Urgent High School Friendship Problems High School Student Communication Problems

You say that there is no common language, then you try to listen carefully to what they are talking about, and if you happen to be familiar with this field, talk to them, talk to them, or go out to play basketball together, and even you can create opportunities to "make mistakes" with them, so that they will agree with you a little bit in their hearts: this kid is with us all the way.

Regarding you saying that you don't have a "girl's relationship", hehe, don't think too much. Girls have different tastes, and the men they appreciate will also be different. Some people like to be deep, some people like to be intimate, and some people like to be funny.

As for how to increase your sense of humor, first of all, you must read more books, even memorize more books, memorize those essences, and then, find an opportunity to show off, it will definitely make people's eyes shine.

Hehe, everyone is reluctant to take a step forward in a new environment, but psychologically they are not averse to making friends, as long as you are willing to take the initiative

As for the sense of humor, some people are born with it, and if you are not born by nature, then you can only rely on reading more extracurricular books Given that you are in high school right now, it is better to have more Western literature

1.Participate in more group activities, have self-confidence, know how to express yourself with humor, and enhance everyone's good impression of yourself.

3.More for the collective and the weak, such as girls, do some help o ( o Over time, there will be more friends.

For example, if everyone likes to play 3C, you can get together to play with them, and after playing for a long time, you will have a sense of belonging.

Read more books. Communication. It is recommended that you stay with those gangsters for a few months. You're going to learn a lot, and that's something you don't learn in class. Be bold and dare to speak.

In fact, if you want everyone to accept you, you must first accept yourself, don't care too much about your appearance, be sincere to people, no matter who it is, you must be sincere, followed by humor, don't be too serious and calculating, as for humor, you can figure it out yourself, I can't tell.

Hello, this is a troublesome question, but please don't feel anything, because there are many people who will be like you, first of all, I think you should have more contact with more familiar people, you have to think about what kind of state you are in front of your parents, relatives, and your parents are your closest people, you should be more like yourself in front of them, talk to your parents more during meals, and also say something more happy and humorous, and secondly, it's okay to get along with your classmates at school, everyone is the same age, you just need to show your most authentic self It's not difficult to blend in with everyone They joke and sometimes it's really not funny But you have to know that it's not a laugh But it's not a compliment It's just a way to express your feelings Don't feel that talking to others will make a mistake Just say it boldly As for the gangster students are actually very righteous I study well as a girl I used to have a good relationship with the boys who often fought in our class when I was in high school Try to be yourself I believe you come on!

I was worse than you in high school.

Everyone has growing pains, and there are a lot of problems on the way to growth, and in my opinion, your problems are normal.

You should be a sensitive personality, and many writers, politicians, artists, and actors are this kind of personality.

You can read more books on social interactions, there are many of them on the market now, and reading them will help you.

I think sensitive people should participate in more physical exercise, which I am, which can increase your self-confidence and strengthen your resistance to external pressure.

Don't worry too much, it'll get better!

Dry, don't think too much, just think of something in your head, don't hurt others, if you want to talk more, you have to know more, know more, the so-called well-informed, you can interject what others say, it's OK, don't know, just listen, if it's useful, write it down. Look, hear, ask, do what he likes, and he can deal with anything.

Talk to yourself in the mirror first, and then take the initiative to say hello to people you know, whether it is your parents and other relatives, or you can talk to very good friends, and talk to them about the interesting things and some embarrassing experiences that happened to you on campus. I got used to it slowly, and I was not afraid to talk to strangers.

First of all, you have a good character, which refers to your thinking and morality, to be kind, tolerant, not too honest, your grades should be good, so that others will look up to you, so that many people will find you friends.

But if you don't get good grades, you should have a special talent that makes you stand out in the crowd (for example, if I'm a middle school student and I play badminton very well, someone wants to play with me).

But if you don't have special talents, then you have to be handsome, be cool, and make others envy you.

If you are not handsome, then you should be eloquent and learn to have a good relationship with your classmates and teachers.

If your eloquence is not good, then you have to have money in the family, but you have to keep a low profile, so that others think that you are a big money and come to slap you.

If you don't have any of that, then you have to rely on ......It's fate!

You can make friends at any time.

In a person's life, they will make different friends at different times, and some are friends who know each other for a lifetime.

High school is certainly no exception. And making good friends who love to learn is also very helpful for my high school studies, so why not?

However, if you have friends of the opposite sex, you need to think about it. If you only stay at the stage of making friends and improving each other, there is no need to worry at all; But if you treat your relationship with friends of the opposite sex as an obsessive relationship, it even rises to a romance. Due to the incomplete understanding of sexuality during the student period, and the influence of the obscured sexual consciousness on the movement of the human body, it will bring you unnecessary trouble.

