What is it like for a girl to quarrel with someone in the dormitory?

Sometimes when a girl quarrels with the dormitory people, she feels very helpless, because no one else is on my side except herself, and she feels very lonely.

The mood is very uncomfortable, and the girl's mind is more delicate, so she will keep thinking about it, bothering herself more and more, and destroying her good mood.

Scared and worried. What I'm afraid of is that they may fight at any time, and I'm also worried that their relationship will not be good in the future, their position will become very awkward, and the dormitory will not be as harmonious as before.

It's the feeling of two shrews scolding the street, which is really very boring, and it's often the kind of duel between that kind of team.

It is a very helpless feeling for a girl to quarrel with a dormitory person, because she has to live with her roommates every day, and it is very bad to have conflicts.

Girls are the hardest and easiest group life. Sometimes you can become friends with one word, but you can't turn your face and deny people one day. And the girls' wars are always gangs and are difficult to solve.

Friend, if you are a noble person, you can forgive her, the usual things are small and small, but it also depends on whether she is worth it! Also, you can ignore her, it doesn't matter to you how she is, you can just pass it on the big side. I hope you can be happy soon.

It's like a shrew scolding the street, ignoring each other for a long time after the quarrel, lingering, and after the quarrel, she will always be why she didn't say that.

When I was in college, I had an argument with my roommate, and after a heated bickering, we didn't talk for two days.

At that time, there were four people in the dormitory, and the other two people were also very conscious that they did not speak in those two days, and the dormitory was quite silent, because I was usually a chatter, and to be honest, I regretted it the night after the quarrel, and no one spoke to make me anxious, but for the sake of face, I just didn't speak, and I could only tell my boyfriend about my discomfort on WeChat, and on the third day, it is estimated that both of them can't stand it, and they will be reconciled after saying hello in the morning, and I don't want to quarrel with my roommates anymore after this time.

It's very embarrassing to meet, and I don't know what to say, it's going to be very bad, and I feel that an impulsive thing at that time has become such a consequence.

Yesterday I went to the library early, and not long after, a girl came to the opposite table, and then I was ruined by her ...... one morning

She first put down her things and went out to fetch water, fetched water and went out to the toilet, and I don't know why she went out again when she got to the toilet, and walked back and forth around me and walked around me in front of my eyes......Then when she finally came back and stopped walking, she began to pull down the curtains on her desk again, and then began to put the books, books, and papers in her bag crackling on the table......I think she's finally able to live ......

And then ......She started to look at her phone ...... with her headphones plugged inThen it doesn't matter to me if you are quiet, and I will laugh and ......mumble for a while

Someone next to her looked at her a few times, and then left ...... decisively

I'm really drunk because I brought too many things, and I was going to spend the whole day here today, so I brought ...... computer, ** materials, and reference booksI really don't want to move ......

I came to the library because it was quiet, the learning atmosphere was good, and it was convenient to look up materials and ......

If you really don't come to see the book, why come to the library, **can't read**, you can laugh out loud when you see it in the dormitory, why come to the library and hold back and endure and affect others......It's simply incomprehensible ......

In the afternoon, I found out that she really didn't come back, so I was finally able to study quietly ......

If you don't read or study, you ...... influence othersPlease tell me, I'm not the only one who has encountered such bizarre behavior......I can't understand it.

In my personal experience, I really don't want to spend too much time dealing with people in the dormitory, you should go with the flow, if they want to have fun with you, if they don't want to, forget it, you must not become a people-pleasing personality. If you want to learn more in school, you will find that the need for self-independence and quiet learning is becoming more and more intense, and if you want to have a good relationship with your roommates, you must sacrifice a lot of self-time and control.

If you keep spending time and effort to have a good relationship with your roommates, lower your requirements for yourself in order to maintain the relationship, and spend a lot of time and money, it is very unworthwhile to become a slave of others.

After going to college, it is a feng shui moment for whether a person will succeed or not. Some people spend a lot of time playing games, some people like to make friends, and some people choose to go to the library or study hall to study. One day, one week may not see much of a difference.

