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People are like that. Be good no matter what. So learn to listen more and watch more.

This is a very normal phenomenon, in the process of communication often occurs in the situation, trust a person, often will relax the vigilance, so in work and life, to often raise the sleeves, to be always unremitting.

The vast majority of people are like this, very few people will guard against people who are good to you, so there are many people who have been deceived, now think about what the ancients said, the heart of harm must not have, the heart of preventing people is very reasonable. When we usually interact with others, you should be good to others if they are good to you, but it is still necessary to have a certain degree of vigilance.

It shows that you are soft-hearted and a kind person, but you must have a heart and not hurt others, but you must be vigilant, this is the best protection for yourself.

That's not the question you're asking. I don't know what you're asking. I'm guessing you're trying to ask if you're such a person, and then do it, is it good or bad?

Of course, there are good and bad, it is best to maintain a vigilant heart and not let your guard down, because sometimes the good of others to you is a routine and a trap.

You can't see it. Always so soft-hearted. I have never had the idea of eating a trench and growing wise.

Imagine people to be too kind. People have also figured it out, in your heart. So often treat you as the object of bullying.

You have to learn to analyze. The evasion avoids the confrontation.

Prove that you are a simple person, an honest person.

Yes, sometimes it's a blessing to suffer, so take your time.

If it's fake, you'll be fooled because you think he's a good person, with too little experience and too little experience.

People have to trust each other.

Professionalism is more serious, and can grasp oneself well, so in the work requirements for perfection. So I'm afraid that others will have a negative attitude towards me.

Actually, this is not good, because you are too cautious, too cautious will also affect your judgment, affect your choice of things.

People can't have such a strong guard, as the saying goes, you can't have the heart of harming people, you can't have the heart of guarding against people, but if you prevent it too much, you will wrap yourself up, if you want to think so, he will say hurt me, I won't be less meaty, nothing will be affected, so that you will slowly adjust your emotions.

I felt that I was very defensive.

Usually suspicious and sensitive.

It may be that you are not confident enough.

Suggesting that people all have different personalities.

And the experience is also different.

But no matter what, build enough self-confidence.

You can change that.

This is that you are too entangled in yourself, not that others care, but that you can't let go of yourself.

I'll give you a suggestion, since you know that this is not right, then you must know how not to show sensitivity and suspicion, so try to put this emotion in the mind, first deal with it peacefully, and then slowly think about whether this is not good for you, if you don't understand, send it to the Internet to ask, ask what everyone thinks, I believe your situation will gradually improve. There will be bad people in this world, but there are also good people, don't miss everyone who really wants to help you.

Live too carefully, this is not a strong sense of vigilance, but an occupational disease, maybe it has something to do with your work, maybe it has something to do with your living environment! Be a man, be happy, don't be suspicious, not a spy, put your mentality right, and let it be natural together!

In fact, you are wary of others, do not believe in others, you will be unhappy, and will not have any impact on others, people get along with others, that is, mutual, you don't trust others, after a long time, everyone understands you, knows your personality and temper, and will keep a distance from you, your friends will be fewer, and you will become more and more lonely.

Everyone is quite busy, not so many people have so much time to hurt you, it is better to open your heart and embrace the sun.

This is a sign of insecurity, no self-confidence, you have to get in touch with society.

Tolerance is not morality, but awareness. Only by having a deep understanding of things can we have an understanding and understanding of the complexity of people and the world, and only then can we have the habit of thinking that we do not easily criticize and praise. Love work, devote yourself to your career, in the process, suppress selfishness, cultivate personality, and accumulate experience at the same time.

Cancer is too suspicious and will not take other people's words to heart to cause such a result.

The Capricorn is a sign that is not willing to trust others easily. They live in their own world and have their own understanding.

