What is the bride price in China now?

At present, there are still many types of bride price in China, and the people around me are not the same as the bride price for their marriage.

I got married in our village, and when my cousin got married, he stepped on you and used 38888, while I have an old cousin, and he used more than 200,000 yuan when he got married, because the other party is an ethnic minority. And some people don't give a penny when they get married, but their mother's family also gives a lot of dowries.

The bride price for domestic marriage is mainly according to the woman's requirements, and generally the woman will give as much as she wants.

I found a rule, the more developed the economy, the less important the bride price is this kind of thing, it may be said that some places like those developed cities in the south, its bride price is there, but the concept is more open, if the two people really like the kind that they really like, and then the man is also more likely to have job prospects, and the parents have a good attitude, then there may not be particularly strict requirements for the bride price, but the more to the north, the more poor mountainous areas, the higher the requirements for the bride price.

The bride price varies from region to region, but it is now much higher than before. Not to mention the gap between different provinces, even if we are in the same city, the gap between different counties is quite large, but this is also an auspicious picture, who still expects those bride prices to live in this era?

Our bride price here is generally about 100,000 yuan, but the woman who wants more bride price is generally more accompanied. In most places, the bride price is because of customs and face issues, everyone wants a bride price, even if some people don't care about this matter, they must respect the customs, and others want a bride price to don't appear to have no face.

We belong to the second-tier provincial capital, the bride price is divided into urban and rural areas, generally about 100,000 in rural areas, less than 60,000, more than 150,000, the average is 100,000. There is basically no bride price in the city, and the woman will be symbolically given tens of thousands of yuan, but the woman's dowry far exceeds this number, even the dowry of rural girls is often hundreds of thousands, and it is generally given to the dowry a car.

It is divided into places, and each place is different. My hometown is in a marginal city in Guangdong, and my family's bride price is generally as follows:

1. If the man's conditions are better, he can give about 100,000 yuan;

2. If the man's conditions are average, it is generally 2-50,000 yuan;

3. Even if it is really difficult, it is okay to give 8888 yuan or 9999 yuan.

In general, the bride price in Guangdong is not high, and it can even be said that it is very "close to the people"!

In today's society, the price of goods is **, and it is becoming more and more difficult to get married, and the bride price is getting higher and higher.

Some places need to have a house and a car, three gold and four silver, and even a "sky-high bride price".

My hometown belongs to the northern Anhui region, and this is the case.

In our local area, not long ago, there was a marriage who asked for a bride price of 350,000 yuan, or in the case of building a two-story small building in the countryside and having a car. It's really speechless.

The domestic bride price is a standard in one place, can not be generalized, I will talk about our here, the basic bride price is 700,000 yuan, excluding the new car and new house, other decorations of the new house, jewelry, clothes, weddings and banquets, these are the most basic of our here, no one can break it.

In the past few years, I often heard about the sky-high bride price, in recent years, I have heard less of such things, which may be the reason for the improvement of the national quality, everyone has realized the true meaning of the bride price, the bride price is just a custom, and the marriage of the daughter can not be regarded as selling the daughter, in recent years, the domestic bride price is still very good.

Each region is different, depending on your local standards.

The bride price is also adapted to local conditions, and it is also determined according to the economic conditions of the man's family.

It is recommended that you find someone whose parents are dead, so that she does not want your bride price 100%. Besides, it is illegal to ask for a bride price now, which will affect the marriage of the two of you, and you can sue her parents. But the premise is that the girl must support you and live with you!

Otherwise, even if you are willing to give a bride price, the girl will not agree to marry you.

Marriage is an important milestone in life, for the Chinese nation, marriage is not only a matter of two people, but also the beginning of mutual respect and harmony between the two families. There have always been differing views on the issue of wedding bride price and dowry. Some people believe that if there is a bride price for marriage, there should be a corresponding dowry, while some people think that they can start a marriage just by relying on feelings.

First of all, it should be clear that bride price and dowry are both traditional Chinese marriage customs, the bride price is a gift from the man's family to the woman's family, and the dowry is some material financial support from the woman's family to the daughter. Although society has developed and people's concepts and lifestyles have changed greatly, the respect and maintenance of traditional marriage customs by Chinese is still very important.

Both bride price and dowry are expressions of respect and tradition. For the bride price, it is an expression of filial piety from the man to the woman, which reflects the economic strength and social status of the man's family, and is also an expression of commitment and responsibility for future married life. The dowry is a kind of protection and support for the daughter of the woman, this dowry is not only the guarantee of the daughter's married life, but also the greatest care and love of the parents for the daughter.

To some extent, the bride price and the dowry are complementary and balanced. If the man's family conditions are relatively good and Xing Yunmin can give enough dowry, then the woman's family should naturally be able to give a suitable dowry. Of course, this is not mandatory, it depends on the will of both parties.

In real life, there are many cases where there will be a certain quarrel over the issue of bride price and dowry, at this time, both parties should communicate more, understand each other, respect each other's views and wishes, and maintain family harmony while seeking a proper solution.

In short, bride price and dowry, although traditional Chinese marriage customs, are also a very important issue in modern society. Their role is no longer limited to the economic aspect, but is also a sign of the continuation of cultural traditions and family harmony. The bride price and dowry are not necessary for married life, but they are a way of showing respect and love.

When dealing with the issue of bride price and dowry, both parties should communicate rationally, respect each other, try their best to solve it properly, and create a happy family together in the quiet of married life.

Experts said that this document came in a timely manner, and it is estimated that it will not work in the future to infiltrate God and "sell daughters". With the gradual implementation of the spirit of the **1 document, it is expected that relevant policies will be introduced in various localities to rectify the phenomenon of bride price.