A month, a year, and you'll see the difference. The skills of playing games may have really improved, but they still can't get on the table, compared to the so-called gods. The classmates who make friends have a wider network, but they don't necessarily see a larger circle.

People who insist on learning must have changed, changed their worldview in the book, expanded their self-structure, changed their perspective on problems, and even the way they do things and speak. There was once a senior sister who was a little introverted and not very good at self-expression, she chose to insist on watching documentaries and debate competitions**, and after a semester, when I saw her again, she had spoken decently and generously.

<> it is very important to keep learning, and it is equally important to make friends or relax appropriately, but you must understand what you want, why you should work hard, there are always gains and losses, you must understand what you want to give up, and you must give up when you give up.

Everyone comes from different imitation pure stove recipes, does not have the same growth experience, has different views on many things, and it is normal that they do not blend together. You don't have to deliberately please anyone, like-minded people will be attracted to you, this should be the so-called soul mate.

What you are doing now is undoubtedly right, Li Wheel Cover does not give up on himself to cater to others, and concentrates on learning. This means a lot for the future. The reason why you feel annoyed is that you don't want to get too stiff with the girls in the dormitory?

From your question, I can also understand that you are a person who values friendship very much, but you must know that on the road of life, there may be many friends, but true friends will not, and you don't need too many.

Friends, if you get along, you can make friends, and if you can't get along, you must not force them, and you can't give up yourself to cater to others. Try to be kind and warm to others, help each other, but also be principled. Be more tolerant and understanding when encountering problems.

You say that you are annoyed by the conversation topics of your roommates, and when they are talking, you may try to listen and try to blend in with their conversations, but don't be too deliberate, let alone distort your original intention and interfere with your studies. Sometimes it's best to go with the flow....As long as you be a friendly, warm-hearted, easy-going, generous, tolerant person, not selfish to friends, not betrayal, not hidden, sincere, learn more from others' strengths, reflect on your own shortcomings, be perfect, and master the way of dealing with others, I believe you will be able to make the most intimate friends!

If you don't get along well, it may not be your fault. So there is no need to voluntarily do so.

Here you have two workarounds:

1. One is that the two families become friends, that is, Corporal Lixian takes the initiative to get closer, so that the hostility of the other party disappears, even if he fights upstairs every day, as long as he is not hostile, then he will not make a fuss about a specific voice.

2. Find a neighborhood committee or police station for mediation. Let him understand that you yourself have a normal work and normal life, even if you really make a noise with him, it is reasonable. When a third party comes forward, he will be more willing to listen to reason.

People downstairs often come up to react to the noise, and if they need to mediate, they can call the police. If there is noisy behavior upstairs, the public security organs.

Penalties will be imposed in accordance with relevant regulations for noise problems.

According to the Law of the People's Republic of China on Public Security Administration Punishments.

Article 58: Where laws and regulations on the prevention and control of noise pollution in social life are violated by creating noise that interferes with the normal lives of others, a warning is to be given; If the correction is not made after the warning, a fine of between 200 and 500 yuan shall be imposed.

Article 46 of the Law of the People's Republic of China on the Prevention and Control of Environmental Noise Pollution When using household appliances, musical instruments or other indoor entertainment activities at home, the volume shall be controlled or other effective measures shall be taken to avoid environmental noise pollution to the surrounding residents.

Article 58: Where the provisions of this Law are violated by any of the following conduct, the public security organs are to give warnings and may impose a concurrent fine:

1) The use of loudspeakers in areas where noise-sensitive buildings are concentrated in urban areas.

2) Violating the provisions of the local public security organs by organizing entertainment, gatherings, and other activities in public places such as streets, squares, and parks in urban areas, and using audio equipment to produce excessive noise that interferes with the surrounding living environment.

3) Failure to take measures in accordance with the provisions of articles 46 and 47 of this Law to emit environmental noise from the home room that seriously interferes with the lives of surrounding residents.

What are you doing if you don't sleep late? Whether it's noisy or not depends on what you're doing.

