Why do so many guys not want to fall in love nowadays?

Some men have a vigorous love experience at the beginning, and they have come back to life with each other's love, and love them into the bone marrow, which has reached the point where they can't extricate themselves, but they have been ruthlessly hit and hurt by the other party, as if they have seen through the red dust, no longer believe in the opposite sex, and refuse to fall in love. A career-oriented man, who wants to take advantage of his youth and youth, focuses on his work, regards his career as his life, and in order to achieve his own goals, even if the beautiful girls around him love him more, he is not moved, and takes the initiative to give up his love for the opposite sex. There are also men who want to fall in love, because the family is financially difficult, and they have the responsibility to contribute to the family, and once the family leaves him, it will cease to exist.

There is no girl who can take a fancy to him, live a lifetime with him, and ask him to fall in love with whom. There are also men who hope to fall in love with a perfect family through their own efforts. But it backfired, even if you save money for a lifetime, you can't keep up with the speed of the bride price, wedding room, and car costs, and you can only struggle on the road forever.

It's not that men are willing to do this, isn't there a saying that poor couples mourn everything? That's because the man's own conditions are not good, and he can't bring a good life to the woman, and he would rather be chic alone than suffer for two. It can also be said to be self-aware, now girls ask for RV bride price is so high, chasing is also in vain, boys spend time and money and may not have the desired results, when they meet a girl with special materiality, that is to bring humiliation on themselves.

Society is like this, what can be done? I can only endure loneliness alone, and concentrate on seeing if I can make a breakthrough in my career during the low period of my life. It's not that I don't want to chase, it's just that I can't do anything, and I look very pale and powerless in front of love and cake.

I am a person from the past, to be honest, people are such a short life, at most a hundred and ten years, rather than living in a small two-person world where they swallow their anger and endure humiliation, bear the weight and lose their dignity, it is better to live quietly and comfortably!

You will never meet the person who makes your heart beat faster like before and do stupid things desperately, even if you do, you may hold it in your heart for a few days, because of cowardice and cowardice, the fawn will beat to death in your heart.

I think I know a little bit about this, I have done my own research, why are more and more boys reluctant to fall in love and get married? Could it be that he suffers from 'loverophilia'? Actually, no, there are many reasons why they are reluctant to fall in love, some are because of work, some are family, and some are personal.

Many reasons. But most boys say that girls nowadays are becoming more and more materialistic, and it is difficult to satisfy them, a dress is hundreds or thousands, a set of cosmetics is as little as two thousand, as much as four or five thousand, or even more expensive, not to mention other necklaces, bracelets, and rings. Think about it, if you are a boy in your early 20s, your salary in January is more than 3,000 or 4,000, in addition to rent, water, electricity, food and drink, how much can you have left?

Still have the money to fall in love? What to share the joys and sorrows, that is a minority. There is also a long-distance run of love, okay, it's time to talk about marriage, and now the woman's conditions, bride price, house, car, and deposit.

Oh my God, the man's father suddenly felt that it was better to have a daughter than a son.

Maybe I didn't find the right one, in fact, it's a very happy thing to fall in love and meet the right person, I've been with my boyfriend for almost four years, and now I still feel like it's a hot love period, I've been very sticky to him, he also spoils me, of course, there will be quarrels and unhappy things during the period, but there will always be happy things to pass together, so I think some are not not wanting to fall in love, but not finding a love method that suits themselves and the right object, blindly self-centered or others-centered, and will eventually feel annoyed after a long time.

From myself alone, I have always said that not wanting to fall in love is not confident in myself, my first love lasted three years, it took all my energy, and it ended in her betrayal. I've always believed in good relationships, but I don't believe it could happen to me. So I said I didn't want to be in a relationship because I didn't know if I would be able to meet someone I liked like that and put my heart and soul into it.

The truth is actually quite heart-wrenching, cherish those boys who are still willing to pay for you.

Work and career are very unstable, so the income and economic ability are too weak, after all, a good relationship still has to be maintained on the economic basis, dare not talk about it! Then there is the idea of starting a business first and then starting a family, some men are career-minded and feel embarrassed to fall in love without a career!

