What should I do, I m so at a loss!! 20

Is your family treating you badly?Also, why are you talking about your boyfriend so scary?!Really?If you break up like this, you can still live with him.

Independence depends on yourself, you can work and study at the same time, it is better not to live with him. You are not necessarily destined to be with him in this life, and if he respects you and likes you, he will not treat you badly. But you are still young, and you must learn to support yourself and then consider whether you can be together, which happens to be a test for you.

Remember not to rely on others, rely on yourself, find a place to work, preferably formal. Allow yourself to learn some survival skills in your spare time, which I think is much better than if you were together. You're still young, and if he's tired of being with you, I think you'll be more miserable.

So be sure to live independently!You can do it!Because there is only what you can't think of, and there is nothing you can't do.

There are always more solutions than problems!I hope you are doing well!

Cut through the mess quickly, whether he is important or your future is important. Loving someone is to give people a sense of security, not to make you panic and panic!

My opinion is considered in combination with the views of the fourth and fifth floors

Do what you want to do!If your boyfriend really likes you, he will support you (but listen to your description, if he's not reliable, leave as soon as possible...).And you want to be independent and show that you've grown up and that your parents will understand you.

Love and bread are hard to choose. Deep down you should already have the answer.

I think you are very anxious now, you have to be a little more free and easy, you can also be with him and learn at the same time, it depends on how you do it, the road is to walk on your own, and it is necessary to lose something while getting it, I suggest doing what you should do, doing what you want to do, and doing things that you will not regret.

You don't have to leave the house to be independent, it's the same at home, you help your parents with some things, take care of them, do you do housework every day?Do you deal with some of the little things at home such as the mess of utility bills Do you earn enough money for your own expenses Can you save a little Some don't underestimate these little things If you want to be independent, you will encounter these and even more Do it first and think about the rest.

First of all, you have to position your love. If you don't go out, break up, just imagine that he loves you, or because of desire. It is very open to the current society. But there are some things that you still have to keep for yourself. Home is a place of peace of mind.