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It's not a matter of how to think about it, some of it is really forced by life.
In recent years, the country has vigorously expanded its enrollment, and college students are everywhere, and there are 2 million college students graduating every year in the country, and the employment form is very severe.
Their marriage conditions are too high, and for them, it is enough to be able to arrange a job.
After graduation, there are many paths for college students, and they can take various certificates to lay a certain foundation for their future work; You can go to graduate school, but I personally think it's an escape, and it may also be a habit, after all, after finishing college, these people have been studying for 16 years. However, they did not take into account that after graduating from graduate school, the form of employment would change greatly; You can also take the civil service exam, but after all, civil service is not a job that everyone can be suitable for. In contrast, for girls, finding a good in-law and arranging a slightly decent job in a certain company is also a means.
In a patriarchal society, they are also using the youth and beauty of the past 10 years to compromise their future. It's just an easier way to get into society.
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Man dies! Birds die for food! This is the truth, and remember!
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There is no sin, but if it is too much, it is morally unpassable.
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Be legally innocent and do not violate the law.
But morality is not allowed, and people's ideological realm should be noble.
But if people don't love money and don't lust, then our society is still in a primitive society. It is precisely because of greed and laziness that human beings continue to progress.
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There is no sin in loving money, and there is no sin in graduating and getting married, but from the beginning, I wanted to find someone who would make money with a car, a house and a hukou, so there were some unhealthy thoughts, at least not pure Aijie.
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There is no sin, for women love money.
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Answer: In today's society, everyone loves money.
There are people who abide by the gentleman's love of money and take it in the right way.
Some people love money and do not hesitate to take risks.
There are those who sell their bodies and souls for gain.
Some people even killed people and set fires to get rich.
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Of course not, it's just a manifestation of a woman's mind that depends on the man.
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Women love it, but the difference is whether they only love money.
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It is a prerequisite that the material foundation is guaranteed.
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As the saying goes, a gentleman loves money and takes it in a good way.
With the development of society, women's sense of independence is getting stronger and stronger, and women also love money, and the degree of love for money is not inferior to men, and even more than men.
Women's almost crazy pursuit of money really scares some men, they can't understand, obviously money men will earn, they will support the family, why do girls still try to make money, save money, hide money?
In fact, in the final analysis, it is still because: insecurity.
In ancient times, women could not go out and show their faces, could not work independently, and relied entirely on men for their survival, so they could only rely on men. If the conditions of her mother's family are not good, and the man she marries is unreliable, then this woman basically has no way to live.
Today's era is the best era, women can hold up half the sky, can go out to work independently, and can choose not to marry.
Nowadays, there is a saying: Relying on the mountains will fall, relying on everyone will run, or relying on yourself is the most reliable.
The marriage is long, you don't know which day it will come to an end, and the man who once swore to you and promised to love you only one person doesn't know which day he will break his vow.
In the past, the inequality between men and women has been smoothed out, and whoever paid for the property right before marriage will belong to whomever you want, even if you add your name after marriage, when you divorce, it is very likely that you will not be able to share a dime and leave the house.
Thinking about this, it's still quite cruel and realistic.
So, that's why more and more women are saving up to buy a house before marriage, or not getting married. It's not that they don't want to get married, it's that reality is too cruel for them.
If you want to protect your own interests and survive on your own, there is only one way to go: work hard to earn money.
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Today is the Qixi Festival, Xiaojie gave a slightly expensive bracelet, I was very excited to tell Xiaoyang As a result, Xiaoyang said, you are a woman who loves money
And he said, But you love rich men
I said, I love rich men, just as you love beautiful women, men are lustful, women love money, it's just that everyone cares about different things as long as it's moderate
In today's society, as long as a woman is with a rich man, she will be talked about by others, and even said that she is worthless I wondered, does love only belong to the poor?Is it true that a girl is in love with a very poor man?Don't rich people love money?
It's inexplicable
Xiaoyang, you like beautiful girls just as much as you do, you have a beautiful girlfriend now, and you put her ** in your phone all day long and show it off in front of me, don't you?
I'm not here to encourage girls to become money worshippers, and I'm not a money worshipper
Just this year, during the Spring Festival, I went to Shenzhen, where a man who drove a Mercedes-Benz chased me for half a month, he drove me to his villa, to see his garden, he was very proud to walk through Huizhou City, and then said to me, half of the property in this city belongs to my name, and he took me to the best restaurant there to eat
But I still said to him indifferently, I have a boyfriend, our relationship is very good, I can't accept you
I calmly said to my cousin, I don't know how rich he is, I just know that I have my own boyfriend in Chengdu, I love him, and he treats me very well
Actually, there is a degree to everything, I admit that I also love money, and I will be ecstatic because my boyfriend gives me something, but the premise is that this man I love him, and I will accept what he gives me For things that don't belong to me, I don't want them
I also said to Xiaojie that any girl is realistic, including me When I don't know you, I will care if you have a car, whether you have a house, and how much your annual salary is, because material is the foundation, I have to care But, we are together, maybe ten years have passed, years have passed, even if you don't have the current wealth, you don't have the current health, but I will still follow you Because we have had a relationship for so many years, I will help you without any care, because this is based on years of affection But I'm not going to say to a guy at the beginning that I don't care about your finances, I only care if you're good to me and I think that's hypocritical
A lot of girls say at the very beginning, I don't care if a man has money or not, as long as he treats me well
A woman should have her own independent economy, and she should also find an excellent man to enter her own sky, and retreat to have a man to support a safe haven for you
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