My girlfriend has been with me for 3 years, and I don t know how to do housework at home, do you wan

Girls and boys are not only together to do housework for boys, girls are protected and cared for not to be babysitters for you.

Try not to break up, two people have problems. It's good to solve the problem, she doesn't know how to do housework, just learn slowly, she will definitely learn one day, and it will be difficult for you to meet someone who really loves you again.

It's up to you, if you really like her, you can tolerate her habit of not doing housework, and you can be together.

No, you can teach her slowly, if she refuses to learn anything, it means that she is a very squeamish person, not suitable for life, in this case, she should break up.

Don't break up, it's very irrational to break up just because you don't know how to do housework, you can learn if you can't do housework, and the most important thing for two people is communication.

There is no need to break up, you can't learn housework slowly at home, no one is born to do it, you can do it together!

You shouldn't break up, it's okay for a girl to be willful, but you can communicate with your girlfriend.

If you don't rush to get married, there is no need to break up, if you think that the other party is the object of marriage in the future, then you can divide it, you don't expect to rely on this kind of person, if something happens in the future, it will be carried by yourself, don't think that the other party will help you share it, lazy people are very selfish, no empathy, even if you are lazy, there are a lot of excuses that you are not doing well, she He doesn't do anything himself, and accuses you.

Parted. There is no point in being with such a person, because the other person is really lazy and will not help him to do something.

No, most of today's women don't know how to do housework, but there will be a learning process, and there is no need to worry about that.

I felt that I should break up with her because it would not be conducive to the development of the relationship at all.

After two years together, should I help my girlfriend share the housework?

1. Men should also take on household chores.

In the family, many men think that they should earn money to support the family, this is the task of men, and for housework, women should do it, such an idea is actually wrong, now not only men have to work, women also have their own jobs, not only women do housework, then women will be very hard, to work and take care of the family, I have been with my girlfriend for more than two years, in the past two years, I have not done housework at all, it is really too undeserved, my girlfriend has not complained about this, I didn't break up because of this, and I should make up for it quickly.

Second, two people doing housework together will deepen the relationship between two people.

In daily life, if the boy does not do any housework, but the girl is busy, after a long time, the girl will feel very unfair, will lose her temper, if the man also shares some for the woman, two people buy vegetables and cook together, sweep the floor together, wash clothes together, all the housework is undertaken by two people together, then the girl will be very grateful, will be very happy, feel that it is lucky to know such a boy, in the process of doing housework, generally boys and girls will chat and work, The relationship will also get better and better.

3. Even if a man does housework not very well, a woman does not care.

For housework, most boys are not delicate, they may be extravagant, sweep the floor and wash the vegetables clean, but it is better to do it than not to do it, even if it is not good, with the girl next to it, the girl will feel particularly content. However, some boys still have a certain talent for housework, for example, many boys usually don't stir-fry, but when they really stir-fry, the stir-fry is particularly good, and the taste is very delicious, so men can do housework appropriately and let women.

Of course. Helping your girlfriend with household chores is not something that should be done. At home will be a world for two people, and everything should be shared with each other.

So I think it's right to help your girlfriend share the housework, and if you want to, you should do more and let your girlfriend do less, so that your girlfriend will like you and the two of you will be happy together in the future.

In other words, in the past two years, your girlfriend has done the housework, and you have never helped her? I think I admire your girlfriend, she can be with you for two years, and after two years, you remember to help her with housework, I feel that you are very selfish, in this case, I don't know what the point of your girlfriend being with you is, she should break up with you.

Yes, love is mutual, care is also mutual, housework is not her own business, you need to bear it together, she is willing to take care of you and take the initiative to take care of housework, if you also love her, you should accompany her to do it. The home is yours, and the housework is for two.

Of course, you should help your girlfriend share the housework, I think housework is not only a girl's business, but also a boy's involvement, so that the relationship between the two people can be more stable.

That must be to share the housework with your girlfriend, housework is not one person's, and two people have their own jobs and their own lives in love, two people must understand each other and empathize to go for a long time.

Since you have been together for two years, I feel very obligated to help my girlfriend share the housework, and doing the housework is not your girlfriend's business alone, I think it needs to be managed by you together.

I think it's okay, you go to help her share the housework, in fact, it is also your personal obligation, there is no law, girls must have to do housework at home.

Ordinary women are about the same salary as their husbands. Some even make more money than their husbands, so why let women serve men? So the housework must be shared.

You should do what you can, and don't wait for people to take the initiative to say it.

Because, sooner or later, housework has to be divided, that is, sooner or later, it is better to take the initiative.

I think that no matter how long we have been together, I should help my girlfriend with the housework. Because this will make your girlfriend think that you are very considerate, and the relationship needs to be managed by two people.

After two years together, you can help your girlfriend share the housework, which can also reduce her burden, and this is also a sign of loving her.

No matter how many years we have been together, I think if you are not married, you should not touch on housework too early.

You have to help your girlfriend share the housework, because housework is not what your girlfriend should do, and it is not her obligation, you should do a little.

No. These things can't make the other party get into habits, and the days ahead are still very long, do you want to do housework for the rest of your life? You can arrange a schedule to bind both parties.

We can divide your chores into three parts:

First, the common part: such as cooking, you said, you cook she washes the dishes and washes the dishes, both parties have to pay, it's fair, if you don't want to cook, you can also discuss with the other party to swap it, but you can't help but recognize the labor contribution of your female ticket.

Second, the woman's part She does it herself very diligently, according to this, there should be no requirement for you to do it, and she will finish it herself, there is nothing to complain about, right?

