How to deal with greedy and selfish old people?

Greedy and selfish old man, he is not saying how greedy and selfish he is, he is because he was poor in the past, and he raised the old man into a kind of old man who is particularly good at living is poor and afraid of him, but if you are a rich person, you can be greedy and selfish to this kind of greedy and selfish person, it doesn't matter, some of your charity, if you are a poor person, you can not give him the greed that he doesn't have, don't live with the old man.

In fact, you yourself have already got to the point, the key is to understand, if he doesn't understand you, he will judge you indiscriminately, which makes you very uncomfortable, but do you understand him, your evaluation of him and what he should do, and why should he follow you. Think more about empathy, think about the reasons why he did this, communicate more, follow his ideas and ideas, let him realize the harm of his own actions, and he will consciously correct it. In addition, don't feel that you have a word, the other party has to go into the heart, you can say one thing from multiple angles and many aspects, and repeat one thing gently, as long as he is not disgusted, he can always listen to it if he listens more, character development is a matter of decades, and don't think that a sentence will change a person, more patience and perseverance.

Don't say bad things about him in front of others, no matter what he does to his face, it will make him very faceless, if a person makes you feel very faceless, will you be willing to do what he says?

Good morning, friend, about how to deal with greedy and selfish old people? Originally, the old people are respectable and filial, because they are old, but for this kind of old people, we should use a method to communicate with them, communicate more, tell each other their thoughts, change their greed and selfishness, and re-understand themselves, so that their lives, the life of the sunset, are better.

Such old people are very stubborn and should not be easy to change, it is not a way for you to think about how to deal with them all day long, it is better to stay away, less contact, less meeting, and fewer contradictions.

It's easy to stay away from him and let him feel the feeling of being isolated and helpless. Or ask your local neighborhood committee or village committee for help and ask them to mediate for you.

It's better to stay away from such old people, and there is no good way to do it, after all, they are very old, and you can't deal with them.

Either you are more fierce than him, if not, then don't deal with him, if you can't stand it, you can live separately, so that there will be a lot less conflict.

This person is greedy and selfish, if you deal with this kind of person, you don't need to force it too much, just stay away from him.

That boss is greedy and selfish, in the face of this kind of person, you have to let him see your strength, let him know that your ability and pay is not in line with the salary he gave, the smart boss can feel himself, if he does not make a corresponding salary adjustment for you, then I suggest you change jobs.

Don't let his greed be satisfied.

The common problem of the elderly is; Greedy for money, afraid of death, not sleepy. Know yourself and know your opponent, and win all battles.

I don't think it's necessary to deal with such an old man, after all, he is older, so you don't have to worry too much about him, just look at this problem with a normal heart.

I think the best way to deal with greedy and selfish old people is to ignore them.

Hello friend, after all, he is an old man, there is no need to meet him in general, communicate well to confirm. You can put it down, and it's okay to say something.

Let him take advantage of a small advantage and suffer a big loss... Long memory.

The way of others is the opposite of others.

If it's such an old man, then in fact, I suggest that it would be better for you to stay away from him, because it's better to stay away from the villain's words and not to offend.

Can we not live together? It would be better if they could be separated.

Pretend to be confused, let a little, and don't care about trivial money. Bringing him a small gift once in a while is enough. You'll get his accolades, and sometimes even unexpected surprises.

Of course, we must first take benign communication, the elderly have no virtue and should lead by example, the second is to eliminate the concept of respect and inferiority, express their attitude, and finally establish psychological boundaries, so that the elderly dare not cross the line to manipulate.

Ask questions and don't understand what to do.

1.Communicate first.

2. Make concessions. I can't communicate when I ask questions.

The first 2 were fruitless.

Treat them the way they would be.

As soon as he asked a question and communicated with him, he said that it was someone else's fault.

That can't be helped, it's what he does to you, how you treat him.

The old man knew he was wrong.

