I cherish this friendship and affection, but I don t know why it s like this, 50

If you still care about her, and she doesn't care about you, completely eliminate you from her world, then, no matter how extravagant you are, just wishful thinking, what you get, will not be the kind of feeling you think, more directly, she has given up on you, no matter how entangled, there will be no good results, since you have picked it up and put it down now, what is the difficulty, find someone you like, find someone who also likes yourself, love is not a big deal, it is two people who love each other. Let go, look at the point, everything will make life better, believe in yourself, believe in the future. Everything is well,..

I think that most of the relationship problems come from poor communication, if you still want to reconcile with her, it is best to talk to her openly and honestly, there is no knot that cannot be untied. I also have very good friends, pure friendship, I understand your feelings, I hope you can be good friends again!

Actually, I'll tell you. Don't always think that time can dilute everything. There are some things that have to be faced.

Be brave and make it clear, just do what you want. If it's a friend, it's a friend, don't talk so much about the past. Be serious.

Attitude towards things, and the same is true of life path. Sisters are still good sisters.

Open the skylight and say something bright, since you have the courage to send these out, why don't you just ask her why she is grinding here. No matter how cherished the friendship is, it must be broken, and it won't hurt now and keep it in the future? Ask her directly what she thinks.

Could it be that she has a different affection for you? Didn't get a response from you, and then gave up in pain?

Personally, I think that friendship is indeed very precious, and the key is to withstand the test of time, space, and common suffering, common suffering, and mutual benefit.

I've seen a good analogy, like a fisherman fishing at seaWhen the fish swim into the narrow waters, the fishermen who are intercepted at the upper end of the current will drive the boat over, go hand in hand with the former, wave their harpoons at each other, and curse each other as fish thieves, sometimes at sea and sometimes at sea there will be fishermen yelling at each other, but in most cases everyone is alone all night, and there is no object to quarrel with, some people choose to give up after tasting this lonely life, Go to a large trawler or a longline halibut schooner to work as a crew. Gradually, the port became a port of call for large ships, a gathering place for one-man gill netters, and the pride of people to go out to sea to fish alone, and over time, a belief penetrated into the soul of the fishermen that fishing alone was a more glorious thing than any other way of fishing.

When fishermen reach old age, they learn to be silent and not to quarrel when they are fishing again。Sometimes they would come to the dock at dawn and talk for a while. Even though they were exhausted and busy with the business at hand, they would still talk on their decks about their experiences at night and things that only they could understand.

This intimate conversation, and the solace of the voices of others, reassures them of their own personal experience. This makes them feel less distant when they see their families.

Friendship is like a fisherman's experience, not about how solid the requirements are, not how deep the requirements are, but having someone to accompany you when you struggle, and someone to share your life with when you have your own life. I don't think it matters whether friendship is the most important emotion in life, but that friendship can give you comfort and companionship when you are frustrated。Have someone to accompany and share with you when you're proud.

That's because friendship is hard to come by, and it takes us a lot of effort to get a good friendship.

Mainly because friendship is a particularly good relationship in the world, and everyone needs friendship specially, and we just can't lack this friendship in our lives.

It is because friendship is very rare now, and a good friendship can also make you have a happy mood, so it is particularly precious.

It's because good friendships are hard to find, and some people may not have such friendships for the rest of their lives.

Friendship is a beacon in life that can guide you on the right path and enrich your life. If there is no friendship in a person's life, then life will be like a dry well, and it will be lifeless.

Zhang Xiaofeng is a good friend of mine and can be called a confidant. Although we are good friends, she and I are always noisy, but this little noise does not hurt our feelings in the slightest. Once, I was in a state of anger, and it just so happened that Zhang Xiaofeng came over and wanted to ask me a question:

Gu Xiangmin, I want to ask you ......Before she could finish speaking, I said to her angrily: "If there is a problem, I am annoying!" "I thought she would turn around and leave, but I didn't expect her to comfort me in turn

Ah, what's wrong with you, like you've eaten a cannonball. Who you off? I yelled at her

It's none of your business, you'd better leave it alone! She was stunned at first, and then blamed herself: "Did I make you angry?"

