Experts suggest that when an old man dies in the countryside, he is not allowed to use a drummer, wh

Whether it is setting off firecrackers, or burning straw, and blowing suona, it has a history of thousands of years in the countryside, and the drummer is also a custom held after the death of rural farmers, mainly to express a kind of nostalgia for the deceased relatives, but the quality of modern people is getting higher and higher, and they clearly know that this is a phenomenon that disturbs the people, so I think the expert advice is right.

From the day of our death to the seven-day funeral, we have always had to play the drummer, although it is to respect the deceased, but also to express our condolences, but it is really very chaotic, so I think I very much agree with the expert's proposal.

I think it is appropriate not to let the drummers at the funeral, because it is too chaotic and the cost is also large, mainly because it disturbs the people, and it must not affect everyone.

I think the expert's advice is right, a few years ago we had a funeral upstairs, the drummer and the monk chanted, until the second half of the night, very noisy, and I am about to have a final exam, I now remember to do it for 6 days, I personally think I still understand the mood of the neighbor who lost his relatives, but if it affects the rest and study of the whole floor of people, I think it is really bad, some work day is very tired, but still can't sleep very messy, for so many days in a row is really exhausting.

It's supposed to be so, because it's really very disturbing to the people, I remember that a few days before I had to take the college entrance examination, there was a relative downstairs who died, and it blew for many days, which made me upset, and I didn't rest well at night, and the efficiency of going to the library to read books during the day was not good, I think I could understand that sadness, but it was not good to disturb other people's normal lives.

I think it should be so, there are many places where the custom is blown for many days, and now every house is next to each other, and the sound insulation is not so good at all, and it disturbs other people's rest.

I think it should be like this, now everyone has a job, and the work is easy, I want to rest and rest when I am at home, and I think I can understand the feeling of losing a loved one, but it can't affect people who are not.

I think it should be like this, I remember a neighbor's funeral before, I was on the night shift at the time, and then I slept during the day, and I played the drummer all day, and I didn't rest at all, and I was tired, and I caught a cold.

Agree! When an elderly person dies in the countryside, the family will generally find someone to play the gong and drum, and there are three reasons for this, the first is to make people miss the old man in this sad atmosphere; the second is to let people see how rich they are in the first stall of their own family; The third is to let people know how filial they are through this behavior!

However, there are experts advocating that this kind of behavior is not allowed! It should be banned!

Although the advice of many experts is very unreliable, I very much agree with this advice! The reasons are as follows: In the past, due to traditional customs and other reasons, I would come to the drummer to make everyone cry bitterly to vent the bitter emotions in my heart, but in recent years, it has changed.

Many people judge whether the family is really filial piety by the number of people who play gongs and drums called by the main family, but the standard of filial piety is when people are alive, not after they die. Since it is necessary to have a thick and thin burial, it is necessary to reduce the burden on the funeral and cancel the unnecessary ceremonies directly! So it is necessary to not allow the use of drummers!

Secondly, the life of the people in our village is indeed getting better and better, but there is still no need to use it in this regard, I believe that people in the village have experienced, a funeral, not only to blow gongs and drums, sometimes it is a joy and mourning, but also to dance and sing, to make it happy, and at the same time, the main family also needs to entertain and so on, a funeral takes about 80,000! If the children want to pay attention to it and get a more magnificent coffin, then ** will add a lot! But if you follow the advice of experts, you can drop it significantly, and wouldn't it be better to use the money saved for children's education, etc.?

After all, they are all intergenerational relatives, which grandparents don't like their grandchildren?

Finally, I want to say that when the experts first put it forward, most people disagreed, thinking that only in this way can they sustenance their emotions, but there are other ways to sustenance, and the best way to tremble is actually to raise it well before death!

I think this statement of experts is very unreasonable, after all, this custom is handed down in ancient times, and this practice also represents the respect and nostalgia of children for the elderly, this practice has a certain significance, experts did not consider the ideas of other people's contributions, and put forward this opinion at will, I think it is very inappropriate. Roll the honorific cavity.

I don't understand very much whether there can be a lot of trembling customs in the advice of the experts, they have been going on for a long time, and the drummers don't have much effect on the life of the rural people, I don't understand why I don't mind.

I think it's possible to use a drummer, it's a traditional Chinese custom, and it's better to keep it.

I also think so, the old man in the countryside has to sing when he dies, and this behavior is particularly noisy and annoying.

At present, China's rural Huzai is still an expert who pays more attention to the culture of funeral and rough burial, and I think such a suggestion is unreasonable, which may be contrary to the traditional customs of rural people.