The old people can actually be coaxed, they are like children now.

It's not okay to ask questions, my father-in-law's generation didn't serve the old man, then you can talk about specific things and I'll help you come up with ideas.

Question: In May, he scolded me at night, and ran to our room in the middle of the night to scold me, I ignored him, and then my husband pushed him out, to the National Day at noon he scolded Huai for eating dolls, I heard that the doll's mother did not scold him, he raised ** for a long time and kept scolding him, I went out, let her, I went back at 5 o'clock in the afternoon, saw that I kept scolding, and also took out my parents' parents and sister-in-law to scold, I gave the theory, he scolded me for selling batches, I slapped him a few times, and he didn't fight back at that time, He asked some collar to see his daughter-in-law beat the old man, the police came and said that he was not, the second time he hit me, I didn't fight back, I thought it was flat, and after a few days he beat me again, and I didn't fight back.

The next day he hit me.

You have to tell your husband whether you can live this day or not, and let him solve it, it's all to the point of doing it, regardless of whether he is the husband or who.

I think this, according to my personal feeling, there are some things that can be pretended to be stupid, as long as it is not a matter of principle. In addition, it depends on what kind of selfishness the old man is, whether it is always like this, and in addition to being a little selfish, people are not bad, and whether they are bitter and mean.

If it's just that people are a little greedy and cheap, if you can open one eye, close one eye, tolerate it a little, and don't worry too much about the other party. After all, we are old, and being too cautious will make us stingy.

If the other party is particularly excessive, then my words will not help me or not, and I will not care, or I will say it. Because some people and old people also hate unconsciously, it is too much to sell the old with the old, and it is appropriate to teach the other party a lesson (not to beat people).

I don't think you can change other people's minds, but you can change your own minds, so you don't think too much, I think the old man's ideas have formed a stereotype, you really can't change the only thing you can do is to change your own mind.

If the old man in the family is very selfish, he should follow him, don't rush him too much to do things, after all, he is already old thinking and ideas, and there is an unprincipled problem with the young man, so let her a little bit, so that he can live a little happier if he is a little more happy.

I think it's the best way for such a person to be out of sight and out of mind, and stay away.

You're more selfish than he is. Some things are just fine. But you really can't be too selfish.

There are some people around me who love to buy cheap. These people may spend a lot of time and energy collecting and collecting, but they are not willing to spend a small amount of money to buy some items or enjoy some services. There are a few things I usually do to deal with this situation:

First, I would tell them directly not to do it. I would communicate directly with these people and tell them that this kind of behavior would not only affect their reputation, but also cause them a lot of trouble. Sometimes, they may not know how offensive their behavior is, but if I keep reminding them, they may change their behavior.

Secondly, I will try to provide them with some alternatives. For those who like to collect, I will find some other activities to replace the behavior of his grandchildren. For example, I can offer some free** or movie resources, or organize some events that give them a chance to earn some extra income.

Finally, there are a few things I can do to reduce the impact of their actions. For example, I would limit their range of activities or let them know that this behavior might affect my reputation.

Distance, very wonderful, far and near, who decides right or wrong?

Dissatisfaction in the distance, incidents in the near life, between relatives, distance is harmony, between lovers, distance is care.

You and I have a heart, far and near are determined by ourselves, far water can not dissolve the near fire, distant relatives are really not as good as close neighbors, there is no scenery in familiar places, and distance produces beauty.

Between friends, distance is respect.

Between colleagues, distance is friendly.

Between neighbors, distance is courtesy.

Don't underestimate the distance in life, how many emotions are ultimately defeated in the distance!

Lovers at both ends of the distance, relying on tangible scientific and technological products to connect intangible personal emotions every day, far, let me ask, can it really last long?

Between brothers, between concubines, under a house, the parents are short and close, try to ask, can it really last long?

You don't have to get too close, you still have your own lives, you don't have to be too far away, there is only a distance to turn around.