High school is the period of accumulation of knowledge in life, and the accumulation of knowledge for the happiness of a lifetime, so your main energy should be focused on learning, even if it is to make friends, it should also be helpful to your own learning.

I wish you all the best, all your wishes come true, make friends, and be happy for a lifetime!

Communicate boldly, not afraid of no friends.

The lack of communication boils down to two reasons: (EQ problem).

1.Those classmates are not good at expressing themselves;

2.You are not good at expressing yourself;

When your classmates are not good at expressing themselves, you should take the initiative and talk to them about the topics you are interested in, so as to attract their attention and empathy, and by extension, to discuss with each other.

When you are not good at expression, but you want to integrate into the topic of your classmates, then you should make more articles in your usual life and learn more about the relevant knowledge and information of the topics that your classmates are discussing, so that when they are expressing, you can express your own opinions, so as to extend the mutual **, which is the so-called chat.

Of course, all of the above is based on the fact that you are happy to socialize with these students, or you have to socialize with them for some reason. But as the saying goes, don't speculate more than half a sentence.

A person who is good at expressing himself, no matter who he talks to, can talk openly, even if he finishes talking, he doesn't treat the other party as a friend; Therefore, there are always some students who are very "versatile" in the eyes of others, and they can talk to anyone, which is his high EQ and will be in society in the future, which is also a skill.

People who are not sociable will suffer more, so you should consider it a kind of exercise......Being able to attract the attention of friends with your own topic is also a kind of skill Ahem, pay attention, it is a healthy topic

Don't be trapped in your small social area, although there is a lot of contact with good friends, but you can also use physical education class time to communicate more during group activities, boys, basketball or something, everything is easy to say.

Maybe you don't know the rest of the class well. No one is going to dig out their hearts and lungs in the first place, and it takes time. Friendship needs to be managed, and it can't be achieved all at once. Take your time and bless you.

Not very familiar with each other, let go of the boundaries in your heart, open your heart and communicate with others, there will still be topics, bless you.

It's easier to get in touch with others, often ask out to play, and care more about each other.

Hello, it's an honor to solve this problem for you. I'm the same age as you, and I have some opinions about making friends, so please forgive me if you have any differences!

1. You should have confidence in yourself, so that you become cheerful and sunny, after all, this is more conducive to getting along with others (suggestion: look at the jokes more, don't be too cold, and talk about the atmosphere when necessary).

2. Get along with others: respect (very important), be friendly, and let go of yourself (don't expose your introversion, you will have to change this sooner or later).

3. A hundred bad friends are not as good as one bad friend. You need to train a pair of discerning eyes to know who you should be deep and who you can't, such as those who are doing things like ghosts all day long, but you can't deny them because of this, after all, they may still have a skill, just respect them.

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No, you're going to be a naughty boy, you won't be able to find someone as introverted as you to get along with, and it's not a blind date. Boys, just do what they like, you should be bold to get to know them, and let them know you. Like playing basketball, it's very simple, and if you play one game, you know each other.

Be bold, you can't always do it all the way.

Summary. High school classmates social relationship refers to the mode and relationship with classmates, as well as the degree of friendship with classmates, in high school, you can meet a lot of sincere friends, you must cherish this good time.

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High school classmates social relationship refers to the mode and relationship with classmates, as well as the degree of friendship with classmates, in high school, you can meet a lot of sincere friends, you must cherish this good time.

You can ignore this completely, because if other people's actions really affect you, the purpose of others will be achieved, just be yourself.

Then I will live in the dormitory, they don't pay attention to me, I talk and laugh, what should I do?

Then I will live in the dormitory, they don't pay attention to me, I talk and laugh, what should I do?

Just do your own thing, and you can ignore them.

They look at me with a smile, deliberately isolate me, show me, deliberately target me, they look at me with a smile, deliberately isolate me, show me, deliberately target me, you don't care about these practices, the other party can't achieve the goal, they will automatically give up, just keep this indifferent relationship, to be honest, you don't have to do anything to keep it, but you will be very tired.

I arrived in a new class, there was a junior high school classmate I knew, I didn't know her well, but I could talk, she had a lot of friends, I asked her to eat with her at noon, and the other one didn't go, I was afraid that I would become a third party.

I arrived in a new class, there was a junior high school classmate I knew, I didn't know her well, but I could talk, she had a lot of friends, I asked her to eat with her at noon, and the other one didn't go, I was afraid that I would become a third party.

This won't be ha, everyone can eat together, that classmate didn't go, he has his own business, it's not because of you.