Judging from the amount of bride price, the bride price in economically developed areas in the southeast coast such as Zhejiang and Fujian has reached more than 200,000 yuan, while the bride price in economically underdeveloped areas in the northwest such as Jiangxi, Hubei, Gansu, Hunan, Heilongjiang, and Xinjiang is also more than 100,000 yuan. Of course, the statistics of each province can only be used as a reference, and it does not mean that all women's families have to collect so much bride price.

In fact, the bride price in various parts of our country was not high at the beginning, mainly because the man expressed respect to the woman's family, and then the bride price was getting higher and higher, rising to more than 100,000, and now the bride price in many places should reach 20-300,000 yuan, and some even reach more than 500,000 yuan, which makes many men's families feel a lot of pressure. In order to get married, some men's families borrow money everywhere and do not hesitate to carry huge debts.

The main reasons for the appearance of bride price in various parts of the country in recent years are as follows: First, there is an imbalance in the gender ratio of men and women of appropriate age in Conglu. The number of men of working age is much higher than that of women of working age.

In addition, in many places, women of working age go to big cities to work, get married and have children, which will further exacerbate the further imbalance in the gender ratio in some small and medium-sized cities. Usually scarce is expensive, since the number of women of appropriate age is small, the bride price in various places is also rising.

Second, many women's families now love face and like to compare with each other, which also further pushes up the bride price in various places. Some of the woman's parents like to compare themselves with others, and if they feel that they have received less bride price money, they will feel very shameless and unable to hold their heads up in front of others. As a result, the bride price is getting higher and higher.

Third, the gap between the rich and the poor in various places is also very large, and many wealthy families feel that paying hundreds of thousands of bride price to marry a wife is nothing, and they will earn it back in two or three years, while the man's family who is not rich may have to carry huge debts before they can get married. To a certain extent, it is the wealthy families who continue to push up the bride price in various places, and the man's family with poor economic conditions can only be forced to accept the bride price money continuously.

In recent years, due to the increasing amount and requirements of the bride price in some areas, it has even exceeded the ability of many people to bear, resulting in some marital problems. Some women's families may attach too much importance to the amount of the bride price, believing that the higher the bride price, the more sincere and capable the man will be, which will cause huge financial pressure on the man's family.

In addition, the issue of bride price may also expose other problems in the marriage of both parties, such as the economic status, family background, cultural differences, etc. Therefore, if the parties cannot agree on the bride price, it is likely to lead to deeper conflicts and disagreements, and even lead to the breakdown of the marriage.

Marriage now should be open and communicative: both parties should fully communicate before the marriage and discuss the standard and scope of the bride price together to reach a consensus. If the bride price is too demanding, you should be honest with each other, understanding and tolerant.

Seek help from a third party: If both parties cannot reach an agreement on the bride price, they can seek a third-party mediator, such as a matchmaking agency, lawyer, relatives and friends, etc., to help coordinate the solution.

Moderately lower the bride price standard: If the bride price requirement is too high, the standard can be moderately lowered to reduce the financial burden on both parties. Of course, this needs to be discussed by both parties to avoid one party making a decision alone.

The bride price was born in an agrarian society. At that time, after the man sent the woman to the door, this meant that there was an increase in the number of people who worked, and in the poor years of the time, one more person meant that he could effectively share more burdens, effectively promote and survive. But the relative woman's family will inevitably lack a labor force, and the children she has worked hard to raise need to go to someone else's home, as a parent, there will naturally be some unwillingness, which will not only have emotional investment, but also cost investment.

For the woman's family, marrying a daughter is a loss, so it is reasonable that they will choose to ask for a bride price.

The initial role of the bride price.

In the feudal society at that time, the daughter would become a member of the man's family after marrying, and she was generally not allowed to return to her mother's home, and basically there was no connection with her mother's family, so a patriarchal custom would be formed in the society at that time. The initial function of the bride price is nothing more than some material compensation given by the man's family in order to thank the woman's family for their nurturing grace.

**Bride price. But today's society has gradually evolved, and the bride price in modern society seems to have become an exchange of interests, which makes countless men feel more stressed. In 2020, the national average bride price is about 10,000 yuan, and the relatively high is in Zhejiang, and the relatively low is in Chongqing.

Behind the gradual increase of the bride price** is also a trend for interests, after all, you can make yourself more than 100,000 yuan for no reason, no matter who you are, you will feel some heartbeat. Although nominally this may be his own son-in-law, countless people will still point to their own children, if the more bride price you want to come, it means that your children have better protection of their rights and interests.

As a tradition, the bride price itself only represents a beautiful meaning and a simple blessing, so behind the bride price, it is also the greed and selfishness of human nature.

In the final analysis, it is still the two young people who lack the determination to share a destiny in this life and this life.

It seems that the defeat to the bride price is actually not so simple at all, the source problem is interests, and I failed to realize that two people are about to bear a fate together, which is a community of interests.

So even if one party compromises and successfully gets married, in fact, the marriage crisis has already produced a ride from this moment.

The woman's parents trembled and asked for the bride price, and it is not possible to rule out the possibility that the bride price is one of the rewards for raising their daughter, which means that the birth and maintenance of their daughter is regarded as an investment.

When there is no way to admit the truth directly, you can only use the banner of being good for your daughter to benefit yourself.

What I am most afraid of is that the girl is also controlled by the words that her parents often talk about, and her parents will always love their children selflessly, and she is assimilated by her original family, so that she has no ability to think independently, distinguish between right and wrong, and can't figure it out.