Three, the male part What you are complaining about is why the female ticket no longer helps you with housework!! Why don't I do your laundry for you!! Why are you reluctant to do your laundry and housework now??!

It's very simple, because you take it all for granted, you can't see the contribution of your girlfriend in the above two parts of the housework, you only see why she doesn't do it for you, and blame and complain about it! I won't do it for you, I loved each other at the beginning, so I was willing to pay for each other, but after a long time, the other party took this for granted and didn't do it but became their own fault, then no one would want to, your girlfriend has this obligation?

I think we should also look at the overall contribution, not just the housework. If your girlfriend (who may be your wife in the future) also has a job and does not depend on you to support her, then she contributes to the economic income between you, she takes on her own financial responsibilities, she is also busy, she will be tired, and she will not be able to do housework at all times.

If your girlfriend doesn't have a job and doesn't do anything but shop online or go shopping, it will look uneven and unfair to you (I guess that's not the case). Since the landlord said that men and women are equal and housework is not a woman's specialty, then don't be harsh on your girlfriend in terms of housework, and take on more of it yourself.

No, a woman's laziness and bad temper are a woman's great shortcomings, can you imagine a series of problems for your big family in the future? But I believe that she is not bad, she is too willful, girls do want to be spoiled, but it depends on the situation. To be honest, the character of your girlfriend or wife is also responsible for the man himself, a man must at least have a certain majesty in front of his lover, at least most of her listens to you, and the other side hurts her, there is a balance.

It's come to the point where you're going to get married, don't be impulsive, don't give up easily, communicate well, see what you know about her, see if it will change the status quo, and now your girlfriend is still a little girl, and when you have a family and children, a woman will also change.

There should be no breakup. That's because your girlfriend has a good temper, and if she has a bad temper, she will beat you and ask you to do housework. You shouldn't break up, you should be glad your girlfriend has a good temper.

Parted. I worked tirelessly every day to earn money, and I had to do housework constantly when I came home. And what she eats at home is not only to eat, but also to sleep and constantly raise her fat. I wouldn't choose to be with someone like that.

Break up, it's impossible not to do housework in the family, and if a girl doesn't want to do anything, it will be very messy at home. Unless you are willing to do all the housework.

Don't break up, girlfriends are basically lazy, and there are not many diligent girls now, so don't be too demanding, and be content and happy.

Parted. Although it has been preaching that girls are not a machine that does housework. But a girl who is too lazy to do housework can really be very tiring.

Break up, housework is a common thing for two people, if she blindly backlogs all things on you, then you don't need to live with her.

It is recommended that you do not break up, housework is something that can be learned, you can teach her how to do it, tidy up her own small home, and you can encourage her to do housework with rewards.

I don't think you need to break up directly, communicate first when you encounter problems, and make some changes for each other, so that the relationship can be long-term.

As a Shanghainese man, I want to tell you clearly. Doing housework is a man's business, it has nothing to do with women, you don't blame women on this matter.

There is no mistake, happiness depends on the joint efforts of two people, if one party only knows how to take but does not know how to give, then there will be no good results together.

I don't think there's anything wrong with you breaking up with your girlfriend because your girlfriend is a lazy person who is not diligent at all.

There's nothing wrong with you breaking up with him, as long as you think there's no need for the relationship between the two of you to go any further, then break up.

Actually, there is nothing wrong with it, because your girlfriend herself is not considerate of you at all and is also very lazy.

Break up, otherwise you will do the housework yourself in the future, it will exhaust you, don't look for this kind of girl who can't do housework, find someone who is willing to do housework, it is best to do it with two people.

Don't break up, the power of love is great, one person can make a lot of changes for another, you can live and learn from each other, you can teach her to do housework in normal times, which is also a way to increase affection.

Can you find a girlfriend who can do housework after a breakup, it is recommended not to divide, a girlfriend is already difficult to find, be content.

Don't break up, you can learn if you don't know how to do housework, it's not a big deal, you can choose to communicate with her and share the housework together.

If you want to break up, find someone who can do housework if you like it, otherwise the marriage contradiction will be more prominent in the future.

You don't have to break up, your girlfriend can't do housework, you can do it, you can also teach your girlfriend to do it, she just can't do it and can't do it.

No, housework can be done by two people, no one stipulates that it must be the girl's responsibility, you can explain to her the idea of the two of you doing housework together.

To break up. There is nothing difficult about housework, you can do it if you want to, you don't need too many skills, you can't do housework, you don't want to do it, and it's not worth living with such a lazy person.

Don't break up, she can't do what you can do, she doesn't work at home, why do she have to do everything after she is with you.

Don't break up because of this little thing, it's not easy for two people to be together, you have to cherish each other, housework can be learned, can you teach, there is no need to break up.

Don't break up. 1.I don't like to work. After all, housework is work, and no one likes it. And there aren't many people who like to do housework, even boys hate it, let alone girls. So it's normal for girls to not like housework.

2.There are alternative tools. In an era where many things can be replaced by machines, it doesn't matter if you don't do housework.

There is a washing machine for laundry, a dishwasher for dishwashing, and an intelligent mopping robot for mopping, so you can order food or go out to eat. Therefore, whether you like it or not, whether you do housework or not, is very free, and it does not have much impact on your life.

3.Girls pay a lot of attention to maintenance. As they get older, girls pay more and more attention to the maintenance of their bodies. Especially the hand that represents the girl's second face, the girl will spend a lot of time and energy on maintenance. And if you do too much housework, your opponent will not be good, so girls are reluctant to do it.