Always concerned about the object s past, is there any way to make yourself want to open?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-23
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    After all, you weren't involved in his past, and he didn't know that he would meet you in the future! So there is no point in dwelling on the past, you have to care about his present, as long as you can live well and be happy together now, this is enough, don't let some unnecessary people or things affect your current relationship, there is no need for this at all.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In real life, there are some couples who verbally say that they don't care about each other's past, but in fact, they still care very much in their hearts, the most important thing is that they don't love each other enough, and the past things can't be changed, even if you care, there's no way to do it. Instead of this, it is better to let yourself think about it, think more about the other party's goodness, think more about the other party's care and love for you, and slowly find a way to forget the other party's past. The future is all that matters.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If he is your first object, you can tell him everything in your heart to give you a sense of security, if he is not your first object, then you should know that everyone has their own past, and we can't stay in the past and deny the present.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You should think about it more, everyone will have a few pasts, not the right person will be met at the beginning, so we can't always care about the object's past, then there will definitely be frequent conflicts between the two of you, you must think more about how good he is to you, this is enough.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You have to look away, after all, you now have your object's future and you don't have time to participate in his past, you can accompany his future to the end, the past is gone, it has become a memory in his mind, it is already a little unrealistic. If you still can't think about it, you have to compare your heart with your heart, and if your past, the other party is also very concerned. So how does the good life of two people begin?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Since it is in the past, it means that no matter how unforgettable the period is, it has ended. Everyone has a past, and there will be many people passing by in their lives, but just passing by, there is no meaning at all. Instead of dwelling on this, it is better to maintain this relationship well and not let yourself become the next "passerby".

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It is normal to have this knot, after all, people are possessive, especially love and love, and there is no room for sand. If it was someone else who had abandoned someone before, then you thought that he was choosing, and finally chose you. If someone else abandoned him, then you think like this, it was his ex who had no eyes and left him to you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There is no way to change a person's past, only the present and the future can be changed, so we must seize every minute and every second of the present in order to make ourselves not regret it, so that we can have a longer companionship in the future.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No. The past is used to remember, to reminisce. It's also a lesson.

    Now there are endless possibilities and vitality. And the direction of development is wide.

    Concerned about the past? If you say you care, you should separate as soon as possible, and you will not have deep feelings for a long time, which is not good for anyone.

    Forget about the past, dwell on the past, it's not interesting to live. (For example, if you used to have money, you can earn it now).

    ta.The past is ta's, and the present is you and ta's. So, the past is meaningless.

    Whether their past is good or bad, they can be ordinary with you now, which is life.

    In the past, if you said it badly, she confessed to tell you, and her heart was also bumpy, and I hope I can be comforted and understood.

    4.The answer to many things is self-explanatory.

    ta5.About the past. Personally, I think it doesn't matter as long as he handles it well, that is, for example, I will let him come forward to understand it himself, and then the same goes for fox friends and dog friends.

    6.This also depends on your own understanding, a life is very long, those are just passers-by, passing by. Pulse.

    7.If you don't have a base to be prepared, then end it as soon as possible.

    Have a great day.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Of course, they care about their past. After all, everything that happens in a relationship will not be accepted easily. It is important to know that TA's past contains many stories, some of which may go beyond the bottom line of emotion.

    Anything that may be unprincipled can be accepted, and it doesn't matter. For example, a girl who has sex has been pregnant and has an abortion. Just imagine, which boy is quick and easy to let go of his open-mindedness?

    It's one thing to not care about their past, and it's another thing to let go of it. If she accepts it, she will let go of her past, not that she doesn't care. As long as he can really come out of the past relationship and break with the past.

    I can tolerate the past of TA.

    Everyone who pursues feelings wants their feelings to be pure and pure. This hopes to maintain your bottom line in love, abide by the rules of the game, and don't easily break the red line, which is irresponsible to yourself, to others, and even more irresponsible to those who can stay with you for the rest of your life in the future.

    The past is gone, put aside and let it go with the wind. People want to look forward, as long as the future two people can work together to manage their feelings, rely on the wisdom and diligence of two people to create wealth, so that life becomes complete, why bother with the past.

    Only by learning to let go can we look forward to the future and love life. I will care about the past, but I will let go and not care.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't care about my partner's past. Since you already like him, you should care about him, and now the past doesn't belong to me and there is no need to understand his past, I generally don't care about the other half's past, and the two people together should be more tolerant of each other, many people mind, not the object, whether he has been in love before, but whether he really let go of that relationship, sincerely, live the current life, the previous things, the previous days are an indispensable part of a person, maybe it is because of these experiences that he is different now, so that he and tens of millions of people fell into my eyes. You are in my heart.

    There is no point in dwelling on the past, the important thing is that as long as you devote yourself wholeheartedly to the present, the current feelings are enough. Love is an infinite longing for everyone, and it is of course the result that everyone wants to join hands with their first love, but there are also many loves that can't go to the end, and they have to break up for some reasons. Life will continue to hurt the loss of love will also be slowly healed over time.

    So, who doesn't have a few romances in their life? These are all in the normal but who has not passed, but people like Jingyu do not mind the past of the other half of the past, the past is the past, and the most important thing is that there are people who are very mindful of the other half's past, in fact, if there are too many in the other party's past, even Geng manuscript rolls in the scum. It will only estranged the current feelings, erode each other's trust, and in the end they will definitely part ways and take the past punishment, now there is really no meaning, the past has passed, there is no way to erase or change, and what we can do should be to cherish the present and join hands in the future.

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