1. First of all, this should be analyzed from different angles, first from the perspective of personality, because we all know that most girls are more sensitive in their personalities, and they are also very cautious about making friends, so in the process of making friends, they will be better at hiding their true thoughts. Therefore, once they get along with them for a long time, they will slowly tear off their disguised masks, and at the same time they will show their true selves, so girls are relatively more likely to have conflicts and contradictions in the dormitory.

2. And once they find out the contradictions, they will not wronged themselves, so there will be more and more quarrels between girls. But that doesn't mean that all girls don't get along, and there are many girls who manage their dorm relationships. In the same way, we always say that boys are more generous and cheerful in their friendships, and they don't care much about their gains and losses, so when they find quarrels, they will easily forget them, and these quarrels will not affect their friendship too much.

3. Therefore, boys will deal with conflicts in the dormitory more appropriately, and they will understand each other better, and at the same time, they will not hide themselves, they will express their thoughts directly, so this is why boys will have fewer conflicts in the dormitory than girls.

Fourth, because of the natural character of girls, they will hold grudges more than boys, and they will not easily release their emotions, they can amplify a small thing, so when many girls live together, the contradiction will be infinitely bigger, so girls will like to quarrel with old accounts, and they also like to care about gains and losses, because for them, self-esteem is also very important, and they sometimes do not argue for right and wrong, More often than not, they are arguing for their own self-esteem, and they are reluctant to pull down their faces to apologize, so girls will have more conflicts in the dormitory than boys.

Because girls have small hearts, they have more things, and they are easy to calculate, while boys have fewer things, and boys are more generous and don't like to hold grudges.

Because girls are more delicate, they are prone to contradictions in small things.

The psychology of girls is more colorful and emotionally delicate, so they generally have problems that cannot be let go for a long time. Boys are bigger, everyone is more arrogant, and there is no contradiction that can't be solved with one meal.

We all know that it is a tricky thing for roommates to have conflicts, because if you don't deal with the conflict in time, you will see each other like a fish in your throat.

There will always be friction between people, there will be contradictions, when the events that cause conflicts between you occur, how do you perceive and look at it, what are your emotional feelings, and how do you communicate with each other......A slight change in these factors can make all the difference.

Boys tend to have an easier time dealing with conflicts with their roommates, because boys tend to think less about problems and conflicts. Basically, many problems can be solved with a meal, a greeting, and a bottle of beer.

When a girl has a conflict with her roommate, it is generally very troublesome to solve it, because there are many problems to consider between the two parties, and the longer the time drags on, the more difficult it is to solve the problem.

Roommates come from different places and have different habits, so we have to be clear about this, and then understand each other and try not to break the habits of roommates.

After finding out the reasons for the conflict between you and your roommate, you should analyze these reasons from many angles to see whose fault it is, and if it is the other person's fault, then you should forgive him, after all, one more friend is better than one enemy. If the other person has not been able to realize his mistake, then you have to make him understand and not let him make such a mistake again.

In fact, it is quite simple to solve the conflict with your roommate, because there can be only two of you in the dormitory, and everyone else can be used as a "adjustment" relationship, sometimes a little contradiction and forbearance will pass, if you really feel that the other party is not a person with you, it is a big deal not to contact after graduation, but you still need to maintain a good relationship in the dormitory, even if you have to pretend, you have to pretend, and the relationship between people is like this.

How to deal with roommate relationships.

1.Dormitory hygiene should be done well.

The dormitory environment is for everyone, and we should have a good habit of cleanliness, not only to maintain our own hygiene, but also to maintain the hygiene of the dormitory. However, the roommates in the dormitory come from all over the country, and it is inevitable that the habits will be different, so it is best to make a duty schedule and everyone will follow it.

2.There is a level of communication, but no blind trust.

Dealing with college dormitory relationships is also an important part of our interpersonal interactions, but it should be noted that we must pay attention to the proportions of our interactions and not cross the line. In other words, you can't be independent, you can't do everything alone, and you can't trust too much.

3.Don't complain behind your back.

When we come back to the dormitory after class, we all live together, and we will inevitably discuss some things, and we can't talk about others behind our backs and complain about others. If there is a small friction between you and your roommate because of some minor conflicts, you must make it clear in person to avoid misunderstandings. If you say something bad behind your back,