The Sagittarius woman is prone to making bad decisions, mainly because the contact with the opposite sex is not long, he has already made a judgment about love, sometimes love is not as simple as you think, it just doesn't feel enough to support you for a long time The love continues, and it is more important to consider whether the two people are mature enough to take on the responsibilities of marriage and life. What Sagittarius fears most is qualitative love. His essence is to appreciate freedom.

They love a barrier-free life and pursue a sense of freedom. Sagittarius with golden flames, red free spirits, and enthusiasm. If suddenly someone enters his world, destroys his life and instructs you, orders you, he cannot do this, puts all the rules on the table, then he will definitely collapse.

The Sagittarius is really good at calculating, but there are people whose perception is absolutely anomalous, namely Aquarius.

Sagittarius is always intuitive and unable to get along with others, he can see at a glance what the other person wants to do

Sagittarius is a sign that is easy to trust others, and at the same time easy to be deceived, because, as long as there is a reasonable rule to follow in what you say, they will not have a skeptical attitude and are easily moved, so it is easy to be taken advantage of by friends or colleagues。Direct talking, a love of making friends, traveling, adventurous and new things are also characteristics of Sagittarius, but they also have the trait of forgetting friends.

Such a Sagittarius opponent will be complicated, because it seems that every time a Sagittarius is shot, but every time it is a magical post-production, so the Sagittarius tricks do not matter, and again and again the Sagittarius can only give up.

Sagittarius is very sensitive in his heart, emotional deception, and even dating other members of the opposite sex behind his back, the feelings are not pure, and there is no drama at all. Love without trust cannot be sustained for Sagittarius, and Sagittarius will think that you are a watery poplar woman or an amorous flower.

Sagittarius hates the feeling of being deceived, whether it is deceived by their own relatives and friends or their lovers, it will make them feel very uncomfortable, so never cheat on a Sagittarius

In love, if a person is deceived, then his feelings may collapse completely. The biggest fear of these three zodiac signs is being deceived, and if they are deceived, they may be strangers to that person for the rest of their lives.

1. Taurus.

Although Taurus people are down-to-earth, they are pure at heart. They are not people who want nothing, they love someone and hope that the other person is sincere, and Taurus wants to exchange sincerity for sincerity. If the other person is not sincere, it will lower their impression in the first place.

When they fall in love, they will first think about whether this person is reliable, if there are traces of wandering in the fireworks and willow lane, if there is a place where the eyes flash, if there is a situation where the preface does not match the afterword, they will generally decisively refuse, because what Taurus want to see most is an honest face.

If you cheat on a Taurus, you will never be able to win back their hearts. Because honesty is an obvious bottom line with Taurus and cannot be touched. Dishonesty means that you are not connected to them and can no longer enter their world.

What is the first limit of love? For the Taurus, honesty is the first thing, and deception can never be forgiven. It's their character, it's their style, and they can never change.

2. Cancer.

Cancerians are very sensitive to love. They usually strive to pursue what they love, even with a desire to possess, hoping that the person in front of them can bring them infinite happiness, be able to hand themselves a glass of water when they are sick, and be able to laugh together when they are happy. They have high hopes for this person and want to carry on their love to the end.

But that's exactly what they do, and they don't want the other person to deceive themselves. The deeper the love, the deeper the demand for this. Deception is their untouchable minefield.

The consequences of being deceived by a Cancer are very serious. They generally don't believe in love anymore, and that pain will spread throughout their lives. If they get divorced, they may not be able to extricate themselves for a long time.

Ten years later, they may still not be considered because feelings seem to have become very scary for them. That old scar is engraved in the bottom of my heart and can never be erased, until the end of my life, love becomes far away.

3. Pisces.

Pisces are the most sensitive in the emotional world, and they live with a skeptical attitude and a wavering attitude towards love. If the lover deceives himself, even the slightest timidity when speaking will arouse their suspicions. Pisces are the least perfunctory to anyone.

If you talk in a slurred manner, then they will definitely break the casserole and ask the truth to the end.