The interaction between American literati should keep a distance, not that they do not communicate with each other, but we all have to give each other space, and couples and husbands and wives should be even more so, it is respect and understanding!

Pressing too closely, following too closely, is trampling, is violation.

Getting along without distance is a sign of selfishness.

Although the selfish behavior of the elderly is not a big deal, but there are some behaviors that will have a substantial impact within a certain range, at this time, only the people around the elderly can control their impact, the general situation is that at the same time of persuasion, certain coercive measures must be taken to stop, for example, embezzlement and other behavior, when compulsory, the people around should do, the action should be resolute, the attitude should be gentle, the action should be gentle, the words should be warm, in order to receive good results.

Don't have to be obedient all the time, obey the old man is the real filial piety, but I think that obeying the old man should have a bottom line, for those who are too selfish to ask, it can not be measured by obedience, we must know, obedience once, there will be a second time, the third time, if you keep obeying, the elderly are like children, they will form a selfish inertia and can't extricate themselves, and then it will be too late to regret it.

Try to let the elderly participate in the group activities of the elderly, after all, the selfishness of the elderly only exists in some of the elderly, and there are many elderly people who spit on selfish behaviors to old age, therefore, let the elderly who have selfish behaviors participate in the activities of the elderly, which can not only distract them from their excessive attention to themselves in the activities, but also allow them to be affected by other unselfish elderly people, so as to alleviate selfishness and selfish behavior.

The old people are just as young as we are.

He is also afraid of loneliness.

He just wanted to find a partner.

Walk through the rest of your life.

Everything is fate... Filial piety comes first.

I want to make the old man happy.

In this way, we young people are also happy to do things.

People will not become more selfish and greedy because of aging, but will have a lower demand for many things because of the weakness of the body, so that they will have less desire for the possession of some external things, and become less greedy and selfish.

This attitude will make some elderly people become very arrogant, and they have to quibble if they are unreasonable, and when they are unreasonable, they dare to do it, because they know that the other party does not dare to fight back, and they can also take advantage of their age and weakness to blackmail the other party. When these elderly people are young, they have serious problems in their personalities, and their concepts are not correct from beginning to end, so they will concentrate on these problems when they are older.

In fact, selfishness and greed are not directly related to the elderly, a person is originally selfish and greedy, then he will be a selfish and greedy person whether he is young or old. Isn't there a saying that it's not the old man who gets bad, but the bad guy who gets old. I think it makes a lot of sense.

Now there are many people in society who are disrespectful to the elderly, and their existence and ** make our impression of the elderly worse and worse. In fact, there are many knowledgeable and respected among the elderly, not all of whom are selfish and greedy. I have lived for so many years, and I have met several old good people, and I have also met old bad people.

Therefore, for the elderly, we can not generalize, of course, the most common thing for the elderly is to thrift, which I want to fulfill in the vast majority of the elderly, but this can not be equated with greed, you must know that greed is a derogatory term, and thrift has a positive component.

The characteristics of the elderly, I feel that they are nothing more than thrift and stubbornness, as for selfishness and greed, I feel that it is definitely the character shortcomings of a small number of old people. In fact, not to mention the elderly, there are also many young people who are very selfish and greedy, so such words must not only be used on the elderly, but also on all the elderly. Although the old people are not in the same era as us, and most of them have experienced wars, there are also quality people among them, and many of them are just the most ordinary farmers.

When I was pregnant, I took the bus, and there were a lot of old people on the bus, and of course there were many young people, but it was usually the elderly who gave up my seat. Older people usually take the bus to do farm work, while young people probably go to work or something. In fact, everyone is tired and hard.

Judging from such a trivial matter as I was given up my seat at work, in fact, there are many quality people among the elderly. So the question is problematic.

As for why there are so many old people who are selfish and greedy, I just want to say that an era raises a wave of people, maybe their era created a lot of selfish and greedy people, and then those people are getting old now.