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People change their hearts, "enthusiasm will cool, feelings will fade." "Depending on how the individual treats such feelings, there will be no such thing, of course, referring to a few. The reason for the breakup is not necessarily because they were good friends in the first place!
Maybe you don't think the other party is suitable for you in the future! And so on, some problems arise that lead to breakups. Can be a friend again, as for whether you can return to the feeling of being a friend, it depends on the individual, Maybe it will be embarrassing, and you will still remember what happened in the past, sigh about this matter, and talk about it very happily, maybe, maybe it will be embarrassing, maybe it will be more pleasant to chat, it is not good to say, Feelings should be experienced a little more, so it is also a good way for you to deal with feelings in the future, of course, you can try to talk about it after accepting, if it doesn't work, it will be divided, and feelings are slowly cultivated.
At the same time, you have to take it up and down! ยท
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Longing, the feeling of not wanting to let go, the feeling of getting to be protected, the lightening of the feeling is the transfer of the heart, to someone, to something, to something, because of someone, something, to something, too tired of love, too cautious, to love to the point of cherishing.
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Yes. Time will wear everything down, family, friendship and love, without exception, the only way not to dim it is to keep reinforcing it.
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Love fades, but love doesn't.
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The feeling of love may fade in the original Shibu gene has the following:
1.Habit effect: When we get used to a person or a relationship, the novelty fades, causing the feeling to fade.
2.The passage of time: The passage of time can change people's needs, hobbies, lifestyles, etc., which can lead to a lighter feeling.
3.Stress and negative emotions: Stress and negative emotions in life (e.g., work stress, arguments, disappointments, etc.) can lead to emotional swings that affect feelings.
4.Lack of communication and postural attention: When there is a lack of communication and attention from both parties, it can lead to emotional alienation and a sense of distance, which can affect feelings.
5.Personal growth and change: Personal growth and change (e.g., life stage changes, personal goals, etc.) can affect people's emotional needs and expectations, which can lead to a lightened feeling.
In conclusion, it is normal for the feeling of love to fade, and it can be affected by a variety of factors. If we want to maintain a good relationship, we can maintain the relationship by adding freshness, strengthening communication and attention, and growing together, so that the feeling of love is more lasting and stable.
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Maybe you don't love him as much as you imagined, and the feelings are not so deep, or maybe you have given all your love to someone and have no strength to love another person, if the feelings are just faint, then it is not love.
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That's when you haven't really fallen in love with each other yet, and true love is passionate, sometimes even fanatical.
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This situation varies from person to person, some people like it vigorously, and some people like to like someone quietly and be good to him.
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Friends are above, lovers are not full.
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Don't you like each other very much?
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Many things are always understood after experience, just like feelings. After the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; After being stupid, we will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner, and we will slowly understand ourselves in the process of gaining and losing. In fact, life does not need such meaningless attachments, and nothing really cannot be parted.
Learn to give up, and life will be easier.
Learn to give up, turn around before crying, and study abroad with a simple back; Learn to give up, bury yesterday in your heart, and leave the most beautiful memories; Learn to give up, so that each other can have an easier start, and the love that is bruised all over the body is not necessarily unforgettable; Learn to give up, let all the troubles go away with the wind, and create every beautiful tomorrow.
Every relationship is beautiful, and every journey is also intoxicating. The regret that we can't have makes us more restricted; Sleepless thoughts in the middle of the night make us feel more nostalgic. Feelings are a questionnaire without answers, and painstaking pursuit does not make life more fulfilling.
Perhaps a touch of sadness will make this answer more timeless and long-lasting.
Pack up your mood and keep walking, miss the flowers, you will reap the rain, miss the beauty, you will reap the happiness; Keep walking, and you will reap your own happiness in giving up.
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If you are in a bad mood, it is a kind of boredom, and boredom is a kind of psychological loneliness, that is, you are unhappy, if you want to make yourself happy, you just don't want to be bored, you are in a bad mood. How can I make my mood better, listen to songs, and feel annoyed, that is, your boredom has not been solved and improved, then let your emotions vent out, inexplicably uncomfortable, nothing more than an empty heart, an empty heart, there is no mood at all! As for why, it depends on your own life situation and the factors around you.
Depression and depression have different concepts, depression has a kind of depressed sadness, and depression is just a mood of idleness.
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First, love will automatically consume over time, and second, love will decrease or increase greatly with events, large and small.
For example, if a pool is draining all the time, the amount of water is fixed, and in order for the pool to start to store water, more water needs to be injected, and the speed of filling the water must be greater than the speed of drainage. But the capacity of the pool is limited, and the capacity of love is also limited, no that is to say, there is no infinite love in stupidity, one day Sakura Pei will not start filling water, the water will still drain, and the water in the pool will be exhausted.
It's not that finding someone who loves you will sit back and relax, without continuous feedback, you will gradually become discouraged, and once you run out, it will be irretrievable. Love is never a one-and-done process.
Not loving now does not mean that you will not fall in love in the future, and loving now does not mean that you will not love in the future. Some love starts from 100, some love starts from 0, the former mostly starts with the hormonal love of young people, and the latter mostly starts from the weighing pros and cons of mature middle-aged people.
How can people's love be as affectionate as we imagined, and some things will inevitably be encountered in life, no matter how much love there is, the problem of principle, the problem of loyalty, once the pool will break a few holes, the water will leak a bunch, and the volume of the pool will become smaller once. No matter how much water is injected, it is not as good as the original.
So, can feelings be cultivated, and can you have feelings if you get married without feelings? Not necessarily.
In the process of getting along with both parties, there are thrusts and resistances, thrust makes the relationship go further, resistance makes the relationship regress, and thrust and resistance balance the relationship without advancing or retreating.
From the perspective of resistance, changing the shortcomings that the other party does not like can only reduce the disadvantages and maintain the temperature of the relationship, but it cannot enhance the relationship.
And the relationship will naturally decline with time, will gradually wear out with the trivial contradictions in life, which is an inevitable resistance, so if you do not add new thrust or maintain thrust to fight this resistance, the relationship is likely to collapse in the gradually increasing contradictions and become familiar strangers.
This varies from person to person, I have a lot of friends in long-distance relationships around me, they are all very good, play more ** every day, stay together more on holidays, care more about each other, there should be no problem, but if the landlord feels light, it may be that you really have some problems, you can talk about it well, communicate it, and hope it can be solved.
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