The book that yearns for a free life, the freedom I yearn for

I live freely, live freely.

I yearn for freedom the most, the freedom of the environment, the freedom of wealth and the freedom of the heart, only freedom can show my best self.

The first is to have the freedom of the environment. Since the new crown, the general environment has become very unfree, not only made me lose my job, but also made me and my lover live apart for a long time, and my children have not seen their father for more than a year. During the corona pandemic, the country was closed and then semi-closed, and I also discovered the importance of freedom here.

Things that used to be done with a single ticket abroad have now become extremely complicated: 72-hour nucleic acid testing, and in some places, you have to test twice; There are very few air tickets, and there are no direct flights from Guilin; More importantly, you still need to be quarantined, you have to quarantine when you go to other countries, you have to quarantine when you return home, and if you cross provinces in China, you have to isolate again......Although the vaccine can be given now, there are still various certificates to be made for vaccination, and not every country recognizes the vaccine. I never had the consciousness before, but now I know that only when the country is peaceful and the people are safe, can world peace have the freedom of the environment.

Second, I want to have the freedom of wealth. As I grew older, I became middle-aged and lost my job at the same time, and I had to be afraid of money like never before. Everyone has a different definition of financial freedom, and what I yearn for is very simple, food, clothing, housing, transportation, parenting and pension, and that's it.

I worked hard before, and I never thought that I would worry about money, but after I really became a family, I realized that what I was desperate to stay for the future was still anxious about the future. Someone told me before that the higher the salary, the less financial freedom can be, and this point was only later realized after I became a stay-at-home mother. However, I found that I didn't know anything but work, and I wasn't good at anything.

All I need to do is start over and find a new starting point for myself.

In the end, I yearn for inner freedom the most. Everyone's heart is complicated, and they all have the influence of being influenced by the original family. I'm a people-pleaser, I have difficulty making choices, and I'm not willing to take responsibility for many of my choices.

Therefore, I choose to keep learning, work hard to heal myself, and let my heart be free. I started to read every day, to output every day, I just wanted to find a way to release myself, and at the same time find a new starting point.

In recent years, there has been a lot of discussion about freedom, the return of those who close their wealth to their own side, and other topics.

Thousands of people may have a thousand attitudes towards this topic.

Some people think that having a lot of money is freedom.

Some people think that freedom means having the right to say "no".

Some people think that doing something meaningful and that you enjoy is freedom.

Interpret the three words in parentheses: slap oak.

1. Seeing clearly: that is, sober cognition.

There are three floors:

Conceptual clarity) correct values).

Logical thinking ability).

2. Still: that is, a brave choice.

There are two floors below.

Let reason take the lead).

Know what you want).

3. Love: that is, accept calmly.

There are two floors below.

Bear the consequences).

Think, analyze, and start again).