When I entered the university, I was very confused, help me

In college, you have to play dumb.

Hehe, the first lesson in society. The key is still in yourself, no one is obligated to be good to you. If you think it's necessary, you can send a separate message to get in touch.

In fact, I'm also in college, and half of the people in my dormitory already have boyfriends, but I personally think that at this stage, love is not the most important, after all, there are still very serious employment problems to face in the future, and you can only be responsible for your whole life, and are you sure that you have met the person you want to go with you? If you just think that people should have me, I don't think it's necessary, it's meaningless, if those friends of yours despise you and always make you feel uncomfortable, then give up on them, there's no need to be so aggrieved, people only live so much, they should be happy, and you don't owe them, if you treat them well enough, and they don't give you fair treatment, then it's your luck to give them up, it's their loss, rest assured, there will be people who know how to appreciate your good, At present, you first have to be self-respecting and self-reliant, if you have no desire, you are strong, you don't ask them for anything, what are you afraid of, keep your own ideas, go in the direction you want, come on! After working hard, you will despise them with results, but I believe that then you will be able to experience the joy of hard work, and you will feel that they are nothing at all!

Do you have to fall in love in college? Aren't those girls just college students? The quality is so low, I'm on your side, does that woman have QQ, I'll go to her space and leave a word by the way, don't worry, I won't reveal your drop, by the way, I'm a boy.

I went to reason with her, and I said that your teacher told me to go to Di.

I was also very confused at the time, and like you, I asked questions on the Internet and expressed my feelings that I was very lost.

Thankfully, I taught myself some skills at that time, which laid some foundation for my job search after graduation.

This is a similar sentiment I expressed in 15 years.

Isn't it similar to you? Actually, everyone is the same.

This is a problem in universities, where there are many courses but not precision, and there is an emphasis on theory over practice.

In addition, school management and assessment are no longer as strict as in high school, and students indulge themselves, so they cannot learn useful knowledge.

As a person who has come over, I can responsibly tell you that the examination is definitely the most correct choice, but don't stumble! If you can't pass the exam in 2 years, you will give up, or you can take the exam while working.

The most important thing is to learn some technology and improve yourself!

It's just a little bigger, don't be discouraged! First of all, if you come here, you will be safe, you must know that every university has endless knowledge and its glory.

It can be seen that you have a lot of self-discipline and a sense of crisis, which is good! What is missing now are two things: a heart that can discover itself and show you the way, and a peaceful and steady mind.

Young people, you shouldn't be so worried! It should be sunny and carefree! So don't worry, even if the sky falls, you have to learn to be calm, because it's useless to cry and shout, and it's still very good to ask yourself from time to time!

The main purpose of what I am talking about is to have an optimistic, steady attitude, not to be surprised, and to deal with it calmly.

2.Also, when you're quiet, think about what you're really interested in, what you're willing to spend your life fighting for. It's really important, but it's the hardest.

Think about it, analyze it in combination with your own character, your own life, and your dreams. I'm sure you'll get it!

may you success!

Classmates, I don't know what major you are a student in.

1.In fact, everyone has been confused. This is quite normal.

2.Participate in more activities in college, spend more time with your classmates, and you will definitely miss this time in the future. When I was in college, I spent more time studying, sometimes playing ball with my classmates, but playing less games, and then I regretted it a little because watching them play games, it was really interesting.

Of course, don't indulge in !! Some people just play games in addition to classes, which is not good). I have classmates who can better study and play with me.

It's best that way. In addition, you can play ball or something, basketball, badminton, table tennis, you can do it. Just a hobby.

3.Learning is also a must. Of course, if you don't study well, it may be that you have the wrong method, and in addition, many majors in the university itself are more difficult.

A lot of it is self-taught. In class, listen to the teacher and write down some important points. Then after class, I have to read books by myself, go to the library to borrow textbooks, reference books, etc.

If you don't understand something, don't be too entangled. It is necessary to improve the efficiency of learning. If you feel that you really can't study, then you can't help it, because there are indeed some people who are not suitable for studying, in fact, most people in universities are like this.

Summary: It's good that you have such an idea in your sophomore year. The suggestion is to balance learning and playing, and to be active. A hobby or two of your own!

Learn the right way. In college, learning is important, but not the only one, and in college, you also need to learn how to get along with others, cultivate your various abilities, and so on. Sometimes it's even more important!

Play with a good schedule, games, and sports.

Of course, you can also participate in clubs and volunteer activities.

In addition, it is important to find what you are suitable for, not everyone is suitable for graduate school and research, and some people may be better at interpersonal communication, while others are more hands-on. So at this time, you have to try more, and what you said in the summary above is actually telling you to try more things.

One word. You still haven't found or decided on your purpose in life.

You have to know that only when you have a goal will you not lose your way.

360 lines of the line out of the champion.

There's definitely a line that you like and that works for you

It is advisable to filter and measure your goals based on your personal interests and personality

In fact, it is because you resist reading books, because you think reading is boring and uninteresting, and you don't make entertainment interesting. So invisibly you yourself have rejected the matter of reading, you have to let yourself accept the matter of reading, if you keep rejecting it, then you can't concentrate, so you tell yourself: accept your fate, I accept reading.

If you train like this, you will get better when you convince yourself.

It's normal to be confused, don't say anything else, if you want to take the graduate school entrance examination, let go of the others now, and concentrate on the study and review of the graduate school entrance examination, it must be okay, nothing can't be done. That's how I am. Good luck.

Everybody feels lost, and some people are dozens of years old, and they've lived their whole lives, and they're just as confused, and that's normal.

And the wonderful thing about life is that you never know what's going to happen in the future, what's going to happen in the next second, and you're going to like a life where you know the outcome, and if you know everything from the beginning, then it's going to lose all meaning.

Peace of mind, do what you love and cherish every minute.

Don't get confused, learn more skills in school, reading books is the easiest time in school. Because once you graduate and enter society, it is difficult to read books anymore. Learn a second degree or something,。。

Focus on your studies and don't think too much.

It's normal to be confused, and people who may have graduated for many years don't know what the meaning of their existence is, what they want to pursue, what they want to do in the future, and how to live their lives.

Participate in clubs and take more certificates related to your major to pave the way for future job hunting.

Maybe it's because you haven't found your way yet. A place to learn, then you can't just find something to learn seriously? You can also participate in some club activities or something, and some clubs are quite fun, and often organize trips.

If you're a quieter person, then the bubble library is still good. Communicate a little more with your classmates, maybe then you can find what you are looking for.

Skip class less, read more books, and don't be confused in your senior year.

Join a club, communicate with people more, and keep yourself busy.

No, you will feel more and more friends.

For me, who has come before.

I think university is a place to learn how to learn, and in addition to that, I have learned the basic principles of dealing with people.

Because no matter which subject you study, after graduation, you will feel that the things you learn are basically outdated, and you don't need them or use them very little in your work and life. What do you think about the way you were given by your university teacher is just a way of thinking about these kinds of questions, not the answers to them?

In addition, we are basically in the pure learning state of the school before the university, and rarely contact with other social communication and people, the university also provides such a platform, so that our social skills and the real society interface, so that we will not just enter the society on the nose of a gray, so the various social activities in the university are not to distract your attention, but to provide you with an internship opportunity before entering the society, do not avoid it, face it, in order to shape the complete you, go on!