I'm sorry, don't be angry, I'll ask Zhu Minmin. With that, she walked away.

Later, my anger subsided, and I calmed down and thought carefully: "What's wrong with me, I'm angry, what's the matter with her, why are you yelling at her, I'm so confused." Yes, she should be apologized.

I got up and walked over to her. But to my surprise, she didn't blame me at all, but blamed herself for not communicating with me well. After this incident, our friendship deepened.

Since then, I am no longer so self-willed, I have learned to care for others, and I have learned to cherish friendships.

Friends are sometimes like a strong and mellow glass of wine, which fills with the passage of time. When you raise your glass and drink, you are not only tasting the original taste of the wine, but perhaps you are tasting another connotation of life. Friends are also like a landscape, when you appreciate it carefully, you will feel the joy and happiness of your mood.

The existence of friends not only dresses up their own lives, but also embellishes their own emptiness from time to time! When you are troubled, a gentle greeting from a friend, you will really feel the sincere heart of your friend; When you are happy, a friend gives you a blessing, and you will feel the truest friend; When you succeed, a round of applause from your friends may really move you to tears......

In my second semester of fifth grade, I have a very good relationship with my partner. So there were times when I didn't pay attention, and I also liked to play with boys at that time, so my partner misunderstood. I thought I didn't like being around them, and a nightmare began.

They broke up with me. From then on, my lonely life began. Not only did they turn around and walk away when they saw me, but they also rolled their eyes at me.

I suddenly felt a darkness in front of my eyes, and tears kept falling. In the darkness, I remembered the carefree and free life I had last week, and I was intoxicated, but I didn't want to give up my friendship with them, and I always wanted to reconcile with them.

But they ignored me, as if there was no room for me except my own seat. Every time I went, they deliberately played there, and I wasn't allowed to participate. So from then on, I could only do exercises in my seat.

At that time, I really wanted to cry. Think about how happy and intoxicating we used to be when we played together, but now there is nothing. A moment of indulgence made me lose this friendship, and I lost so many good friends.

Even now, I blame myself very much, blaming myself for being careless, blaming myself for not being able to control my thoughts, blaming myself for not playing with male classmates, blaming myself for ......

Since then, I have learned to cherish friendship. Acquaintance with peers is a kind of fate, and getting along with companions is a kind of learning, we must grasp this fate well, and deeply study this kind of knowledge, so that the friendship can last for a long time.

True friendship is not only trusting and supporting each other, but also treating each other sincerely and daring to show their true psychology in front of each other, and true friendship will dare to correct each other's mistakes and will not give up each other's ......

Inscription. An ordinary friend has never seen you cry, a true friend has shoulders that make your tears wet; An ordinary friend comes to you to talk about your troubles, and a real friend comes to you to solve your problems; An ordinary friend thinks that the friendship is over after a quarrel, and a true friend understands that when you have not quarreled, it is not called a real friendship; An ordinary friend expects you to always be by his side ...... a true friend expects him to be by your side forever

A true good friend is someone who can comfort you when you are sad, enlighten you when you are sad, accompany you when you are happy, see your business as your own business, and try to help you do ......anythingIt will be very comfortable to be with a good friend, unrestrained, what you want to do, what you want to say, although there will be a little "interlude", but each other will not go to the heart, many years later, everyone is still the same as back then, even if they have been separated for a long time, they still feel the same, they will think of her when you are most difficult, and you will know that she will always stand with you ......A real good friend is a person who is willing to tell you the disgraceful things he has done, a person who wants to tell you what is in his heart at any time, a person who cries and laughs when he wants to cry without a mask in front of you, a person who sleeps all night with you in a winter night, a person who sometimes doesn't talk much with you but cares about each other, a good friend is a person who sheds tears with you when there is sadness, and a silly laugh with you ...... joy

