, wouldn't that be a bit dissatisfying? Really, it doesn't matter.

Of course, the rich will be more spirited. But this temperament can only help him get the love he can have. That's all, but it's not about getting true love that doesn't belong to him.

Everyone has the right to fall in love. It doesn't have to look at the share of the money. It is to see that we are all pursuing a vision of happiness and love. So without money, without money, without money, there is a chance to fall in love. Come on!

I think if it's the kind of love in college, it's very pure, and basically doesn't think about the material aspect, then it won't be very difficult, and if Lu Qi enters the club, it may be different.

Indeed, it has to be said that the economic foundation is very important during the relationship, and only with the economic foundation can the love of each other be more ceremonial.

It depends on what kind of person you are looking for, there is no money to talk about, but compared with those with economic conditions, it is indeed more difficult to fall in love when you have no money.

I personally feel that falling in love has little to do with whether I have money or not, I remember when I fell in love with my husband, neither of us had money at that time, but it was good along the way. I can talk about my experience .

When my husband and I met at that time, both of us had just graduated and entered the same company, because we were the same batch of new former employees, so we also helped each other more, and we had more interactions, and we cultivated some feelings.

I remember that the income of the two of us at that time was a thousand yuan a month, because we were in a design company, and our own salary, basic salary, commission, etc., were determined according to performance, because we were newcomers, and often could not complete the performance tasks every month, so the income was still very limited, and we usually had to rent a house outside and eat outside.

But I feel that it did not affect the love relationship between the two of us, although there is no money, but we can chat when we are together, usually he sends me home is also two people walking, the more important thing is that the relationship between the two people is better, the attitude towards things is the same, not that who has to spend money for whom, at least in the early stage of the relationship, both of us are not too important to see the material. And two people can eat two bowls of noodles and have a very happy life, as long as the happiness of two people who love each other has nothing to do with money.

With the increase of the work experience of the two of us, the income is also slowly improving, and then there is a part of the savings, life is also very good, and then we bought a house of our own through our own efforts and some family help, and then from love into the married life, until now we are not particularly rich, can only be regarded as an ordinary salaryman, and there is mortgage pressure, but I feel that as long as two people have a good relationship and work together, everything will be fine.

It's not that you can't fall in love without money, as long as two people are willing to spend that difficult time together, in fact, now think about it when you had no money and were very happy and didn't feel how bitter it was at that time, even if there was no money at the beginning, this is also very normal, as long as two people are happy and work together to run towards a better life, everything will be there, believe in yourself and believe in your love object.

In a relationship, if there is no certain material foundation, most of them will not last until the end. The most important thing is that because two people have been together for a long time, they will constantly belittle each other. Whoever you are, you aspire to live a good life, but it's not easy to do that.

You need to rely on the continuous efforts of both sides, otherwise it will be difficult to succeed. In any relationship, you will find that if you lack a material foundation, most of them will not be able to persevere, because you will feel that you have to keep working hard so that you can create a good living environment for your next generation. When many people are looking for their other half, they will consider what the other person's financial foundation is.

If the other party's economic foundation is particularly poor, most of them are unwilling to be with him.

Because the competitiveness of this society is relatively strong, if you want to live a good life, you must have a sufficient economic foundation, otherwise it is difficult to achieve what you want. If the relationship lacks a material foundation, most of them will not be able to hold on because the other party does not have any sense of security. If you are willing to give up your freedom and money for the sake of closed love, then work hard to earn money and strive for family happiness.

If you are willing to give up love for the sake of freedom, then you are single, free, happy, and you are free to wander. There is nothing in the world that does not require payment. The best of both worlds may be available, but it is not in front of us right now.

Our choice may be in front of us, and we can't wait. This is a source of our contradictions. But remember, no matter what you choose, don't complain because it's really your choice.

There are not so many selfless people in life. It should be said that everyone is selfish. Generally, before couples start to fall in love, hormones occupy the first place, but after being in love for a period of time, it is more about firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.

Young people are pregnant with poetry and distant places, but these are all piles of silver with white flowers. In fact, the really good relationship is about money, that is, within the scope of their own ability to give and take, only two people work together for a common future, in order to reap happiness. Of course, people don't necessarily have to get married to be happy, and single people don't necessarily have a bad life.

It's just that humans have taken on the responsibility of reproducing. There is no special reason, entering marriage and love is the destination of feelings, and it is also the play of reproductive instinct. In this era when everyone can be fed and clothed, I don't believe that there are still people who can't even create a material romance all year round.

As long as life is not extravagant, the price of a little romance can really be satisfied. No matter what kind of marriage and love you choose, you must be ready to get together and disperse. Those poor couples will last forever, and it takes two people to go through hardships and dangers and not change their original intentions before they can grow old together.

If you are not prepared to share honor and disgrace, it is right not to talk about love, but don't lose faith in love and have no expectations. How far a love without a material foundation can go depends entirely on how the two people who decide to go together face each other's union with a sense of responsibility and awe, and that's it!

I think it's very likely that if you don't have a financial foundation to fall in love, it will make people feel insecure, and they will slowly want to separate.

I think it's true, if you don't have an economic foundation, then you have to be limited in everything you do, and you can't afford to buy him gifts to care for him, which is also a very annoying thing.