Seeking love master psychiatrist counseling The problem is serious

You've written so much but you haven't written it, what problem do you want everyone to help you solve?

In fact, after reading your experience, it is normal.

I don't think what you can accept is why the person you like is half a beat slower, hehe, that means you're hesitating

But one thing you are right about is that sometimes you don't like this person, but when you force yourself to like her a little bit, you find that the idea will get heavier and heavier, and it will make you addicted

So I think if you really want a successful love now, then you first find a goal, and that goal is something you like, at least something you don't hate. If you find it, you're like, I like him. According to your personality, if you think like this for a while, you will really like this person.

Really, if you don't believe it, you can try it. The next thing is confession, don't hesitate. You have to think about everything, and you have to do everything in the end.

Unless you can avoid something, don't run away from it. If you like him and want to be with him, then you have to confess sooner or later. There's no way around it, it's hard to say, early death and early superbirth.

Don't hesitate to chase it

Also, who says girls with boyfriends can't chase them? You may think I'm immoral when I say this, but that's the way it is, you like him, can you be sure that her current boyfriend can give her happiness? Maybe their union is a mistake, and you are the best person to give her happiness.

Why the Marriage Act? The marriage law is all about telling you that before you get married, anyone can compete on an equal footing.

It's a bit too much, a little mixed with my own experience, I hope it can help you again.

First of all. This girl said that she likes boys with money in the family, I don't think she deserves your nostalgia like this, high school is so realistic, and even more so in the future, if she is with you.

Can you make sure she doesn't run away with the richer?

Wow. See your question at the time. I think it's good to be young. Hehe. I really want to be in the same class as the person I like, this and this way.

Anyway, it's really nice to be able to see each other, to be able to look at each other like this, to look at each other occasionally, to think that she is also looking at me, oh she is not looking at me... So and so ... That's nice. It's really good.

After talking for a long time, I want to say that in fact, your three years will be a very magical part of your life when you think about it in the future. Even if you have someone you like in college, you can boldly confess to her. Graduated.

If I were you, I would say. I'm not you, I also said it, and when I graduated from junior high school, I also said that I liked her to the person I liked. Although there was no result.

Although so many years have passed. But, when I think about it now, I really have to thank him and thank her for the wonderful three years she gave me.

Now let's talk about the main reason why you are so sad to hear that she has a boyfriend is because you didn't catch her. In fact, apples that can't be eaten are always the sweetest. Even if you weren't going to eat the apple, just try to pick her first.

But if you find that it fails, then you must think that this apple really seems to be delicious. There is a saying: what you can never get is the best, the more you want to get it in love, the more you love, the more you love, the more you can't get it, and the more you don't want to get, or what is easy to get, the more you don't want to pay attention to it, I think this is the normal feeling of most people.

Your current situation is the first one, first confirm the goal (it is what you really like, not what others say, or you feel that the other party is interesting to you, you are interesting to her. Remember, it's what you really like and not what you're led by the outside world. This is important!!

2. Carefully investigate (including her personality, temperament, values, whether she has a boyfriend, personal hobbies, and family situation) 3. Don't be afraid, once the first two items are confirmed, you must be bold and ready to fail. Love is inherently consensual. There's nothing to be discouraged from failing.

I believe that you can find the other half that truly belongs to you. At the same time, your previous experience will definitely become your shy but beautiful memory.

Years later, when you have your significant other, look at this question again, and then look at my answer, you will definitely have a new experience.

Your situation is not very serious, but anyone who experiences unrequited love and broken love will be very painful, and some people want to die to seek relief, but many people are afraid of death. However, death will not solve the problem! The key is to find the crux of the problem, you like four girls to varying degrees before and after, but they either have boyfriends, money worship, or lose news, and even have a new love.

I think that your love for them is not deep, and the deepest is also the one in the same class, but unfortunately she has no taste, which breaks your heart, and the one who loses the news is not to mention, your old wounds with another relationship are not long-lasting. And the one two years older than you causes you to be so sad because you have never been able to get the love of others, and the shadow of the past has fallen. Recommendations:

Don't look back in the past, the forest is still green, find the right target, and stick to it!

I don't write as much as they ...

This is quite normal ...

Fate has arrived. Naturally, there is...

I have always believed that fate is destined...

I didn't even look at your problem because it's too long Dizzy What kind of psychological problems I'll sue you like this A man has to learn to adjust his mentality and get an object, just look at you, you are still a long one, it's not that a family doesn't enter a door, two people are happy, a slap doesn't make a sound, have you heard of it, do you want to recover your fighting spirit immediately, or continue to be obsessed and dare to fall by yourself.

I'm dizzy and out of the mood! I'm angry, the consequences are serious, give me a high score as a supplement.

It's okay, you'll understand when you're mature.

Listen to the song "Ten Years".

It's okay. Peace of mind and go with the flow.