After being deceived, they are in a very bad mood and generally do not trust each other easily. But they don't break with it right away, they try to figure out why. But even after knowing the reason, they still won't forgive each other.

In other words, from the very beginning, they formed an inseparable hatred with it. As a result of being deceived, they will withdraw from the stage of love forever, and there will be no hope of even being friends. They are inherently impatient, and they do not allow their dignity to be harmed, even if only in the slightest.

1, Taurus.

Taurus is a very insecure sign, the reason why they are self-reliant, independent, and never rely on others is because they feel that no one is reliable, and no one can give him a full sense of security, so he would rather pin his hopes on himself, rather believe in himself, and only himself is the most worthy of reliance.

2, Leo.

Don't blame Leo for being scheming and deep, in fact, they are not afraid of being deceived, because they have been deceived since childhood, so they don't want to be deceived anymore, so no one believes it in their hearts. If you want to gain the trust of a Leo, you must stand the test, you have to share the ups and downs with him, you have to go through many things with him, the most important thing is to be silently guarding him when he needs you.

3. Libra.

Many people say that Libra is a sign that is difficult to be moved, no matter how good you are to him, he still doesn't believe you, there is only one way to say that Libra is good 9 times, and if he is bad 1 time, he will think that you are not good to him, so some people complain that Libra is too conscienceless, in fact, they are caused by injuries they suffered when they were children, and it is difficult to be moved because of a serious lack of love.

4. Aries.

Aries is sensitive and fragile, very susceptible to external circumstances, and he is the same person who lacked love when he was a child, others may be able to come out of the shadows, but he can't, as long as he is hurt by one person, he will be suspicious of a group of people, so when a new person approaches him, he will be wary, very afraid that he will be deceived, so he does not dare to let go of the courage to love.

Some people are too affected by the environment when they are young, and after being hurt once, they will be branded with a shadow in their hearts, no matter how good others are to him, it is difficult to be touched again, so they are very afraid of being deceived, on the one hand, they will be sad, on the other hand, they will care most about their self-esteem, they will feel that they are too stupid, and they will constantly blame themselves, so they will wrap themselves heavily.

1st place Leo.

Leo is warm and sunny, has a straightforward personality, and hates beating around the bush. Leo hates hypocrisy even more, and hates deception the most. If you deceive them, they will explode, and there will be absolutely no good fruit to eat. My wife is a Leo, that's it.

2nd place Cancer.

Cancer is very tolerant and lenient, just don't deceive them, once you find out that you are cheating on her, she will get angry and never be close to you again. By the time you cheat on a Cancer, you have already started to lose her.

3rd place Aries.

Aries is straight and smart. If they find out that you are lying to her, she will not expose you to your face. But there will be a shadow in the psyche, and it will keep a distance from you in the future, and it will be impossible to get closer to you.

1st place: Taurus.

Taurus people themselves are honest and trustworthy people, when it comes to deception may be the most hateful thing in the dictionary of their lives, of course, the so-called deception is actually to achieve a certain goal, Taurus people are completely unable to accept the deception of others, kind and honest they have always been sincere, once deceived by others, it may stimulate their good nature, will make them have the good nature they have.

2nd place: Aries.

Aries is straightforward and generous, they can tolerate a person's bad habits, but they are always unable to accept the deception of others, if it is a deception based on trust, then Aries will blame themselves, and never dare to believe that the person they trust so much will be **, after accepting the facts, Aries may leave a lesson for themselves, will not let themselves trust people so easily, of course, it is not completely unbelievable.

3rd place: Capricorn.

Capricorn is a very practical and pragmatic sign, and you will feel that they are careful and kind when you get along with them, they are also very good talkers, and they are also good at helping people who are more difficult than themselves, they have a very weak heart, and they are most afraid of being deceived and lied, so they will not know how to face it, so they will know how to use their appearance to disguise themselves and not let others deceive them, and they can distinguish the cause and effect of things and know how to deal with them.