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Every pair of lovers has their own mode of getting along, love and be loved can not care about how to be fair, people who love more are always used to giving more, and those who are loved are also used to accepting each other's good, and even take it for granted.
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In a love relationship, there is no absolute equality, either you love him a little more, or he loves you a little more. Obviously, in this relationship, you love him more, so you will feel tired, because people are selfish and always want the same return, whether it is investment or emotional, people are like this! Deal with this kind of relationship, if you covet his excellence, you can only be wronged, if you are tired of such contributions, you can only leave him and find a man who loves you more!
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It's the sense of self that's wrong, because everyone understands and expresses love differently. Some men think that love has been basically stable after falling in love, so they are more willing to devote their energy to work and other aspects, enjoy their alone time more, don't like to stick together, and are more willing to face various affairs independently, which is the withdrawal type, but some women, the longer they get along with men, the more emotionally invested they are, and they are gradual, so these two types of people are easy to cause estrangement and misunderstanding in their feelings.
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It's good that you think about your boyfriend, but you can't give yourself endlessly, and you should get your boyfriend's reward so it's good, it's not that everything needs to be reciprocated, but it's not your obligation to pay for him.
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As the legend goes, "Those who are favored always have nothing to fear" means this. In the process of dating boyfriends and girlfriends, both parties will need each other's sense of approval and care. Once one partner is out of balance, it will cause dissatisfaction with the other party, until there is a rift in the relationship.
For me, it's understandable that your boyfriend ignores your feelings.
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I think it may be that you spoil him with this state of mind that takes him as fresh in everything, and I think that if you take her as an immortal in everything, then he will have a kind of not taking your good seriously, and then he will ignore you.
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It is because you take him as the main thing in everything, and he feels that everything is taken for granted, and it is your own volition, and he has a sense of superiority, so he will naturally ignore you and don't care about you.
It's not that I don't care about you.
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