You !! First of all, I want to ask you what kind of motivation you are looking for, you are looking for someone, you want to marry her? It's better to play and forget it; If it is the front, then people should live clearly, know what they should do, what kind of wife they should find, don't say whose object is like this, remember to find a suitable one for themselves is the best, find a beautiful object, be good at finding those who are not beautiful, don't confess easily, but when you find what you really like and is really suitable for yourself, don't wait, find a good time to confess, a good place, confess to her, she is unwilling, don't give up easily, if she has a boyfriend, don't give up, Because now that you have a competitive goal, you can be better than her, better than him, remember that when a man meets someone he likes, he must not give up easily, otherwise you may regret it!!

Since you love someone, then really confess to her, I think liking and loving are not the same. If you love someone, you will definitely have the courage to go straight to her and confess to her, and have you ever wondered why you like her? Is it just because of appearances?

Think about it calmly, is it love or love? This hazy feeling will lead you to the wrong place, think about it calmly, okay?

Summary. Dear, this is a sign of valuing each other.

Suffering from gains and losses in love, insecurity.

Always suspicious. Dear, this is a sign of valuing each other.

Communicate with him in advance to prevent him from thinking about various problems. If you tell him afterwards, he will feel that he is not important in your heart; If you have something to do or don't have time to pay attention to him, you must go to him after work and explain clearly to him what you did and why you didn't reply to him before, because he will be very anxious when he can't contact you.

This is a classic manifestation of insecurity. When an insecure person falls in love, he will have a lot of worries, and he will also be afraid that the other party will leave him, and then the whole person will appear to be in a state of gain and loss. The main problem here is the cognitive system, and this cognitive formation either comes from the original family of childhood, or from the emotional experience of the past.

Take the case of the formation of the family of origin, in childhood, children will find that some adults take care of them indifferently and often inconsistently, and their guardians are sometimes very enthusiastic, sometimes absent-minded, and anxious and rarely appear in front of the child. These children will develop cold and complicated feelings for others, because they do not know when their guardians will come back to protect them, and the children will become nervous and overly dependent, showing excessive demands for others.

Psychologists can be in love just like everyone else, but there are some professional and ethical norms they need to follow to ensure that their actions do not interfere with their work.

First, psychologists need to make sure that they are not in a romantic or other inappropriate relationship with the patient to avoid creating moral, professional, and legal problems. This is because the relationship between the psychiatrist and the patient is one of a professional and professional nature, not a romantic one.

Also, if a psychologist wants to be in a relationship with someone else, they need to consider the impact or consequences that the relationship may have on their work. As a result, some psychologists may choose to avoid or have intimacy with the patient to better protect themselves and the patient.

In conclusion, psychologists have love lives like everyone else, but they need to be careful about how to manage their emotions and behaviors in order to follow professional and ethical norms and protect their own interests and those of their patients.

Modern society advocates the freedom of love, and there is nothing that psychologists can't say that they can't like their patients. As long as both parties are unmarried and both are adults, then there is nothing unattainable.

Sometimes the psychiatrist and his or her predecessors become a couple or even a couple, which can better solve the problems of mental patients. This is because the relationship between a patient and a doctor is not as close as that between a couple or a couple. The relationship between a couple or a husband and wife can just solve the estranged relationship between the psychologist and the patient, so as to better solve the psychological problem for the patient.

But the reality often has too many changes, that is, many times the psychiatrist or the patient already has a boyfriend and girlfriend, or one of the parties is married, if the doctor and the patient have feelings for each other, then it is equivalent to betraying their lover or marrying blindly.

Therefore, as long as both the psychiatrist and the patient are single and unmarried, there is nothing wrong with liking each other.

Hello: Love is two-sided, by no means one party keeps giving and the other party keeps enjoying paying, what you say about his kindness to you, in my opinion, is just some small things, but in the big event of your miscarriage, I don't see him take responsibility, and I don't even want to apologize.

There's a sentence in your description: "When no one takes me in, he says, 'Come here.'"

You classify this as his kindness to you, girl, don't you think it's ridiculous? He will only call you when no one takes you in.

On the other hand, there are your own reasons for this, you live too without self, on your boyfriend's side, you are a part of his life, but in your case, he is a big part of your life, if not the whole thing. You can go to a strange city to find him, but he can not come to pick you up, and he can not call a ** customer service, because you can do it yourself! Girl, if a woman has no ego for love, then the other party can easily form the posture of a [enjoyer], you can pay a lot for him without asking for anything in return, and he buys you a flower, some fun and delicious food, but it becomes a [rare gift] for you.

Having said so much, it doesn't mean that you have to break up, if you want to go on with him, you must first live a little self, in a word: [With a boyfriend, you can be sweet and happy, without a boyfriend, you can be independent], don't turn yourself into a pure giver, and don't "habitually" become a enjoyer, both parties respect each other, admire each other, each is independent, loyal to each other, take responsibility for each other, care for each other, this is healthy, can be a long-term love.

In short, his performance is not worthy of your love, give up, college students should have this kind of consciousness.