Wait for you to improve and then praise or praise first and wait for you to improve?

I am learning performance management, and performance management says that you should praise and affirm first, and then wait for you to improve.

First of all, if your hobby is "literature and art, etc.", in a word: don't make literature and art your job.

Then, what to do? Employment first, then employment choice. But don't just have a job, you have to look at the prospects.

Let's start with sales, you can do all of this. But you haven't found a job yet, so you shouldn't be out of sales. Of course, I don't recommend doing sales unless some people like it.

If you are studying engineering, you will directly do technical work. The salary package is put aside first, there are development prospects, and you can do what you can learn. Why? If you have a craft, you can go anywhere.

And if you are majoring in liberal arts, as usual, you can also cope with it by going to a tutoring institution as a teacher. The type of work in the liberal arts, except for sales, management, etc., can be.

It doesn't matter if you like these or not. It's a skill. The basic survival skills we need to master.

Finally, about the question of liking that you are struggling with.

I'll put it this way: maybe it's not that you can't find a job you like, it's that you don't want to work at all. Also, when you work, you will find that you will not like almost all the work. So, you have to think about what you really want in your heart.

I think a lot of the time it's best to make progress based on encouragement.

Because often many times, we lack self-confidence and confidence when doing something, and at this time, we need someone to encourage us, motivate us, tell us that we are right, believe that we are the best, and so on, then I think the possibility of success will be greater.

Because I myself have personal experience, everyone must have experienced the baptism of the college entrance examination, many people will be very nervous on the eve of the college entrance examination, and then have no self-confidence, they will not be able to sleep at night, insomnia. Then at this time, our homeroom teacher has been spending 20 minutes a day to encourage us, I remember a more impressive time, he asked each of us to write down the name of the school we want to fill in the college entrance examination, and then it requires everyone to write, and then he took everyone to write, and then the next day, he spent a special class to show us the ** ah and then the school profile of each school we wrote, and then I remember that at that time it was a school outside the province, and then the head teacher also went to find a lot of **, and then he told us that as long as there is a goal, we will be able to realize our dreams, and be admitted to the ideal university, a better tomorrow is waiting for us, and finally we sang a very exciting song, which is what we do every day, although it is very boring, but it still feels helpful.

So I think that sometimes, encouragement is still a great help for a person, because sometimes the road to work hard is very long, and from time to time we will have doubts and lack of confidence in ourselves, and this time we need encouragement.