What do you get after working for a year? And what is lost?

When I first stepped into the big dye vat of society, I felt that I should be the lotus flower that was not stained by the mud, but later I realized that I was just a white paper close to Zhu and black. So sometimes I think that people are people, and sometimes they think about a lot of things before they grow up, which is very simple and simple. So I think after a year of work, you will find that you seem to have lost a lot of things, but at the same time, you have also gained some seemingly important truths.

After a year of work, I feel that I have lost the impulsive drive I once had, and I feel that the days when I used to be full of energy every day when I was a student are gone, as if all my enthusiasm has been exhausted in just one year, and I am only left with a movable body. I struggled with the reason, and it wasn't until my second year of work that I realized that it wasn't that I had lost my enthusiasm for learning, but that I didn't know how to study and who to ask for advice, and I think that was probably the reason why I was so tired.

Then I'll talk about what I got that year, in fact, I know very well that in the workplace is not in school, colleagues and classmates are not the same, after all, we involve interests and money, so I used to like to share life with others, become introverted and calm, and no longer talk more to others, I think this is what makes me grow, and I think I can deal with and solve many things alone, In the past, you may have to rely on others, but after working, you will become more independent.

College students who have come out of the ivory tower to work is a necessary stage of life and a new starting point in life. After work, you will find that your life will change a lot, and it is very different from you on campus.

First of all, your goal has changed a lot, the task in school is to study, and after meeting the basic problems of eating, lodging, and dressing, you will not spend too much thought in these aspects, and the main problem is how to study, what course do I take, which major direction to develop, what is my future life like, and how do I lay a good foundation for myself during school. Arm yourself well so that you can become stronger when you step out of school and into society.

After actually participating in the work, your previous goals have been basically completed, and you have begun to establish your own new goals, how to complete your work well, how to improve your ability in your industry in the first few years of work, and the goal is to increase your position or salary. Job promotion and the provision of benefits are the main concerns of all recruits.

While working, it is necessary to consider issues such as family, life, and the city where you are settling. Start planning for our later life, start a family or start a business first, buy a house or buy a car first, the reality of life will make us think more about it. At the same time, our lives will also change a lot, and the things I encounter will be varied, no longer as simple as in school, there are things we like, and there are things we don't like.

Many things we can't accept and always want to rise up and resist, and finally find that resistance is meaningless, because there are many things in society that we have not been exposed to, and the first thing we have to do is to adapt to this society, this work that is being done, and change is something that can only be done after I am strong enough.

No matter what we wait for or what we lose, it is a life experience that will make us more and more mature and more rational.

I have learned a lot of experience in my work, let me meet a lot of excellent people, let me have a very good income and social status, I have lost the opportunity to be with my family, rarely spend time with my parents, and I feel very indebted.

Gained experience, lost illusions.

I was paid and had the experience that kept me going. But I lost my hair, and I was so stressed at work.

This year I got love and met my lover, but I also lost my health and lost my job. Overall, it's not particularly good.

Frankly, it was gained, and it was lost, and everything needs to be started all over again!