Good friends may not always be in touch, but they will not forget, every time they think of it occasionally, they still feel so warm, so cordial, and so tender; A good friend is to care in the heart and hide the concern in the eyes; A good friend is more joyful when remembered, and more gentle when remembered. The beauty of a good friend is not in the future, and a good friend is really an instant, eternal, and an instant of acquaintance; The preciousness of a good friend is not because of the years that have been walked together, the most rare thing about a good friend is that they will still think of it from time to time, and can still remember: you are my good friend!

The days when you have good friends are always sunny and the flowers are bright. When you have good friends, you realize that you already have everything. We can lose a lot, but we can't lose good friends.

A good friend may not be an eternity, or maybe he is just a passerby at a certain time in your life, but it makes life beautiful, and makes the emotions of a good friend more vivid and precious, even if there is no future. At least, I once walked the path of good friends with you......

Friendship is the purest, noblest, simplest, and most ordinary feeling; It is also the most romantic, moving, solid, and eternal emotion. Everyone is inseparable from friendship, and once there is no friendship, there will be no pleasant harmony in life. Therefore, everyone should cherish the precious friendship around them, because it will make your life more colorful and colorful!

We write a book, a thick book, with friendship. In the book: Friendship is like pearls, we wear them together, and they form a string of brilliant necklaces; Friendship is like colored silk, we cut and sew together to make a piece of gorgeous clothes; Friendship is like a flower seed, we sow it together and cultivate a colorful flower bed; Friendship is like oil paint, and we mix colors together to paint a beautiful picture.

Friendship should be sown with sincerity, cared for with understanding, and watered with enthusiasm.

What's in it for you? Nor a reward?

Because I was not very satisfied with my previous life, when I arrived at university, I was confident and wanted to start a new life, and I tried to make myself as cheerful as everyone else, but in fact, it was pretending, I was just pretending to be a perfect person, which was actually very tiring. My personality may not be like this, but I know what kind of tone and what kind of expression to use when chatting is more flattering, my heart is good, I want to be better, but I may be in a hurry, in fact, my personality needs to change a little bit, instead of pretending to be the ideal way, pretending to be like that after a long time, I can become like that.

At that time, I didn't understand anything, because my roommates were all "nest-inside" kind of characters, they just didn't like to go out, they could have fun in the dormitory, and they weren't active in any activities. So I used to think that they were very naïve, that is, there was no atmosphere to move forward, I wanted to study hard in college, but they were all people who didn't like to study, and I was not the kind of person who was quite self-reliant and self-reliant, and I was very susceptible to the environment. So I'm very entangled, on the one hand, they are quite enthusiastic and more good at taking care of people, on the other hand, I think they are too talkative, very noisy, and their speech and behavior are relatively earthy, so I have been struggling with whether I want to integrate into them and what kind of person I want to be.

In fact, it seems that now that I think a little too much, I can live in the moment, and now that I am in class, the personalities of the people in the class are different from those of my roommates, so I miss their playful temper and feel like a family.

It's a pity that I was young and ignorant at the time, or there was no comparison at the time, so I didn't know how good they were, because I disliked their circle a little bit, and felt that I couldn't learn anything, so I often went out to play alone. You think, often go out alone, and you must not be close to other people's relationships, but they are together for everything. This cracked relationship lasted until graduation, and after the separation, they didn't have much contact with me, and I was embarrassed to contact them at first.

Now that I think about it, I was so stupid at the time, they had a good relationship, and I should have established a deep friendship with them, so that they would be willing to talk to me about anything, and I could have someone to talk to. No matter how good the relationship between colleagues is, it can't be the same as the relationship when I was a student, there was a sincere friendship in front of me, and I didn't know how to cherish it at that time. I understand now that I want to reach out to them, but I don't know how to say it, and I don't know if I can repair the friendship.