How freshmen should get along

Then be natural, just like when you first came to the new high school, take out your optimism, simplicity, and simplicity, and do your best, and I am also a member of the propaganda committee or the vice president of the student union in charge of publicity. First of all, you need to find out what your classmates like, and this is a good opportunity to communicate with them. Then take their opinion into account when arranging the event and ask them if it's okay to do so.

The last event is also your first event, as long as you do it well and get everyone's approval. That's it, huh.

College is like this, and some relationships are still quite tricky.

If you also have the talent for acting, don't hesitate to join the ranks of performers and lead by example to drive everyone's enthusiasm.

Honest! Initiative and enthusiasm.

First impressions matter.

Many people are full of ambition when they first enter college, and they plan to do a big job in college. But slowly, many people became decadent, went with the flow, played with everyone every day, forgot their mission to enter the university, and mistook this place for a playground. It wasn't until I was unemployed after graduation that I regretted it and beat my chest.

So, it's important to remember that college isn't a place to get by, and there's so much to do here.

When you first enter college, you must make a plan for yourself, maybe not too specific, but you must obey this plan and take life seriously.

In addition, you also need to learn to socialize with people in school, learn to get along with people you don't like, and learn to make friends with people who are very capable.

It has to be attractive, it has to be something different, and I've had experiences like yours.

After going from high school to college, I will meet more people than I have met before, so it is very important to get along with people, and some of the references are as follows

1. Respect the different habits of different ethnic groups, the university will contact people of various nationalities, and do not shout that they can have opinions on others because of the different customs of their own ethnic groups.

2. Face life positively and be friendly to others.

3. Pay attention to personal hygiene at all times and abandon bad habits.

4. Actively participate in school activities.

5. Always smile at acquaintances and strangers.

Psychoanalysis: I'm Honlin, I understand your feelings very well, and when I was a freshman, I had a similar feeling of excitement and anxiety. Hug you!

Talk to friends and family you trust and tell them about your anxieties, and they are likely to understand you, encourage you, and give you some advice. Especially old classmates, you may have a similar mood, you will find that you are not alone in the "battle", I believe you will have more strength to face the challenges of the new environment. 2.

Take the initiative to communicate and even ask for help: You can take the initiative to introduce yourself to your roommates and classmates, go to dinner, get hot water, run, go to class, etc., or take the initiative to consult some problems in daily life or study, and constantly shorten the distance between each other through communication. This is known as the Franklin effect, which increases interpersonal attraction by making requests.

People who have helped you once will be more willing to do you another favor than those you have helped" In other words, if you want someone to like you, it may be easier to ask them to do you a favor. 3.Share hometown specialties:

If you have brought hometown specialties, you can invite your roommates to taste them together, so as to chat about their hometowns and enhance their understanding of each other. If you don't bring it, when you go out shopping, you can also bring more snacks and share them with your roommates, which can enhance your roommates' favorability towards you. 4.

5.Do a good job in college life planning: accept your emotions, reduce anxiety, take some time to plan your college career, take your own path step by step, keep yourself busy, I believe it will also enhance your sense of strength.

Hope it helps, good luck before the branches!

When you fall in love for the first time in college, you should pay attention to the following points:

1. Don't have too much hope and expectation for this relationship, because the greater the expectation of the other person, the greater the disappointment. And I don't have to express my feelings to her Hongxun, because it may be a kind of pressure for the other party.

2. Keep your distance, because sometimes there will really be some unnecessary suspicion and suspicion. And once this happens, it's hard to dissipate.

3. Don't focus on falling in love, there are more important things to do in college. A girl won't change her heart because of how much you love her. She needs to see that you have advantages that others don't have, which can be appearance, experience, and grades.

4. Don't have too many lies, paper can't contain fire.

Lies can silence the other person again and again, but this is only a stopgap measure after all. The most important thing for couples to get along with each other is trust, so you don't want to consume this trust again and again.

5. Love is unfair, the more you give, the less you may gain, the less you will be valued, and the less you will be cherished.

What you can't get is always disturbed, but what is favored is fearless. Personal experience, when you fall in love in college, don't devote yourself to it, but also allocate a considerable part of your energy and time to study, otherwise you may lose your wife and lose your soldiers in the end.

6. Don't share all the stories as soon as you come up.

During the period of love, the most important thing is the common language, which is the so-called topic. If you finish all the words in your heart at the beginning because you are too excited and excited, you will definitely have nothing to say in the end. And once there is no common topic between the two, they can only stare at each other with wide eyes, and they are not far from breaking up.

In the end, I can only sigh emptyly: if life is only like this first sight, what is the autumn wind and sad fan.

1. Learning attitude:

As the main force who has just adapted to college life, college life is completely different from high school society, there is no parental advice here, no teacher nagging. Perhaps the biggest challenge for freshman year is to correct one's attitude towards university learning and position oneself. Take responsibility for your own university studies.

2. Mentality: Everyone has a beautiful vision of college, and most people are very motivated when they first enter college. But gradually, due to the surrounding environment, many people will slowly forget their original intention of going to college, and depravity and chaos are very common in college.

3. Low social adaptability

There is a difference between school and society, and from graduation to employment, it is like the weaning period of a baby. Parents and teachers are cared for and protected at school, but you need to be independent when you enter the workplace. One of the important reasons why some companies are indifferent to fresh graduates is that recent college graduates lack work experience and life experience, and they are slow to change roles.