After falling in love, you will spend less time with yourself, and the way you think about problems may change. And the next few decades of life will be spent with the other half, so when you don't want to fall in love, in the days with yourself, know yourself more, understand yourself, and become a better self.

The general reason: the high cost of living, the high cost of love, the high housing price, the demographic dividend, and the reduction of all kinds of good and bad news and information have broadened their horizons. However, the lack of experience and wisdom of life has not improved, and people are becoming more and more self-running-in, and it is more and more difficult!

Self-reasons: first.

1. Personality problemsIn fact, many people who say they don't want to fall in love also have a desire for love in their hearts, but because of their own personality problems, such as low self-esteem, excessive introversion, sensitivity, etc., they dare not touch love, so they simply don't fall in love. Clause.

Second, love This is also a reason not to fall in love, some people have loved someone very deeply, but in the end they have been hurt, or they are not together for some reason, but their hearts have always been in that relationship and can't come out, so they won't accept new feelings. Clause.

Third, I feel that love is not tired This is also a reason, I feel that falling in love is really a very troublesome thing, all kinds of emotional problems to deal with, think about the big head, it is better to get along with a group of friends and buddies, so I don't fall in love first, just like that, day after day I become the person who doesn't fall in love.

Let's analyze the big environmental factors:

1.Social changes: With the development of society, social changes are also constantly occurring, the pressure of modern society is increasing, more and more people put their energy on their careers, take the pursuit of their goals as the first place, and do not want to spend too much time and energy to invest in a funny relationship.

2.Economic factors: Economic factors are also one of the reasons why many people do not want to fall in love, and now the social and economic pressure is increasing, and many people are trying to make money in order to improve their quality of life.

They don't want to waste their time and energy on love, but put all their energy into work and study in order to better improve their financial strength. 3.Fear of failure:

In addition, many people also have a fear of falling in love, worrying that they will fail, worrying that their performance is not good enough, and being rejected, so they choose to avoid it, not to try to fall in love, but to put their energy on study and work with peace of mind.

First, he was also a boy before becoming a man, and most boys wanted to have a good love reputation, but sometimes things backfired, and they may have been deceived and hurt after finding the object, and since then they have turned their grief and anger into strength, and have been working hard to make themselves better, because they are afraid of being deceived again, so they dare not fall in love again after becoming excellent.

Second, there is also an excellent boy who feels that the goal of life is not to fall in love, but to work and contribute to the career.

Third, some excellent boys may feel that they have a sense of superiority, and no woman is worthy of him, and when they reach a certain level, there will be many girls who take the initiative to pursue, and then they can choose what they like and what is suitable.

Fourth, a person's solitude is also a kind of growth.

The reason why many women are excellent is because they understand that love is not in a hurry, and the love that comes naturally is the best and the longest. If you love impulsively at a young age, this love will instead make you lose more things.

You may not have found your niche, or your goals may not be clear enough.

Of course, it is not excluded that there is not much comfort in this process.

Then go for it, don't let this question bother you, life is meant to come casually!

It's not that I don't want to, but now it's all mobile computer games, there are fewer opportunities to contact people, and I don't have the experience of communicating with new friends, and it won't be over time, what do you think!

Feel the feeling that it brings him when you are in love, or he has been hurt and doesn't want to be hurt anymore You may not be out of that person right now I don't want to love It's too tired.

When I meet someone I like, I will still chase after the rent, saying that I don't want to fall in love, most of them don't see what I like.

Or the standard answer when the person he loves the most asks him why he doesn't fall in love with Tachibana (he doesn't have the courage to confess but still holds on).

It's not that I don't want to, but I don't dare, for fear of hurting Many people are not trustworthy, men dare not marry, and women dare not marry, so that there are many singles now.

Because you can live well by yourself, why not find someone who can make your life better, why fall in love.

Because without my beauty attack to bring her the world's number one first love, okay, understand? Hehe.

Life pressure, and more and more people are starting to think about what love is for and why they are in love. Therefore, I will choose my love partner more and more carefully.