What do you think of your most satisfying life?

I think most people in this world will not be satisfied with their current life, not to say dissatisfied, but not to meet the most satisfactory standard in their hearts, only a small number of people can be satisfied with their current situation, of course, I am one of the most people, I think my most satisfied life should be like this:

First of all, the work should not be busy, and the salary should be average or above. I think that being too busy at work will definitely affect my life, and I don't have much time to spend with my family, even if the salary is high, life will be boring, so I don't like to do too busy work, especially the kind of work that has to go out in a few days, preferably a normal 9-5 a.m. plus weekend work.

Secondly, the relationship with relatives and friends is well maintained. The relationship with the family is very close, the whole family is united and friendly, and anything happens in the family can be dealt with peacefully; Get along with friends and help each other, and when you are in trouble, you will have friends to help you in time. I think how to get together at home and make friends outside is the most important and most important issue in life.

When the family is happy, they will feel that their life is good and satisfying.

Finally, in my free time outside of work, there should be plenty of entertainment for me to participate in, at least not to make me feel that life is boring. For example, occasionally go to KTV to sing, sometimes you can go to the movies, take your family out for a trip after a while, and so on. I think this kind of life is more sufficient, my free time is more colorful, and this kind of life is the life that makes me truly satisfied.

It's often the little things in life that make us happy, like now that I'm happy to have a good weekend.

As a person who often works overtime, I actually think that the happiest thing in life is to get off work on time and then everyone can make an appointment together after work, such as playing ball, swimming or running, because I think sports is a particularly beautiful thing, which can relax our body and mind, and then let the tired work of the day temporarily put a while, and the taste of sweating is very refreshing. Then I think we can go home after exercise, take a shower and then go out for dinner, everyone goes to eat hot pot together or eat buffet is the coolest way for me to eat, because hot pot is the feeling of eating together as a family, and then buffet is of course the way to eat full.

It's even more satisfying for me to have a weekend, because I can sleep until I wake up on the weekend, and then make lunch in the kitchen by myself, and then go to an exhibition or a museum in the afternoon, and occasionally go to a ** meeting, which is simply a pleasure. Of course, if you have a significant other, you must have a sweet weekend, you can go out to climb the mountains, or stay at home to watch an old movie, in fact, I think it is fun to do everything with your other half.

Of course, these are my ideal and satisfying lives, but the fact is that there are six days a week of work, half of which is required to work overtime, sometimes even the last train can not be met, and often the only day off I also use all of it to sleep, and finally I am a single dog and do not have a so-called girlfriend.

Everyone yearns for the kind of life that has money and leisure, so that people can combine work and rest and fully enjoy life. <>

The premise is that you have a stable job and a stable salary every month, so that you will not be idle every day, not knowing what you are doing, and wasting your good time every day. If you have a job, you will put some of your energy and time into work, and through work, you will realize your personal value and contribute to society.

When it is time to pay your salary, you can use the money to eat, all kinds of food you want to eat, all kinds of shops you want to visit, and all kinds of goods you want to buy. In addition to these consumptions, you can also save the remaining money into the bank card, laying the foundation for other small businesses in the future, looking at the numbers on the bank card, getting higher and higher, you will also have a small sense of accomplishment in your heart.

In addition to work, when you are resting, you can also go home to spend more time with your parents, chat with them, talk about your work, talk about your life, talk about your future, etc. You can also make an appointment with your good friends or girlfriends, go to the movies together, visit the park, talk about your heart together, talk about your boyfriend, etc., so that your mood can be relaxed, and the relationship between friends will go further.

You can also go to the supermarket in your spare time to buy some ingredients and come back, study the food, and then eat a delicious meal made by yourself. Clean up the house inside and out, then sit in front of the TV to catch up on the TV series, and when it is evening, you can ask your boyfriend to go for a walk outside and exercise.

We spend too much time and energy on "thinking" about it.

When I think of someone else buying a car or a house, I feel anxious and think that I have achieved nothing.

Thinking of other people's promotions and salary increases, I take thousands of monthly salaries, and I think that I have achieved nothing.

Thinking that someone else started a business, and he was still working part-time, he thought that he had achieved nothing.

Everyone is entangled in the problem of "thinking", but there is no actual action, which in itself is a waste of their own energy, the more they think, the more energy is consumed, and the more difficult it is to act.

Too many options: The internet is full of information with the aim of catching our eye.

Wrapping success as easy is what makes us indulge in false information.

When I see something hot, I want to dive into it and study it.

Seeing that the stall is making money, go and research it.

Seeing that Kai** is making money, go and research it.

The day after tomorrow, my friend said that he would make money by doing it, and he went to research.

There are too many choices, but there is no in-depth action, and there is more and more confusion.

Wanting too much:

We all know the story of picking up sesame seeds and throwing watermelon, but most people have been doing it.

People's concentration is limited, just like the memory of a computer, opening multiple programs at the same time will cause lag, and finally no program can run.

One of my cousin's classmates, he was very energetic, he only slept four or five hours a day, and he did a lot of work and was very miscellaneous.

In his circle of friends, he can often be seen doing different jobs, delivering water during the day, or taking others to see houses and cars, running Didi or delivering milk at night, or going to plug in the car and post advertisements.

He wants to do everything, and as a result, he doesn't do anything professionally, and his income doesn't increase much.

If he focuses on one area, as he accumulates experience and professional skills improve, his income will also be **.

It's like a balloon, if you prick it with a needle, it can easily burst because the force is concentrated at one point.

Therefore, you need to subtract yourself and concentrate on one thing first.

The reason why we feel miserable is because we have too many choices and too many wants, ignoring the importance of professionalism.

Now I am a college student, looking at the tedious study of the moment every day, doing the same thing every day, wanting to have good results but then not wanting to work hard, as if I have done everything but actually doing nothing. Meaninglessly playing with the phone, looking at the **, playing the game. You say you want to change, but it seems that everyone is the same, looking at them you are also "going with the flow", time is consumed all at once, you are also slowly consumed, maybe you have thought about breaking through but it seems to be slowly smoothed out.

I was afraid of such a situation, but I didn't know what to do, I knew my current situation clearly, and I couldn't go day after day without motivation and no purpose. This is what I am facing and living now, after reading this**, I saw an ordinary and valuable person, and I saw a person who has no "regrets", life is like this, now we have gone to college and have grown up healthy. Hopefully I can fill me with confidence.