If you want to develop smoothly in the workplace, you need to continuously improve your good adaptability, such as establishing and strengthening your professional role awareness, adjusting your life rules, improving the intelligent structure of your professional position as soon as possible, and establishing good interpersonal relationships.

4. Job search skills need to be improved urgently

At present, college students' job search skills are generally low, on the one hand, they are very vague about what they want to do, and on the other hand, they do not grasp the secret of job hunting, that is, to solve it"What can I do"、"I want to do it in **"with"How to get it"These three major questions. Improving job search skills, mastering core job search skills and gaining effective action are the most important courses that college students need to make up for at the moment.

5. Career development has no direction:

Many students hold it when they first enter college"The freshman and sophomore years were easy, and the juniors and seniors worked hard"The lack of scientific planning for their future development often becomes an important reason why they feel helpless in the face of employment pressure. The current career choice is related to the development in a few years, so it is necessary to be guided by career planning, be sure to do a good job in career positioning, and determine the direction and goal of job search as soon as possible.

As college students, we do have some problems with our parents. We are all different individuals with different ideas. It's normal for us to have conflicts with each other.

There are many people who think that "parents who invade their own space and privacy", "work and rest habits, hygiene habits, and study habits are always interesting by parents", "the concept is different, each wants to change the other, but can't do it, and speaks loudly", "close enough to each other, but I don't know how to reduce the psychological distance", I believe that this is the most common problem between college students and their parents. I have a few suggestions for this.

First, take a positive pause and accept the emotion. When there is a conflict with a parent and emotions run high, perhaps the most effective way is to say "let's calm down and talk" and leave the scene immediately to avoid the escalation of negative emotions and conflict. If it is inconvenient to leave the room where the conflict is due to space constraints, you can also close your eyes and take a few deep breaths to help yourself stabilize your mood quickly.

After all, only a return to reason can help solve the problem. It is normal to be in the context of negative emotions such as conflict, anger, grievance, powerlessness, etc. We should accept them instead of struggling with our emotions and causing unnecessary internal friction.

Second, empathy. We need to put ourselves in the shoes of our parents, understand each other, and see what we have in common with our parents, such as the common characteristics or common goals behind the conflict. For the sake of our parents.

They are the ones who love us the most, and they just want us to be better.

Third, active communication and mutual understanding. We can use nonviolent communication skills to better express our heartfelt needs, build partnerships, and further enhance mutual understanding. We can consciously share our stories with parents, invite them to help us, and make them feel a sense of value for their children.

They may not be able to meet their own inner needs and make us feel like our privacy has been violated. Sometimes we can express our needs directly to our parents, such as "I wish I could have an independent space, I hope you can put the door before you enter, if I promise, you didn't push the door directly when you open it," and it would be better for the parents to directly say "You can respect my privacy".

Fourth, grow up with your parents. Sometimes we find that even if we try to communicate, sometimes we may not be able to convince our parents to change their thoughts or behaviors, because each person's thought form has its own background, which requires us to respect each other's thoughts and behaviors, consciously strengthen the boundaries with our parents' models, and actively accept their current situation. If we want our parents to give us more space, we should take good care of ourselves and take more responsibility for ourselves.

It is unfair that we cannot expect our parents to provide us with the care we want, to have them respect our thoughts and feelings as adults.

I want everyone to be in harmony with their parents, after all, they are really nice to us and don't hurt their hearts.

College life can be a time of variety, challenge and opportunity. Here are some tips to help you have a good college life:

1.Academics: Putting your studies first. Take every course seriously and complete assignments and projects on time. Actively participate in class discussions and activities, and build good academic relationships with professors and classmates.

2.Balance your studies and interests: In addition to your studies, you should also find time to pursue your interests and participate in campus activities. Enrich your university life by participating in clubs, clubs, student organizations, or volunteer projects.

4.Establish good study habits: Develop good study habits such as reviewing regularly, participating in class discussions, taking notes, and actively participating in reading outside of class. Establish good academic relationships with professors and classmates, learn from each other and share experiences.

5.Connect with your classmates: Take the initiative to connect and communicate with your classmates, participate in social activities and group learning. Make like-minded friends and support and encourage each other to spend your college years together.

6.Seek support and help: Don't hesitate to seek support and help if you have learning difficulties or personal problems. Sun Zhen can seek advice and guidance from professors, counselors, classmates, or the school's academic counseling center.

7.Health management: Maintain a healthy lifestyle that includes a good diet, adequate sleep, and moderate exercise. Participate in physical activity, fitness activities, or join a sports team to keep your body healthy and energized.

8.Exploring opportunities and challenges: College is a stage full of opportunities and challenges, with active participation in various activities and projects. Constantly develop your skills and experience by trying new areas, participating in competitions, applying for scholarships or internships, and more.

9.Plan your finances and personal goals: Create a financial plan and plan your income and expenses wisely. At the same time, it is also necessary to set personal goals, including academic, professional, and personal growth goals, to lay the foundation for future development.

10.Enjoy college life: Enjoy college life while pursuing academic achievement. Participate in campus events, social gatherings, and cultural events to make new friends and create wonderful memories and life experiences.

The most important thing is to maintain a positive mindset and confidence in yourself. University life is a time of challenge and opportunity, and with proper planning, active participation, and hard work, you will be able to live a rich and meaningful university life.