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Hey, children's shoes, you're the same as I was in high school, how to say it, I should say it's not a study material, and the willpower is weak, just like me. If you are capable, you can do it, you don't go to college, you don't have a diploma, you can mix it up yourself. If you don't feel that you are particularly capable, then you need to pay attention.

If you miss a good university, then the first thing is a matter of willpower, think about the way to exercise willpower, but this thing is really difficult to implement, for example, exercise every morning, run in the morning, this must be a way to exercise willpower, if you can do it and persevere, then congratulations, you are not far from success, after a long time, it is not a problem to insist on learning. But like me, although I know this method, but I can't always take this step, morning jogging, as long as you really do it, it's easy to persevere, the key is the first time. I didn't have the willpower, and I didn't bother to run for the first time.

If you can't do it, then you can only try to make yourself learn something, get a junior college, and find a job in the future.

Three days of fishing, two days of drying nets, you can't do anything. Learning is not only knowledge, but also perseverance.

Besides, what else can you do now besides studying, you don't have to think about good times, housework, and finances, and don't put your mind down to do your essential work now. You're going to really regret it.

You only have a pedal in your life when you are admitted to university, and learning relationships is not your thing, you have to remember that "today is always tomorrow that those who died yesterday look forward to".

You really know that it is difficult to make money when you go out of the society, you have to think about your parents so hard for you to study, for what, to get ahead, have you thought about your parents, are you worthy of her, is she a lot older, is her hands and feet not as flexible as before, her hope is pinned on **, that is, you don't think about your future, but also for the sake of your parents

Life must have goals and plans, you are not a mental illness, human nature: lazy; Do a good job, kid, it's a pity not to go to college!

You're overthinking it's obviously an unrealistic idea. I also had this idea when I was in the hospital, my dad came to see me once a week, and I was so eager to see him, so I had the idea that "dad will have a car accident, will there be an accident", in fact, we have a serious insecurity in our hearts, because once something happens to our parents, we are in a difficult situation. So afraid.

To solve this heart disease, you should try to improve your sense of security It is necessary to make a few close friends, talk to friends more, communicate more with parents, enrich your life, and go out to play. Wait a minute.

From the perspective of obsessive thinking alone: if you know that such thoughts are unnecessary, but you can't stop thinking like this, and you can't control it, this is a typical obsessive thought. Therefore, you should know more about obsessive thoughts, look at the information and cases of obsessive thinking on the Internet, there are many such patients on the Internet.

Look at the experience of others, and go out for a walk! Don't be unable to get out of your narrow thinking, and look at the vast world outside, which has a positive effect on the ** of obsessive thinking. At the center of obsessive thinking is one word:

Afraid". What are you afraid of? I'm afraid that I won't be able to control my thoughts, I'm afraid that I'll have some thoughts that violate ethics and morals, and so on.

The more you are afraid of such thoughts, the more you will appear, and the resulting distress of compulsion. You try to do as much as you can: think less and do more, and when obsessive thinking comes, shift your mind and do something else.

Don't provoke obsessive thoughts when you don't have them. Don't be afraid, it's just pathological thinking, it's uncontrollable, but we can control our behavior and do other things.

Although it is painful and difficult to overcome obsessive thoughts all at once, take your time, read some psychological books, go out and make some friends, and broaden your knowledge.

By increasing the sense of security in your life and coping with obsessive thoughts, you should be able to solve the problem, but it will take time, and this will not be completely fine all at once.

I'm not a psychiatrist, but I know that every child of this age has this kind of psychology to some extent, which is relatively normal. It's good to grow up slowly, it's okay. There are other things you can do to distract yourself from thinking about it.

LZ think more about some happy things, everyone will "die", people in the world just want to live a little more relaxed, don't put too much pressure on yourself, don't think too much, your psychology is just out of dependence on your parents, you are still young, and when you grow up, this psychology will slowly disappear, LZ don't mind too much.

The problem is simple, you're just too young to know how to control your mind.

This also reflects that you are immature in your heart, it's okay, time will dilute everything, you don't care too much.

First of all, what do you think is good? What's bad? You said that you can't coax people, and you feel that you can't do business. First, you don't have any confidence in yourself.

Second, you are relatively introverted. Girls think, take the time to care more about her, even if you can't usually say it, you can say it. There is no need to run away like that.

Okay, for the time being, I don't know if your behavior is evasion, because I haven't been in contact with you, and I don't know what kind of person you are. According to what you said, you don't sleep well, you're tired, you're cranky. That's because you haven't let go of your mind.

Sometimes, let your mood go and find something entertaining. Relax your mind. The landlord, just say this, you ask again for details.